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June 2009 - terrible twos here we come

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bigcar · 11/12/2010 14:54

Here we are ladies Xmas Smile

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GauchitaBell · 22/12/2010 12:33

Hi all!

Strawberry, glad you're able to travel today Xmas Smile Travel safe and take your time Xmas Smile Wow, 8 inches! Hope it's not snowing anymore. Over here we have black ice everywhere, no snow though. So glad the nightmares have stopped, such a relief!

Snow, awww cuddles going your way for Z. Hope the jaundice has cleared and she's feeding more often. My sister's baby is like that, so chilled re. feeding, you had to poke her and poke her! Xmas Grin

Bigcar, Oh I know what you mean, too much time with DHs at home and you start missing hectic work days for them Xmas Grin Hope the DC are having a good time at home and not quarrelling too much Xmas Grin Glad DD1 is spending Christmas at home with the family Xmas Smile Oh poor your friend! Did she get here safely??? with all the disruption, I mean.

Right, presents have arrived, yay! No more things on the post, phew! Now some more wrapping to do

It's freeeeeeeeeeezing up here. We've had -14 -10 -8 last night, brrrrrrrrrrr. The canal right next to the mill is frozen, completely frozen Xmas Shock

Oh, we saw some friends last Sunday and their DD was diagnosed chicken pox yesterday, so I think this time M's next Xmas Grin She was definitely exposed, we'll see!

DH works on Christmas eve so M and I are staying home and we're celebrating it on 25th all together. How do you celebrate it?

Waves!

GauchitaBell · 22/12/2010 12:49

Me again Xmas Grin

Can anyone recommend some ice-proof Xmas Grin boots? I guess they must have rubber soles to avoid slipping. I have NO shoes to wear in this weather, I slip in all of them Xmas Blush Our car park is a rink AND on a slope so putting M in her car seat is proving impossible these days.

June2009 · 22/12/2010 23:01

Hey gauchita, I have some safety shoes that I wear in the snow, they're the ones withreinforced toes, I used to use them for work sometimes on location in some buildings.
My amazon deliveries have not turned up, were supposed to be here by the 18 and 20 th...
Only one item is A present for someone else so it's not too bad.

We're having Xmas eve at home preparing for xmas day, we always cook the turkey the day before as on the day I need the oven for all the other stuff...
One of my friends is also coming over to do my nails which is lovely.
I'm also going to have my hair done on Friday, looking forward tothis! I'm considering calling them back to have it cut as well.

Xmas day is here with dh, C., dad, db, sil, bil and Mil,fingers crossed she behaves, possibly one of dh's cousins as well.

Sam hope you had a good trip, snow how's a coping with the new arrival?

Waves to all, take care
It's really really nice to have my relatives over, they're so nice and undramatic!!! :)

June2009 · 22/12/2010 23:02

Hey gauchita, I have some safety shoes that I wear in the snow, they're the ones withreinforced toes, I used to use them for work sometimes on location in some buildings.
My amazon deliveries have not turned up, were supposed to be here by the 18 and 20 th...
Only one item is A present for someone else so it's not too bad.

We're having Xmas eve at home preparing for xmas day, we always cook the turkey the day before as on the day I need the oven for all the other stuff...
One of my friends is also coming over to do my nails which is lovely.
I'm also going to have my hair done on Friday, looking forward tothis! I'm considering calling them back to have it cut as well.

Xmas day is here with dh, C., dad, db, sil, bil and Mil,fingers crossed she behaves, possibly one of dh's cousins as well.

Sam hope you had a good trip, snow how's a coping with the new arrival?

Waves to all, take care
It's really really nice to have my relatives over, they're so nice and undramatic!!! :)

venetianred · 23/12/2010 07:47

Ho ho ho, hello everyone,

Just popped in to wish you all a Merry Christmas. I've kept an eye on the site from time to time recently, but wasn't in the mood for grumbling so kept quiet.

I see June has lost oodles and oodles of weight - well done you - I'm super impressed. I managed to loose a stone but have 2-3 to go. But I can only diet when I'm getting a good night's sleep so hopefully next year. I thought of you recently when I declined a place at one of the best nurseries in the country, in favour of one with just '2's'. It just didn't 'feel' right for several reasons. I see there is a rocking horse debacle - sometimes it is a blessing that some of my family are thousands of miles away, family feelings can be quite intense at times!!!!! I have an aunt on the warpath after we postponed our wedding until next year. It's like having a pitball at my neck and she's halfway across the world! Glad to hear your peaceful relies are around this christmas.

