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October babies. Don't get lost

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lisbethsopposite · 08/12/2012 01:11

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WantAnOrange · 24/12/2012 10:58

We've all got threadworms! Oh Joy!

Merry Christmas Hmm Grin

And DS constantly has his fingers in either his arse or his mouth! How are we supposed to break the cycle without kicking him out? lol.

squidkid · 24/12/2012 11:20

Aaaarrggh have bought a live lobster and screamed like girl trying to get it into the fridge and it is going to kill us all!!!!

Smorgs · 24/12/2012 11:32

Squid my dad has just come home with two lobster and I am having just the same thoughts. I've only cooked one once before and I cried afterwards Hmm

In other news, my baby's farts smell like something has crawled up his bottom and died. He hasn't had a poo for days so gearing up for poomageddon.

londonmrss how rubbish for you Sad
wantan I thought threadworms were on your face? Oh. That's thread veins isn't it...

squidkid · 24/12/2012 15:13

Everyone's having such bad luck Sad. Massive sympathies for those with pox-ridden children, cold-ridden children, threadworm-ridden children, shark-feeders, travellers and the sleep-deprived...
I also like bella's game but as I am avoiding all family for christmas day itself I may have to make some late entries.

So... I am having a very little shot of whisky (a really cruel friend gave me a special little bottle of 16-year-old whisky when I was pregnant and this is the first time I've tried it) and wrapping the last couple of presents.

Can I be the first one to wish all of our beautiful babies HAPPY FIRST CHRISTMAS!! A year ago, who'd have thought we'd all be here... crazy stuff. Thinking also of those who are not posting any more and that all is well with them.

Happy Christmas everyone!!

Xmas Smile
hufflepuffle · 24/12/2012 16:02

Londonmrss AArgh!!! Hopefully is just temporary blip and bubs will be so delighted to be back in own bed that will sleep 8 hrs when you home!

Wantan severe sympathies to you! Hope the cycle of arse picking stops soon. Oh god, what I have to look forward to!!

Squid sympathy full stop. Could not do it........ Squeal!!!

Londonlivvy I read your post earlier but did not mention. Poor pet. I am sure you will find a little ray of sunshine somewhere? You have had such a hard time. The pressure of Christmas can just wind a person up beyond when already feeling crap!! Think of it another way, tis nearly 2013 and next year Is a new year when your lovely little girl will change so much and bring you so much joy, we promise.

Yomping, what did GP say??

Londonmrss · 24/12/2012 16:16

ditto what squid said- happy fecking christmas mummies and babies!

YompingJo · 24/12/2012 17:58

Feeling slightly crazy and unhinged today (probably due to sleep deprivation from a third bad night) and finding this thread hilarious! I bet a year ago when we were all thinking dreamily of having tiny babies, and imagining how lovely it would be, we did not picture pox, thread worms, colds, falling-apart boobs, feeding issues, teething, constant sleepless nights... how deluded were we? (the first timers obviously... some of you knew full well what we were in for and didn't warn us, you gits kindly did not rain on our rose tinted parade!)

You've got to laugh, right? else you'll cry. But it's amazing, 3 terrible days and nights here, no block of sleep of more than 2 hours since Friday, more tears from mini Yomping, and less sleep overall, than ever before... but then she has a happier moment and she looks at us and smiles and chats to us, or giggles on her play mat, and instantly, just like that, 3 days of difficulty are erased and it is all completely worth it. Madness Grin. I love being a mum!

Doc reckoned dribbling, gas and nappy rash all due to teething Shock. I'm not convinced, I do think she's teething but I think there's more to it because of the pain in boobs. Was told to use Canasten cream on nipples as well as on her rash, and things have been a bit better today anyway, so I'll give it a go and see if things improve.

So... what a year it has been, a complete rollercoaster. I am so glad to have spent it in the company of all of you on this thread and the previous pregnancy thread. I have laughed with you, cried with you, offered and received advice, sympathy, hugs and Wine. This has become a really important source of support and comfort, a place to come to ask questions, seek reassurance, rant and rave, or to simply share experiences good and bad, achievements, observations, embarrassing moments, TMI moments... Thank you, I am grateful to know you all, October Bean Bakers. Happy Christmas, enjoy the time with your loved ones and new babies - after all, that really is what it is all about.

