Hello all and thanks for the congrats - still not announced it publicly but hopefully going to find out about getting the stone set in a ring soon. It's DP's first engagement (at 44 bless him) so he wants to do things properly :)
Hope you get to go into labour naturally Digi and soon you are meeting your newborn!
We've had a very naughty DD all weekend and have fallen back into the old trap of shouting at her, she gets worse etc etc. Sigh. But in general she is OK with me so I can blame DP
DS came down with his first ever proper cold over easter (pretty lucky at 4 months old) and he was full of coughs and sniffles. we had one night where he kept spitting his dummy out cos he couldn't breathe then crying cos he didn't have his dummy in! But then bless him, the next night he slept 7pm till 9am the next day. Not one waking (and he's still in Moses basket, so getting a bit cramped on space). DD wakes more and is still afraid of scary monsters in her room, despite giving her a torch and lots of other security stuff. No idea what to do as it can take half an hour to convince her there's nothing there. She has stopped wetting the bed though.
In other news, I am still loving the Moby wrap and am now looking at a Babyhawk Meitai as i reckon I could also get DD into it on my back as she's petite. So great for hols and we don't have to take a buggyboard.
Keep your fingers crossed for me today - deadline for the IM to file her defence against my small claims court thing. If nothing by the end of today, judgement automatically goes against her and she has to pay me without going to court...........
I got my notes from her and am hugely disappointed to see she has written up my booking in visit notes after she dropped me in labour - they are clearly to cover her back.
We had a long conversation at the booking time about gest diabetes and both DP and I made it clear we believed I did not have GD (for various reasons too long to go into but I wasn't just putting my fingers in my ears and saying lalalala i can't hear you!) and she said fine, we'll just test for sugar every time, which we did and it was clear. her notes do not refer to this and suspiciously talk about how we talked about her right to transfer me if i haven't told her everything (which we didn't). Then surprise surprise, her final note says that the SOM told her I have gest diabetes and she didn;t know so transferred me back.
Bollocks (sorry). We had an indepth discussion about GD and she has made these notes up to cover herself. More to include in the complaint then.
Luckily, doesn't affect money claim as this is black and white - whatever the reason, she needs to refund the money as she didn;t provide service. Bluntly, if she had had a car crash on the way to my labour she would have had to refund my money, as tragic as that would have been.
Rant over. Off to update my complaint to the NMC.