Mopsy you did everything by the book, so if it still didn't work for you then I guess it wasn't meant to be. I feel bad I didn't do all of it, but I put it down to lack of info, I honestly thought it would be straightforward and simple.
My mum breastfeed my brother for 10 days whilst in hospital, but she said all the mums couldn't wait to get out so they could put the babies on the bottle! Mum lasted 10 days, she said she didn't enjoy breastfeeding at all and she felt like a dairy cow and it felt wierd. With me she just had my dads family camped out on the settee and she couldn't get rid of them and didn't really have a hope in hells chance of getting me breastfeed. Apart from me having hayfever me and my brother are perfectly healthy!
Figgy it's so hard to know. It really doesn't help having little Christmas babies though with the visitors! I'm going to be blunt and boot people out when I have another baby!
I think I would only breastfeed until the baby got teeth though not 2+ years etc like some people do. When DS got teeth I felt better as that's when I'd have moved him onto the bottle anyway :) His teeth are bloody sharp!
MissRee I'm the same, I had a good pregnancy and a very good birth so I'm trying to concentrate on that rather than breastfeeding.
Seven yes I totally agree bf seems very time consuming and ff is probably the best thing for the other siblings as you've got more time. Plus it gives you a break as DH can share night time feeds :o
Tyel I'm not sure why I sometimes get a bit down about bf, I actually don't care that my mum didn't bf me and I'm very close to her so I'm pretty sure my DS won't care either!