Yomping xxx Xmas Smile

bella2012 · 24/12/2012 18:01

What a month! We are now in A&E as dh has sliced his thumb really badly. I have had to take my poor pox ridden ds1 to be looked after by my mum and am sitting in the waiting room feeding ds2 amd hoping I will get home to put ds1 to bed. Sigh.

Hope you are all having a better Christmas eve! Xxx

Beccus · 24/12/2012 18:25

zara, did not realise u were 28th as well - the day of the shark :-) hope your ds doesn't have a cold, too. beautiful message, yomping, thank u. hope alice gives u a xmas rest. london, our sleep routine is also shot to shit being away from home. hope it recovers when we get better. livvy, hope you start getting some longer sleeps. bella, your poor dh, he is not having much luck right now :-( i woke up to massive boob leakage this morning. wtf is this at 8 weeks? thought demand/supply was meant to be all sorted now?!

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BoraBora · 24/12/2012 20:10

Well, we're spending Christmas just is three tomorrow. Looking forward to it though am already regretting the food I have eaten and will continue to eat Hmm

Happy Christmas, October Bean Bakers (I like that!)

hufflepuffle · 24/12/2012 20:28

Gah! Wrote message but phone died!!!

No time to reproduce it all!!

Merry Christmas to all, wishing you joys and patience!! I too well remember last Christmas. Tearfully wishing we had a little person to share it with. Well here he is! He doesn't have a clue but the promise of Christmases to come are magic in themselves!!

Bella AARGGH!!! You poor thing and poor DH. Hope he not too badly hurt.

Best wishes and cheers to you all, see you after the festivities!!

X

londonlivvy · 24/12/2012 20:42

Well it has been a gloomy day with DF and I snapping at each other. Him moving back into our room hasn't been a great success as now both of us are tired. though he has been doing the 10pm feed for the last week, I still get woken up, hearing her cry and then him come in. Then he gets woken up in the night when I getup and so on. So anyway, mil is a bloody legend and has offered tonight to do the whole thing. I have expressed off and am going to bed shortly. DF and I will be in separate bedrooms other than tonighti think.

Anyway, thanks for the positive vibes nenehoo, huffle, beccus and bella and I hope she does surprise us by sleeping through soon. The wonder weeks book does say she will sleep less during this period as she's absorbing all this change. DD is 29th so we may join your day of the shark party..

Londonmrss hope you get a nice surprise tonight. I am a bit apprehensive about going to my parents in jan.

Goodness wantanorange, that's not much of an Xmas pressie.

Eek squid you are brave. I did that once and didn't enjoy the experience.

Yomping, absolutely echo your thoughts about how lucky we are and how much I have valued your advice, support and friendship this year. I would have lost the plot without you.

Oh Bella what a nightmare re your DH. Hope all is sorted promptly.

Merry Christmas!

BoraBora · 24/12/2012 21:37

29th here too. She likes to claw my nipple with her devil nails. She sometimes does this whilst head butting me and shouting at me for being in the way. Also gobbles like I've been starving her!

Was there a full moon the 28th/29th?!

MickeyTheShortOne · 24/12/2012 22:42

bit DP and had a shag. A merry fucking christmas to you all!!!!! Grin

MickeyTheShortOne · 24/12/2012 22:43

Sorry i will try that again.
Bit DP the bullet and had a Good Shag.
A merry fucking christmas to you all!!!! Grin

WantAnOrange · 24/12/2012 23:10

Ah Bella it wouldn't be christmas without at least one trip to A&E!

Can't beleive it's been nearly year.

Merry Christmas folks, and thankyou for sharing and answering my many self-absorbed posts over the last year (and not being grossed out at threadworms!)

Zara1984 · 25/12/2012 05:24

yomping your post was just lovely. I am so grateful to have the support, ears and advice of you ladies!!

Ok a question re dream feeds - should I start doing one??? DS for the past week has been settling (after a wee bit of grizzling) from about 6.30 till 4ish. AMAZING, but I'm wondering that if I pop a dream feed in there at say 10pm would he go through to 6 or 7?

