PR I can't see a squint in that photo. Hello little tooth, may the rest of your comrades emerge in peace.
Chasing sorry your day sounds a bit pants.
VQ hope J picks up soon - good idea to get him checked out.
Detective 
and more - the only time we have had those nights have been on reflux days. I have no bright ideas, but agree O needs checking over.
Lily - you know that someone is here all hours of the day and night (even if we're just hitting refresh and not posting) so if you need to vent, or a hand to hold, then the quiche is here. When the time is right, you will be able to let the emotions out. So much of the first year after bereavement is about just coping and getting through each day, that you cannot even begin to process how you are feeling.
Poor wee refluxer has had an ok day - largely propped up on me. It was a lovely sunny afternoon, and we were visiting friends - shame I had to sit inside, but had lovely cuddles with D and read my book whilst everyone else played cricket. Icecreams were dealt out - I had a dairy free ice lolly, which F freakin loved. Licked it to death. Then shrieked when I wouldn't let her have any more. Bless her.