Gauchita - You went back to SA (is it Peru or Chile?) to be with your sister when she had her child. That is so lovely. I bet she was grateful. What is her daughter's name? How is she getting on? My dp was in Mexico a couple of weeks ago and I was very jealous. I studied South American history for one semester at university and that was supposed to be my first destination when I went travelling....and I still haven't got there 20 years later. Yes, custard a wonderful invention. Trifle is very popular if you google it. Custard and preserved fruit was a big favourite for kids when I was little. Have you come across bread and butter pudding? Exotic versions include custard - I like one with panettone, custard and ameretto.

Sam - hope you are both feeling positive about your new beginning. New beginnings can be rather inspiring can't they. An opportunity to do things differently. I'm sure you will have your bumpy patches, but wishing you lots and lots of good luck with it all.

snowwombat - congratulations on Z's birth. I know so many December babies. Nice to be born more than a week before Christmas.

I'm running out of time, as things falling apart next door. bigcar - hello to you too, hope all well for your daughter at university.

Ever so briefly, I was all excited about my daughter starting school in September and me having some time with F. I also wanted to put him in nursery two mornings and start thinking about work/business. Anyway, after a summer of molar teething that finished on Sep 7th I was looking forward to some sleep and a little peace. But since Sep 9th, it has been relentless - ear canal infection (2 weeks), brutal virus (2 weeks), daughter came down with chicken pox first day of half term holiday, F came down with horrible virus fourth day of holiday, we were down in London that week and instead of visiting London Zoo and Buckingham Palace, we spent the entire time in front of TV or at the Drop in Health Centre. It was grim. DP's birthday I don't remember I was so tired. Came home and two days after F kicked the virus, he came down with Chicken Pox - really badly. Then another virus, then a cold, which he is just getting over now. Also the second round of molar teething started last week. It hasn't been much fun.

However, I did get my first night off in 18 months. Went down to London to meet up with some friends for a night, and just loved waking up and having a leisurely shower for a change and ambling about, instead of nappies, breakfast, milk, kids clothes etc routine. DP didn't have it easy on his first night alone with kids. Water started leaking through the roof, and after he'd fixed that, F woke at 11:30 and coughed for the rest of the night and didn't go back to sleep. Then slept for just 30mins at lunchtime the following day!!! Thankfully stepson was staying for a bit of moral support. Even more thankfully my train wasn't delayed much by the snow.

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL. HERE'S TO 2011.

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bigcar · 23/12/2010 17:26

evening all Xmas Smile

strawberry, good to hear you made it safely! Great news on the nightmares stopping Xmas Smile

venetian, lovely to hear from you. Sorry to hear you've had so much illness in your house, hopefully that'll be the end to it for a while. How's dd getting on at school, does F like nursery and how's the business going, sounds like your plans are all coming together Xmas Smile

june, how lovely to have your family over Xmas Smile I have everything crossed that mil and sil are on best behaviour for you!

gauchita, haven't heard from my friend yet but I think her flight was cancelled yesterday, hoping she's made it over today, she doesn't get massive amounts of time with her family here so will be a real shame if they can't make it, even if it is considerably warmer where they are. Any sign of spots yet for M? I've just got myself some of these boots, not the most attractive and not totally slip proof given how icy it is at the moment but a huge improvement on my normal trainers. Got some for dd2 and ds1 as well, perfect for the stuff they do at scouts, they have a hike next tuesday so have been breaking them in and had no problems so far!

so what do you all reckon on the chances of a white christmas? It's mostly cleared here although the footpaths are still icy but it's still freezing temperatures, guess we'll have to wait and see! Dd2 and ds1 have been bag packing in M&S today to raise funds for their scout pack, looks like they did quite well.

dh has taken ds1 and 2 to the barbers, just waiting to see what they come back with Xmas Hmm really starting to wish I'd gone now Xmas Grin oh well, at least hair grows quite quickly!!! They've been gone a while so I think they got in, they went down on the off chance of an appointment and of course dd2 has the hump because she wants her hair done too but she'll have to wait till next week.

