Oh yes, I hope scooby's husband is home safe. Fingers and everything else crossed.
figgy you need to luck your DH's arse. Man up! Get a grip! Welcome to parenthood! As for KIT days, I enjoyed them, it felt good to have an opinion that counted for something. Enjoy. And you and your LO will be fine.
awch everyone loves bubbles! A bit of washing up liquid isn't going to hurt. (and when the eye-friendly bubble-juice runs out, you'll be filling up with fairy when they are toddlers!)
aethel you say it sounds like they're permanently eating, but your plan sounds like a rest! When he's with me, Ali feeds every 2-3 hours. (although, sssh, he's been asleep for 2.5hrs so far. :) )
dsm I'll get back to you with my "walking up the aisle" music, is that what you want? (I chose a piece from the soundtrack of "meet Joe black" I'll find a link tomorrow. It's lovely, it starts gently (enter the bridesmaids) then builds to a crescendo (you enter) then calms as you walk the walk. :)
Otherwise our first dance was one day like this, elbow, because that's what we fell in live too (shame it became so massively popular with everyone else too!)
For our dance with parents I chose "the air that I breathe" (sometimes - all I need is the...) because I've always thought it was am azing live song, and my parents love it too. Dad was really touched. To kick off the disco, I chose black eyed peas, tonight's gonna be a good night. Which is a great (cheesy) pop tune, and all your guests will think about a great party, and you and DH will be thinking of consummating the marriage when everyone's gone home! 