well.....you were all right!!!! she is lovely! they spent over an hour here going through everything, she starts on tuesday for 2 hours, she can take him for a walk if I want or just play with him, I can have a bath, or iron, or clean my car, or have a bath, or mop the floor,or bake or have a bath!!!! So the great thing is she will keep him out of my hair while I have a bath 
needle sounds a bit unfair to me, why doesnt he normally like meeting up with your family? do all the family get on ok? hope he says sorry and you dont have to back down.
tsc how is the nose now?
we are steaming throught this thread!!!
L has only napped for 10 minutes today, and not eaten anything since 9am but is walking everywhere today!