My dh bought me a mulberry bag for my push present . Bless him he panicked during the birth as I was in such a state and he was so scared when I had to go into theatre. He was saying whole loads of stuff to try calm me and one of which was I'll buy you a designer bag' .... Unfortunately for him howver tramatic the birth was, i remembered afterwards andI held him to it! Haha
Dh is also opposite to most other dh re night duties. He is a 'confused' sleeper . He often sleep talks and when he gets woken abruptly he gets very confused !! So not only does he wakes when she murmurs sometimes he just shoots up and starts getting up unnecessarily and go to change baby thinking I told him too and I often have to tell him no need she's sleeping!
Our normal routine is that he gets up to check/change nappy while I wake myself up and get boob out ready to feed. Normally if she does a 1am and then a 4pm feed u would try do the 4pm feed/change on my own so that he gets a least a longer stretch of sleep but this is only during the week when he has to work.
Oohh on an exciting front , she had he first night time feed at 10pm and slept till 3am!!! It's a record stretch!!!! We're also using our grobag for the first time.... Wondering whether its that! Gonna ask a question about gro bags but will leave till the morning.
Right gonna try get some kip 😊