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Smorgs · 02/01/2013 19:36

This really will be the thread where all our babies start sleeping through the night... right?!

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BoraBora · 10/01/2013 19:59

I kind of hoping it is my period. Would explain my vile mood and the fact I've put weight on despite being on a diet..

Angelico · 10/01/2013 20:26

Not yet Honey as first book is only coming out :) Maybe if you're just starting your PhD though...! Wink I'd be interested to know your research premise - you could pm it if you like :)

On weaning, HV said any time after 17 weeks is fine, in spite of the 6 month guideline. I'm guessing by 5 months our bean will take a bit of baby rice as she's already at the 'watching like a hawk while we eat' stage! I also read that it's worth waiting till they stop instinctively pushing everything out of their mouths with their tongue.

Angelico · 10/01/2013 20:28

Bora I meant to say earlier - be careful that you are eating enough calories. I read somewhere that dieting when BFing can really backfire as you do actually need quite a few calories otherwise your body clings on to everything. Will try and find the article again. But hormones probably are to blame - my stomach got really bloated at the weekend and I was well pissed off trying on jeans! It's back to 'normal' just lard no bloat again now that AF has arrived.

BoraBora · 10/01/2013 20:28

I can't believe we're talking about weaning already!

I'm planning BLW, and as late as possible. Remember their poo becomes much, much more how?! I hear you cry offensive once they're on solids. Yet another reason to delay as long as possible.

BoraBora · 10/01/2013 20:32

I'm eating a minimum of 1700, and eating and calories earned from exercise (am using myfitnesspal). I wouldn't mind if its just stayed the same, but am freaked out by GAINING 2lb HmmHmmHmm

Beccus · 10/01/2013 20:36

londonmrss, i am also feeling skanky. mat clothes don't fit & too fat for normal clothes. i am so bored of tjr few clothes i can wear. i cant afford regular trips to or figure out how to get myself to hairdressor & am hating all my greys. saw a recent pic of myself and i look old & tired - need to start digging out the make up! happy to say i've lost another 2lb. bora, i am just trying to reduce pm carbs & generally not eat crap. doing loads of walking. have wax booked for sat - will be good to feel like less of a gorilla. am setting alarm to get up early so i have time to shower and wash and blowdry my hair

Londonmrss · 10/01/2013 22:23

Grin Grin Grin Beccus for a second I thought you meant blowdry your pubic hair... I'm almost at that stage!

That reminds me of a book I found years ago in a charity shop- one of those housewife instructional manuals published in the 50s. It was called ' How To Please a Man in Bed'. I bought it immediately obviously. The final chapter was 'Top Tips' and the very last bullet point was 'why not try plaiting fresh flowers into your pubic hair?'
Seriously- this book was genuine. Wish I still had it.

BoraBora · 10/01/2013 22:32

I cannot believe you for rid of this book....

50s? 60s, surely?

Londonmrss · 10/01/2013 22:39

It was ahead of its time...

BoraBora · 10/01/2013 22:45

Was it illustrated?

Londonmrss · 10/01/2013 22:49

sadly not... apart from the lady on the cover who was holding a teapot suggestively.

BoraBora · 10/01/2013 22:56

Brings a whole new level of meaning to the term 'lady garden'...

Cherrychopsticks · 10/01/2013 22:57

That's hilarious London! You have to find that book Grin Did it have pictures?!

I'm sooo bored of my clothes too Beccus. I used to like wearing jumper dresses in winter, but can't really do that now because of BF.
And we have to take our shoes off here a lot, so I can only wear certain footwear that is easy to remove/put on whilst juggling a baby. It takes over everything!

We do get sun year round Elpis, not hot in winter but usually sunny.

Interesting about France Smorgs. I'm supposed to be giving VitK weekly til 3 months, but DS aspirated it really badly one time. It scared the shit out of me and I've been a bit lax since.Blush

Hooray for sleep Livvy!!

FjordMor · 10/01/2013 23:18

Popping in to say 'hi' before I get the next ear-piercing 'Bee-Ayyyyy!!!' (that is what DD shouts when she wants me. I think it's what she's 'named' me). She's going through a bit of a 'yeah, yeah Pappa/sister/other people you're very nice and all but I just want my mum' phase. Which is bloody lovely I admit - no-one's ever wanted me this much! , whilst time-consuming, rather nice. She's resisting going down early at the moment and wants booby before sleep often now rather than self-settling. I'm trying to give her lots of cuddles so she realises she doesn't have to breastfeed to get that cosy snuggle with me (which is often all it is - she latches on to fall asleep and doesn't take any milk).

She got a bumbo today. I'll try to put a pic in the group tomorrow. She went from looking distinctly unimpressed, to shocked to air-punches and big smiles but she's still not quite strong enough in the neck to sit in it for all that long or without my hand nearby.

Bora - my period was more or less exactly as they were before BFP but about 1 day shorter and with a few less signs before it came.

cheesey - we did baby massage but probably a little earlier than recommended (7/8 weeks?) and she slept through a couple of the classes. When I finally did get her on the mat to try some she also did 2 subsequent poonamis at the end of class! It was hilarious - a bit like a yoga class with babies farting left, right and centre. I guess it relaxes everything! Wink Mostly I made a couple of really good friends going to it so it was win/win all round.

