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Frizbe · 21/03/2006 14:19

Hi ladies, have created this to start our postnatal thread, so fire away!

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RosiePosie · 25/03/2006 17:26

Oh, I got the Duet Lite, Frizbe - nice pushchair, nicer than the Marco Sky - which is similar, but not so well made and with ridiculously tall handle bars! They sell for a great price on eBay too, so I should recoup a lot of my money back when I sell it on, in a few months time. DD loves sitting up front Smile. How is your DD coping with the new arrival? It's gone surprisingly well here. I thought my DD would be very jealous and difficult, but she's being quite sweet with him really.

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Cadmum · 25/03/2006 18:14

RP: I know precisely how you fell when you wke up 2 hours later with the light on and baby in your lap... I've done that for the last 2 weeks as well. Still beats having to try to breast feed the baby; giving up when everything fails; expressing while baby screams; feeding her a bottle; trying to encouage her to latch on and feed properly; settling her bck to sleep; washing and sterilising the pump and bottle; waiting(/dreading) for the process to start again that was the first week of Charlottte's life. The last two weeks have been easy by comparison.

Friz: DD2 is now taking longer to feed as well. I wonder why?

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Cadmum · 25/03/2006 18:14

fell=feel! Can you tell that I am tired?

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UniSarah · 25/03/2006 21:53

well, it was an interesting night, not dreadfull, and I did get some slep- Ed was basicly in his basket 3-6am, right next to my side of the bed. I spent a lot of the night with one hand on his chest or holding his hand. He slept fitfully between 3 and 6 am, so did I.
Off to bed again now. got 2 hours earlier, hoping for another 2 now, then boy duty overnight!
UniSarah

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Frizbe · 25/03/2006 22:40

Unisarah hope you have a better night hon {{{Hugs}}}

RP, does it sell well! Grin ooooooh how fab! I know where to pop mine when we've done with it then!! tall handlebars ok by me, as quite tall myself Smile

Caddy, I have no idea re the feeds, just growing I guess, we seem to be in 0-3 stuff now rather than newborn,I guess I may have to start dressing my little one properly soon, not just sleep suits all the time Wink

Hope everyone has a good night, we appear to be griping here again, every time I log onto mumsnet argh!

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RosiePosie · 26/03/2006 11:46

Cadmum, your first week of feeding sounds like a nightmare - well done for persevering. Is she feeding okay now?

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Frizbe · 26/03/2006 11:55

Happy Mothers Day to all Grin
I'm now the proud owner of a teddy from ss, a champagne glass with mum on it from dd1 and a new mug from dd2 Grin and dh made breakfast, and I got a nice bath in between feeds, hurrah! Grin
Hope your all having fab days too.

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coppertop · 26/03/2006 14:57

Happy mothers day everyone! :)

It's strangely reassuring to hear that I'm not the only one who keeps falling asleep mid-feed. Blush Dd just does not seem to sleep unless she's lying on her front on someone's chest so we're all exhausted by the screams from dd's cot when she's lying on her back.

Otherwise dd seems to be doing well. She still has a 'lovely' yellow glow from the jaundice but it seems to be clearing up well. The MWs are now visiting her every other day instead of every day, just to keep an eye on her progress.

After being so used to boys I keep calling the poor child "he" by mistake. Blush It doesn't help that she looks exactly like ds2 did as a baby.

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Cadmum · 26/03/2006 17:15

Happy Mothers' Day! (Not here until May...)

DD's feeding is 'better' but still hit and miss. Thankfully, I manage to drip about 3 oz/day into a bottle so I have the option of offering that if she is hysterical at the thought of BF. She is getting bigger in front of our eyes so I know that she is doing well!

Hope you allhave a lovely day (especially the first time mums!)

