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StuntNun · 29/01/2013 12:21

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StuntNun · 31/01/2013 08:04

What time of day will you be away Chick? If it's after lunch time then I would express first thing in the morning so that all the milk is being used the same day. If you think you wouldn't get enough milk in one go then maybe express a small amount 1-2 oz a day over several days and then combine in into one or two bottles. The extra small amount a day won't affect your supply enough to make a big difference to you. HTH.

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Titsalinabumsquash · 31/01/2013 08:07

Morning everyone Smile

All is going well here, I've turfed DP's office out of our bedroom and we've redone the house so we have a smaller dining room but a downstairs office and our bedroom is now a bedroom with a proper nursery in it, J is sleeping so much better in his cot and he has rolling! Grin
FIL also got me a beautiful new nursing chair! It glides so nicely and is really comfy.

I went to the GP regarding contraceptive and have basically been told I can't have anything except the POP, they're not willing to give me a other coil after falling pregnant on it, hopefully the POP will be alright, I need to stick with it for 3 months before giving up because its making me feel like death.
Although the lovely GP gave me cream for. My stupid face of acne so fingers crossed it works.

12 weeks here, finally starting to feel a little more human. :)

kirrinIsland · 31/01/2013 08:08

horsey I've got the ergo, it great. Much better for when they are a bit bigger as it spreads the weight nicely. And you can put him on your back with it too.

N started well but after her first wake up she went back to hourly stints. This is exhausting (sorry VQ )
Does anyone else have near constant headaches? I'm assuming it's cos I'm tired, and eating too much crap.

Bryzoan · 31/01/2013 08:11

Horsey - I tried my sil's ergo the other day. The back is very low on the baby - def would need the insert to start with. I was surprised not to like it as much as I thought I would. I'm hoping to try a boba for comparison.

horseylady · 31/01/2013 08:11

Kirrin - where did you get it from?! It seems a lot are 'fakes'

kirrinIsland · 31/01/2013 08:12

chick I express in the morning and only ever get 2-3ozs which is frustrating but it does mean that if I don't do it one day for whatever reason, I don't notice any difference to my supply - I don't feel extra full or anything. I had to collect it over several days to get enough to leave N for my interview - also about 3 hours.

kirrinIsland · 31/01/2013 08:17

I got mine off eBay. New but half price because they'd just brought out a new version and mine was the old one!
bryzoan I had to used the cushion part of the insert for quite some time with DD1, because she was so low in it - I didn't bother with the whole thing though, to keep the bulk down. It's definitely best to try a few different ones though to find what works best for you. Especially as they can be so expensive!

Evilwater · 31/01/2013 08:18

Well what a night, up at 1,3 and 5, 730 and then 8.
Evil

Sophiathesnowfairy · 31/01/2013 08:21

detective O seems to want to cut back on his feeds to during a growth spurt. I try to split his feed up to fool him. He also gets really "colicky" whatever that is. I am going to try the Aptamil Comfort today I think.

I have been know to have escapee farts too detective Blush much to the hilarity of my family.

[Biscuit]Have just put a load of washing on and thinking the washing machine is making a strange noise, went to investigate only to discover I have put it on Special shoes cycle. [Confused] WTF. I wouldn't be putting any special shoes in the washing machine. I have turned it off in the hope it forgets what I did and will restart it shortly.

I never see anyone of fame, even though I live close to a number of people of fame and my friends next door neighbour is Billy Ocean! ( if anyone actually remembers him.) I have been known to hang around in Sunningdale Waitrose in the hope of bumping into Jeremey Kyle. To no avail.

Brockle · 31/01/2013 08:21

back to sleep, what is that? three kids dressed, knights outfit in carrier bag for DS2, lunches done and by the door and pots washed. Now have to get out enormous pram, get everyone out of the door ad do the school run. Hello day! Smile

Sophiathesnowfairy · 31/01/2013 08:24

Angry rant icon.

This house is so F small is driving me crazy. But my main bugbear s they only collect the bloody bin alternate weeks. So landfill waste one week, recycling the next. Both my bins are so full they have their lids open. I often have to pop to the tip and I always have a recycling bag full in the kitchen.

Gggrrrrrrr

And half of the bloody recycling is crap that comes through the door.

How do I reduce my waste when I have 2 often 4 children in the house and 2 in nappies?

Sophiathesnowfairy · 31/01/2013 08:24

Going to the tip has be one an activity to involve DS1 in!

KatieLily12 · 31/01/2013 08:26

I've rented the manduca and hate it. It nearly killed my back. Want to try the boba and ergo too.

chick you are literally round the corner! Fancy a stroll round Brockwell park soon? Wow can't believe there's a few locals here!

Off to north London to meet a friend as well as attempt another nap in cot. Expect me to be Eeyore like later....

horseylady · 31/01/2013 08:28

Sophia - look at what you throw away? Lots of food? Can you fold boxes down, squash tins etc? Kirrin thanks looking on eBay!

Sophiathesnowfairy · 31/01/2013 08:31

I really try not to throw away food and since i have been planning my meals for the week there is less food waste. but yes horsey i will keep an eye. it would be better if I had a waste disposal, but it is mainly packaging tbh.

horseylady · 31/01/2013 08:38

I was thinking more birds in the garden!! Or if you have a local farm with pigs they will take everything that doesn't contain meat!! I have people drop veg off for the pigs or chickens.

Must say though my landfill bin has been full since ds arrived! A lot of that is also me decluttering!!

Sophiathesnowfairy · 31/01/2013 08:50

I will check out the pig farm. Could be an idea. I know when we get to NI there are pigs. In fact am hoping to have a pig to fatten up.............Grin

Thechick · 31/01/2013 08:53

zcos I'm not hard and from London,
Katie someone attacked you for bf, that's disgusting. Did you say anything? I had to bf H on a busy train once, no one seemed to care, well I don't think they did.