And how do you ladies do dream feeds? Gentle unwrap, take out of bed and offer bottle/boob? What if they don't wake up?

Out of curiosity I read Gina Ford on my Kindle today. Some of it (the bedtime routines, limiting feeds in the afternoon so he takes a big one before bed, try to get him to settle himself in own bed etc) we are doing anyway from trial and error (and seems to be working well). Wondering if I should try out other bits? Although a 45min nap ONLY in the morning sounds like a recipe for disaster.... Hmmm. Very regimented but it appears my baby is a fan of routine.

Cherrychopsticks · 25/12/2012 10:24

Just popping on to say Merry Christmas to you all! Xmas Smile I hope you're having a fantastic day.
DH is working today, so we had our meal and present opening yesterday. Today has been very quiet and involved a lot of eating and watching Christmas specials on iplayer.
I'm not very good with words and certainly can't put it as nicely as Yomping, but best wishes to all you fellow lovely, leaky, thrushy, wormy, poxy, shitty, snotty, rashy, pukey, sleepless, melting-down, beautiful nobbers! We certainly have come a long way.
I vaguely remember last year....I got drunk. Xmas Grin

Bella I hope your husband's ok!

And hope today's a better day for you Livvy.

Xmas Grin @ "we must try" nenehoo! Been meaning to say, we should all try and mention pelvic floors in our posts as often as possible, because every time I read it, I start clenching. Is it just me?

Feel better soon, Huffle.

Did you survive the Attack of Santa Claws Squid?

londonlivvy · 25/12/2012 11:01

MIL is a legend. Did the entire night with feeds at 10, 2 and a brief waking at 4...lucky woman. We went to bed at 9 and I woke at five with cannonball boobs but dozed til 6. Yay yay yay. DF and I are much more sunny as a result. in exchange we peeled all the veges and laid the table.

Sorry your DH has to work cherry, but a whole host of great tv to watch.

Midgetm · 25/12/2012 13:54

Happy Christmas nobbers. I intend to get a little drunk. Just a little mind damn you breastfeeding

squidkid · 25/12/2012 15:57

Happy Christmas!!!
I am a little tipsy and feeding Jess pre-expressed milk, ha-ha!
We are having an ace day just the three of us, minimal presents, lots of snuggles, amazing food. I am not religious in the slightest but we went to the cathedral this morning just for the pretty music, it was nice, so now have fulfilled lifetime goal of breastfeeding in church
I have had a dream for xmas day since we cancelled going away ... and today that dream has been realised... that dream was....

SANTA CLAWS

Hope all are having a good day!
Xmas Smile

Londonmrss · 25/12/2012 17:59

Zara that sleep pattern sounds gray, well done! worth trying a dream feed although my baby refused when I tried- she only wants it when she decides she wants it.

re routine, I read Gina and just felt it was too rigid. my routine goes in around about 2 hour blocks: wake up, feed, play for about an hour, then after she's been up for about 90 minutes, I pop her down and she usually settles herself for a half hour nap. I think this is broadly the baby whispered routine but I haven't read it. I actually started this post about 8 hours ago studio I've probably missed a few.

also wanted to say that my lovely grandmother bought us this for Christmas and its absolutely amazing- kept baby happy for 40 mins in one go. expensive, but would thoroughly recommend: www.mamasandpapas.com/product-magic-stargaze-playmat-stripe/759482710/type-i/

Londonmrss · 25/12/2012 18:01

oh and I'm drunk. on one gin and tonic.

hufflepuffle · 25/12/2012 18:27

Loving it Squid!!!!!!! Brilliant!!

Oh joys for the excuse of BF!! I have escaped upstairs!!

Stupid comments from MIL

"are you being a brat?"
"he's 10 wks old, don't think he can beva brat yet"
"oh of course he can!"

Then
"let him cry, he has to learn"
"we don't let him cry when he has just woken up(well actually ever)"
"ha ha you will learn"

Oh fuck off

So we kindly suggested she could have lunch ready about 2 so we could leave at 4 to visit my family. Lunch started at 3.15. So by time get to my mums everyone going home!!!!!

Grrrrr. Bloody woman!

Still having lovely day with my boys tho!!!!!

Would love few drinks but god knows what kind of night we in for after topsy turvy day!!!