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UniSarah · 26/03/2006 18:08

Thanks for the hug frizbe. yes it was another bad night followed by a very weepy today. dh took the boy for walk to give me some queit time and came back with a box of chocs for me as a Mothers day pressie.
I'm reassured to hear that I'm not alone with my overnight sleepless woes, falling asleep holding the baby and the kid only wanting to sleep on ones chest.
Best wishes to all the other sleep depived mums out there. Heres hoping our kids will cotton onto day and night soon.
Unisarah

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Astrophe · 27/03/2006 14:13

Hope tonight is a better one for you UniSarah. We had 2x 2.5 hour sleeps last night then a restless morning - Eli seems to sleep badly in the mornings unless he is in our bed, in which case I sleep badly. Health visitor came today and said to hang in there for the 4 week mark, when she reckons a lot of kids start to settle into more of a pattern and sleep a bit m ore at night. Hope so. I also prop Eli up when I feed him in case I fall asleep whilst feeding...hes survived a few nod-offs so far!

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Cadmum · 27/03/2006 16:07

Oh UniSarah... I am sorry that you are having such a rough time. Remember to do what is right for you and your baaby. If he sleeps better near you then why not run with it?

I am trying not to worry overly much about Charlotte. She projectile vomited all over a book shop yesterday evening and has not been feeding well since... ARGH! DS1 was ill last week and I had a tummy bug the week before so I suppose that it was impossible to avoid but I hate sick babies. (Especially so far from 'home'.)

Hope everyone else is doing as well as possible in their sleep deprived hazes.

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Frizbe · 27/03/2006 17:19

Sorry Caddy but Grin lol at the bookshop incident! oopse eh! hope Charlotte is feeling better for you today.

Totally agree with what your saying re the sleeping thing as well, just go with the flow, if they sleep better on you then (shhhhh) stuff it co sleep, makes for a saner you and saner baby. If its any help dd usually has a boob here then drops off, so I wind her in her sleep, then bung her into her basket, which is in the cot next to our bed, this way she's used to waking up in the cot, but not quite sure how she's gotten there, I'm also swaddling her in the cot, so she thinks its still warm mummy there, working so far, and when she hits 10lbs she can go into a sleeping bag, which worked wonders with dd1, as it keeps them constantly warm, hence they don't wake for feeds if you get to them 1st! so you get a sleeping all night baby (bar the odd poo explosion which may wake them up) HTH's

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Cadmum · 27/03/2006 17:36

She was sick all over the book "What your third grader should know". Thankfully there was a clerk lurking nearby who saw the projectile vomit (it was truly like something out of a horror film) and came over to offer her help. She asked me if I wanted to purchase another copy of the book and when I said no, that I had just been looking at it whilst feeding her, she took the soggy copy out of my hand and explained that it was not a problem. She then asked me if I was worried about DD2; if I was alone in the shop; and if there was anything she could do to help.

DD does seem somewhat better today and no more vomit so that is a good thing. Just changed a poopy nappy that seemed full of mucous... Perhaps she has too much post-nasal drip?

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Cadmum · 27/03/2006 17:42

Oh crud! She just did it again... Less volume but same force... Hmmm. I suppose that as ong as she still has wet nappies and is not acting poorly that I will not drag her to the doctor just yet. Wish I knew how much she weighed to make a comparison with next weigh in...

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UniSarah · 27/03/2006 18:04

Sympathy Caddy. Projectile vomit is something I have yetto experience. Still at the projectile brest milk stage! wet T-shirt , bra and trews this morning while boy was having morning nap. I expressed some off to reduce the pressure which helped.
Have had a slightly better nights sleep now, Did some thinking and decided to go with Co sleeping, boy has one half of the bed and is as swaddled as he will put up with, I have the other half with the duvet folded so I can't smother him in it. I can calm him with one hand when he gets worked up every time he wakes up, about once every 30 min on average. last night he tended to go to sleep holding one of my fingers. If it works for him fine, lets carry on. i'll deal with weaning him off finger holding once hes got the hang of sleeping for more than 20 min at a time at night. AND bonus, I got to sleep for about 15 min at a time for some of 5 hours. Fed him every couple of hours and didn't do any nappy changes to keep him in calm darkish conditions for several hours. I'll try it again tonight and see how we go. Dh is getting better at the finger holding calming method as well so we are trying hard to use that rather than picking him up every time hes yelling blue murder.
sorry- whittering on rather here. Just wanted to share my small victory last night while I'm feeling confident.
The box of chocs yesterday helped...
UniSarah

