esk we have a tiny house so we got the Fisher Price Bounce and Spin Froggy (or something like that). Isobel LOVES it and bounces in there (on a good day) for up to an hour! Wahoo. Hands-free time for me . It takes up half the floor space of the jumperoo but does the same thing.
cc I totally sympathise. I had a crash and burn moment at four months. DD slept well up to about 3 months - 11pm dream feed, 3am wake-up for a quick feed, up at 6-7. Then all of a sudden she started with hourly waking. We brought a bedtime routine in, but that meant the hours of 6-8pm being taken up with feeding, bathing, rocking, feeding, rocking, etc, and then us being knackered, and then she still woke at 9pm, 10pm etc. She was suddenly so much more energetic, though she's always been energetic. I thought I was coping fine, then all of a sudden I was freezing cold and shivering, had a really high temperature, felt sick, and thought I was really really ill. A good night's sleep and hey presto, I wasn't ill, I was just knackered! Sometimes it all just gets overwhelming, doesn't it?
FWIW, the hourly waking has never really stopped at our end. We aren't up for controlled crying - how's it going val? - but we are thinking of starting the pick-up, put-down baby whisperer method from Friday.
I think whatever you do re: feeding you wish for something else. We're still BFing and weaning is not going fantastically (she doesn't really want to eat anything, though we manage a bit each day). And I would now LOVE to give her a bottle of FF - so I could get a bit of sleep occasionally, so I could go out without her just once in a while, or so I could know that she's okay at nursery and not going hungry. She's always hungry when I turn up to feed her and it unsettles her. I do like my sneaky visits though 
Welcome back princess! And wahoo! Amazing news re: the BFP! And on getting over the first trimester. Yay, another JSing baby to look forward to.