Last set of jabs today. Boo!!

PurplePidjin · 31/01/2013 08:58

Sophia, would you be able to use reusable nappies during the day if not full time? Would save some money long term as well as saving bin space if you're a slattern not fussed like me you can bung them in with clothes at 40*. Mine dry on radiators over night.

Nervous

gardenpixie32 · 31/01/2013 09:27

daisy, mine were 6 weeks early. I have been reading up on weaning prem babies. I looked at the Bliss website but they don't have any info on BLW, just purees.

I have spoken to a few twin mums with prem babies and they have said that BLW didn't work for them because their motor skills weren't developed enough and the babies hunger was greater than their abilities to feed themselves. Mine are quite obviously behind with motor skills. They have started sitting in their Bumbos but don't like it very much and get fed up after 5 mins. I think holding their heads for so long is too much for them. They chew on their fists but are yet to grasp anything in them. I keep putting things into their hands but they are not remotely interested and don't grasp it. They are also very wobbly and seem more like a 10 week old than a nearly 18 week old. But I suppose that is because their corrected age is only 11 weeks.

I plan to see how their motor skills develop then reassess nearer 24-26 weeks. I will probably start with purees and offer a big variety of finger foods at every meal then get rid of purees once they can feed themselves. Seeing the pediatrician next week, I will pick his brains and see what he says.

What are your DS's motor skills like? Does he seem a bit behind to you?

ChunkyChicken · 31/01/2013 09:49

Have just had a tear-soaked conversation with DH whilst he's at work. Think he may have actually listened to me finally!!! It was triggered by my DD drawing over the tv stand with glitter glue whilst I'm upstairs showering. It made me cross at her & then DH. He never has to interrupt a shower or organise childcare if he wants time off at the weekend (or indeed, at all). DD I have forgiven - it was toddler stuff & no harm done. But DH heard about it!! I mean, if I said to him every Saturday from now until April I'm going out, would that be fair? Would he be ok with that? Hell no!! He's going to come up with a "solution"...Hmm

KatieLily12 · 31/01/2013 09:50

bryzoan that cover looks fab. I think I'm dressing LO way too warm but then I don't have a cover. Hmmmm

chick you asked me about Kings? They're amazing. We transferred from UCL who were dire.
Also, yes I was attacked for BF! We went out for distraction with a friend when LOs nursing strike was at its worst. I was practically in tears anyway & the stupid cow nearly fell over the high chair for my friends LO to get to me. I might have completely kicked off. I was so raw as it was.

Thechick · 31/01/2013 09:53

Just skimming going to catch up properly later. Katie that sounds like a great idea. Or they do baby cinema at the ritzy on a Friday.

I have an ergo but LO is too little for it but too big for the insert so will need to wait another couple of weeks. We have a mei tai too but LO doesn't like it and didn't like the moby either that we borrowed from a sling library.

PetiteRaleuse · 31/01/2013 09:54

Wow, just caught up.

Erm, where to start. I'm not from London, but lived in Balham for a year before moving back to France, and that is when I had my Fridge experience. I don't know if I am hard or not. Will have to think about that one. Have definitely never been as hard as VQ that job would have scared me, it's bad enough going into prison to visit someone but to work there full time would be my worst nightmare.

We had our second jabs this morning - went like a dream. LO has moved up to 75th centile for weight but down a little for height. Meh. She looks fine that's all that matters. The Dr checked up her head injury and that is looking OK too. Reassured me that dropping babies is commonplace but what is even more commonplace at this age is falling off changing tables.

Two weekly bin collections is rubbish. Here both recycling and the bins gets picked up every week. In Paris the bins are collected several times a week, or were when I lived there. When I lived in Balham our bins were picked up once a week only but there was a real fox problem. Must be even worse now.

Anyone in Kent? If you're in Kent can you recommend a dog friendly B&B between Folkestone and London? I'll need to break my journey on my way up north. There are several on line but recommendations are welcome. Dog perfectly well behaved, can't say the same about the children, or at least one of them.

GT I've said it before but I don't know how you put up with your ILs living with you all the time. Mine were going to stay for almost three weeks after LO was born but left less than a week after I came home from hospital as we were really starting to get on each other's nerves. It was horrible. They came to help but just criticised pretty much everything we did, and when, five days after the section I winced as I sat on the sofa my MIL said it can't still be hurting now can it? As if I was faking the pain. Erm, yes, five days after surgery when you've only got paracetamol to help still is pretty painful. I won't go into details, partly because I have a sneaking suspicion she stalks me on here (and must use translator to switch it to French as her English is crap isn't brilliant) but they left when I put my foot down and I said that no, DD1 doesn't need to see a shrink and be given sleeping pills after one bad night the nighht her baby sister comes home from hospital, and yet I am the one starting to feel guilty, but every time we see each other it is the same thing. And SIL is even worse. They live right on the other side of the country and have told us they might come and visit again one day but not for a long time . Bt we are starting to think that the kids need their GPs etc so I don't know. Maybe we'll go down and see them in the summer but it will end in tears. So, GT I honestly don't know how you do it and stay relatively sane. Agh, My shoulders and neck literally start to hurt when I think about their last visit. It was three months ago!

MissMummy1 · 31/01/2013 09:58

Day 11 poonami just errupted on DP Grin .

Heck, brown sugar in water sure does work!!!

I'm not sure where would be a good half way point fellow scots but there'a a lovely child friendly farm shop just the other side of the road bridge that would probably be closer than Ikea for you Stirling folks if that's any better?

I can only really do Wednesdays and Fridays. Or Thursday afternoons.