Hello all,
Am typing this inbetween putting A back into her fecking new bed, an hour and 15mins and counting so far. I just went up and she was kneeling on the windowsill looking outside
This is doing my head in.
Visit to pil was ok, as expected but they are very well meaning all in all. A loved it, really enjoyed seeing her cousins and we managed to pop in to see my mum on the way home :)
We are going to lanzarote with my mum, sis and her dp in August, my mum very kindly paid as we would have no hope of going abroad otherwise! Am half looking forward to it (of course) and half dreading A being a lunatic on the plane/diving into the deep end of the pool 
Just quickly - emksi don't doubt yourself re: your mum, her comparing you to her horrible mum is just a way for her to hurt you. Hope you're ok.
ledkr poor D, how is she now?
I have noticed a couple of my fb friends have shared a pie chart of 'actual welfare spending' - the person who did it was my line managers manager at my old work place!
I have just threatened A with the naughty step if she keeps getting out of bed...
now that's desperate! 