Thanks guys, did manage to get a few hours sleep he was so exhausted he passed out on my shoulder mid scream
I slept cuddling him but he woke every half hour or so crying. He's got such a hoarse voice, and I've got a cracking sore throat so am starting to know how he's feeling.
Cheshire yes have been giving him teetha more to calm him as he's been so agitated, but good to know its an antiseptic too.
Jnice think I'll give him his water mug all day so he can sip it and soothe his throat. Managed to get him to dream feed about four ounces at half three so at least he's had something.
We're meant to all be going to a posh hotel tomorrow night for dinner bed and breakfast (Christmas present) but don't know if we will be able to now.
christian I am half way through first book and am just getting to know Christian Grey 
BB3 I have been reading it thinking it was like Twilight so that explains a lot!
I have been pondering nc as mine gives me away too much to anyone who knows me (wasn't very imaginative when I signed up) any suggestions welcome 