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Cadmum · 27/03/2006 18:21

Uni-Sarah. I am a leaking unit as well; I am permanently soaking my limited wardrobe. I hate it because I always worry about smelling like sour milk. Breast feeding is not glamourous work!

Glad to hear that you and baby slept a little better last night. I did not sleep because I was worried about Charlotte. Now I am so exhausted I can barely keep my eyes open. Thank heavens my older three and playing calmly in their room at the moment.

How is everyone else today?

Rom: Does your daughter have a name yet? How are the feeding and the sleeping going?

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Cadmum · 27/03/2006 18:21

Meant to add that this is a firt for projectile vomit for me too.

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Cadmum · 27/03/2006 18:24

Let me try that again: This is a first with projectile vomit for me too!

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Frizbe · 27/03/2006 21:35

UniSarah, glad to see things going in the right direction with the sleeping Smile hope it gets even better tonight!
Caddy nice woman in the book shop Smile shame dd is still puking tho....we appear to have developed some over drinking here! dd2 is going for over full then doing me a nice burp, followed by the excess...nice...am going thru bibs n cloths like no tomorrow!
How's everyone else doing?

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RosiePosie · 28/03/2006 08:04

This thread is SO reassuring. It's nice to know that what I'm experiencing is normal and I'm not the only one! Funny how you forget all this stuff - now can anyone remind me - when can I expect Matthew to stop insisting on sleeping ON me all night long and be happy to sleep BESIDE me? I know DD did exactly the same thing, but I can't remember when it stopped!

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poppyh · 28/03/2006 08:18

Hi all!RP,Matthew sounds like Esme where sleep and feeding are concerned.Have now started putting her in Moses basket even though she moans as I cant sleep when shes in our bed.Lola is 3 and still getting in to our bed at night so determined to try and get Esme settled better than her!!Have even started putting her to 'bed' upstairs at 8.She sleeps til about 2am, then sleeps again till about 6am.Thats been the last few days anyway which is much better.I guess she is now settling in to a routine, she was 4 weeks old yesterday.
You do forget everything from before though.I think thats because you wouldnt do it all again if you did remember!!
Have a good day all.

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RosiePosie · 28/03/2006 09:26

Thanks Poppy, that IS reassuring! Matthew was 3 weeks on Sunday, and is only going for two hours at a time at night. I know it will get better, I just can't remember when! And when you're so sleep deprived it's easy to forget that this bit doesn't last long.

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poppyh · 28/03/2006 12:15

Esme was every two hours last week, so things can change quickly.Youre right though, it seems to drag this waking up in night bit.Cant remember it at all with Lola though, which makes me feel better about it!!Just wish tv was good at 4am eh!!

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Frizbe · 28/03/2006 12:39

Am a badddd mother, had hardly any sleep last nighy, due to feeding fest, and then shouted very loudly at dd1 this am, when she was trying to help me by turning on the light in dd2's room so I could change her, trouble is I'd already said no don't turn it on, as I wanted dd2 in the dark and staying asleep.....ended up with dd1 wailing like a banshee...oopseeeeeee........must try harder to be better mummy......seems I'm not nice without sleep........but then what was dd1 doing up at 6am anyway Sad

PoppyH wow, well done Smile your dd is doing great sleeping, hopefully from Saturday my dd2 will take on the same pattern!!

RP every two hours is tough hon {{{Big Hugs}}} at least I only had one bad night last night...hope his feeding fest slows soon x

Hi to everyone else, sorry but gotta dash again, seems whenever I log on here, I'm wanted!!

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