Also feeling shit about the way I look but I was also feeling shit about it before pregnancy...during pregnancy...Doing as much about it as I can but part of me is trying not to care too much. As long as I avoid shop windows, full length mirrors (or any mirrors) and letting people take photographs of me, I manage not to focus on it too much. Am trying to lose a fair bit of weight though (half-heartedly at the moment until I'm allowed to do proper exercise again). Went power-walking with prams with my friend 'Scottish mummy' the other day and felt great afterwards so that's a start. Also had my highlights done not long before the birth but am also in the 'hair falling out by the handful' crew. Will my lovely newly thick hair last? Guessing not :( Needless to say, I'm never remembering to brush it so it constantly looks like a haystack. Am getting make-up on sometimes (hallelujah to mineral make-up!) and shaving legs when the sight of a bit of my own ankle brings a bit of vom up...

Livvy - so glad you had a great night's sleep. Once I did I found my perception of how I coped with or would cope with stuff went up like 75%. I'm also a sleep-needer. I'm a zombie without minimum 7 hours a night. I'm getting lots right now thank god (although it's never that deep with her beside me in the MB) so however high maintenance she is during the day, I manage somehow to find the patience and peace of mind to stay fairly chipper (most of the time). Hope it continues for you! x

londonmrs - chortled at the weaved flowers! Perhaps that's how the term 'ladygarden' came about? Grin

Not going to weigh in much on the weaning/blw chat. I'll follow the recommended weaning guidelines here in Norway. I don't ebf so there's not particular merit in me holding out as long as possible. Is formula better than food? I'd be inclined to think not. I don't agree with 'force spoon-feeding' babies and think letting them try things themselves that aren't pureed is a very good idea but I don't really agree with some of the main ethos of blw. However, don't want to get into a debate about it as people feel very strongly about blw and sometimes the language gets a bit 'this is right, this is wrong' so I'll leave my input at that. I respect what everyone else chooses for themselves. Hope we all will. I'll share what I end up doing on here if people don't say things like 'please don't do that' or 'please do that'.

FjordMor · 10/01/2013 23:19

Cross-posted obvs...didn't realised the lady-garden joke had already been made! Wink

FjordMor · 10/01/2013 23:36

'Realise' - grrr

Smorgs · 11/01/2013 06:43

11 hour sleep klaxon Grin

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londonlivvy · 11/01/2013 07:01

wow smorgs. wow.

Londonmrss · 11/01/2013 07:29

wow smorgs, great news.
sleep had officially regressed here. she was for the last 3 weeks doing a 6 hour block followed by a 3 hour block every night. this last week she's doing 3 hour blocks only every night and is awake and ready to play at 5am. ugh. I have a headache.
does anyone know why this happens and how to go back to the good sleep? nothing has changed. she's 11 weeks today.

hufflepuffle · 11/01/2013 08:15

Wow wow Smorgs!!!! What age?!

After 2 nights 8 hrs then 7, last night was 3 hr cycles again......... But I think he was in pain Sad Jabs yesterday left him much worse off than first set. Whingy and clingy all evening with random bouts of screeching. Poor little poppet. Poor mummy with dodgy back overnight. Had physio yesterday but u swear I feel much worse today Sad.

However for third night on trot he settled himself to sleep within half hour of last feed. This is such a relief

Have a good day all, tis nearly the weekend and reinforcements will be available!

hufflepuffle · 11/01/2013 08:20

So London that's where we were til start of week so I really think given others have described similar, that it is related to 12 week growth spurt. Hopefully. Hope your DD snaps back in to good sleeps so suddenly as she did the short ones.DS was 12 weeks on Wed.

YompingJo · 11/01/2013 08:22

Londonmrss, you might be feeling grotty but you look gorgeous in the fb photo of you with sling! I think I can count the days over the last 2 months when I have NOT worn the one pair of jeans that fit, on 1 hand. I have 3 vest tops on rotation, with one of 2 shirts on top. Every morning I have a brief mental struggle where I try to decide between laziness and stylishness. laziness tends to win!

The List is underway! For those not in the Facebook group, it gets confusing trying to match real names from people's fb posts and photos to MN usernames so I am compiling a table of names, usernames, baby's name and birthday, and person's location. Will be particularly handy to stop the panic when someone's little one starts talking and you worry that yours isn't because then you can check the list and remind yourself that yours is 4 weeks younger so it's OK!

If you're not on the fb group but we know when your DC was born (from earlier incarnations of this thread or from the an thread), are you happy for me to include your MN username and your DC's DOB?

YompingJo · 11/01/2013 08:26

Is anyone giving vitamin drops to their baby? My HV keeps suggesting them but it seems weird to me, surely breastmilk contains everything she needs?

Must dash, need to plait flower into pubes before donning same clothes I've worn every day this week...

londonlivvy · 11/01/2013 08:29

last night should have been ok since I went to bed at nine and only had to get up for her at three. but I was wpken at 944, 1030, 130 and then three. and couldn't get back to sleep til about five as brain whirring. and then woke up a further two times. so I'm back to feeling shit. too much admin to do with wedding etc.

why does everyone else's baby sleep for hours and hours and not mine. Sad

chuckling very much at lady garden plaits.

hufflepuffle · 11/01/2013 08:43

Livvy every time I mention good sleep I feel guilty cos I think of minilivvy Blush Blush. When I whined about regression to BF coordinator last week she promptly told me off and said 3 hrs is perfectly normal for 3 month old baby and what did I expect. I'm not telling you off!!!

I think the long sleeps are the exception rather than rule and there are particularly good sleepers here! My DS us certainly totally unpredictable as yet. Is it most likely her reflux? What age is that normal to settle by?

Virtual hug and pretend caffeine your way. She will grow out if it sometime..........