spent some time today wrapping presents for the dcs, I've decided I should shop for them all in one go next year as I hadn't realised quite how much I'd spent. I tend to pick things up when I see them so it just builds up without realising, they just tend to get a few small things rather than one big present.

we've also come to a decision on the loft and told a builder today that we'll go with him not done anything like this before so just waiting to sign contracts and find out when he can start! It'll be good when done as all the dcs will have their own room then, well apart from dd1 but she's not around that much these days, seems to prefer staying with her boyfriend Xmas Smile

waves to all Xmas Smile

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bigcar · 23/12/2010 17:48

aha, all back with good hair Xmas Grin no more mullet for E!!!!!

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GauchitaBell · 23/12/2010 20:18

Evening all!

Bigcar, glad the visit to the barber's was successful Xmas Smile Have you finished the wrapping? Oohh exciting news re. the loft! I know it's stressful to have builders around but as you say, it'll be worth it! No spots yet, no. We were thinking of going away for a couple of days for NY's eve but I bet if she is to come down with it, it'll be right after I make all the bookings Xmas Grin So we're waiting a bit!

Strawberry, glad to hear you're enjoying yourselves Xmas Smile and that you had a safe smooth journey.

Venetian, so glad to hear from you. Bugs are a PITA, aren't they? Poor little ones suffer with them and we're left completely exhausted after each Xmas Sad I sympathise and I have only M, I can only imagine how draining it must have been for you with two DC. Glad to hear everyone's on the mend now. Hopefully you'll have more time for yourself and to focus on business ideas Xmas Smile My sister's DD is called Emma, she's doing really well. She's not BFing anymore as my sister's milk supply suddenly dried up (doc told her her implants might have had to do with it) but she's thriving, and is a very good sleeper, to my sister's fortune Xmas Grin There are places in SA that are really gorgeous, hope you can make that trip some time in the near future Xmas Smile Glad you had that mini break! Good to re-charge the batteries Xmas Smile

June, glad to hear rellies are around Xmas Smile Your Christmas plans sound lovely. Ooohh enjoy the pampering!! Hope the deliveries have turned up! Xmas Smile

Thanks everyone for the advice re.shoes Xmas Smile Some hiking/safety boots coming up I guess! Xmas Grin I'm going to wait a couple more days and see if I can get a bargain in the post-Christmas sale Xmas Wink

I'm quite amazed M didn't open any of the presents under the tree Xmas Shock she tried one or twice and then forgot!

Oh, I'm mad, absolutely mad but I'm braving Tesco tomorrow morning. I always do the shopping on Fridays and I didn't think this week through!! Xmas Blush I only realised today that tomorrow was Friday AND 24th I'll let you know if I survive Xmas Grin

Waves!

June2009 · 24/12/2010 07:30

Venetian I was thinking about you yesterday and was actually going to say that I miss you and was wondering what you are up to, so glad to hear from you :)

I haven't read your post yet, need to go to the supermarket before everybody else deciders to go too...

GauchitaBell · 24/12/2010 18:27

Hi all!

Hope you're having a nice Christmas Eve Xmas Smile Merry Christmas!!! Xmas Smile

bigcar · 24/12/2010 20:01

happy christmas juners Xmas Smile Xmas Smile Xmas Smile

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June2009 · 24/12/2010 22:33

Merry Christmas :)

We're just preparing the turkey and gravy and bits and pieces for tomorrow.

Had my hair cut - a little bit - and a friend came round to do my nails which ws lovely.
Went swimming with db yesterday which was also great.

Sil had to create a bit f drama and called to say she was really sick blahdiblah, turns out it's a migraine,And they are still coming over Anyway.
Then went on to say she didn't get me a present because I am hard to buy for. (!?) over the last few weeks I have been telling her what to get, apparently her bf wanted to get me perfume (perfect present for me) and she said no. ?? Looks like bil didn't get me anything either, and i know the presents dont matter etc but i cant help but feel a little left out here...and undervalued somewhat. They will both probably feel bad over the presents I got them as well as it's very nice and something i have obviously thought about a lot and or spent a lot of time over.
Sigh...

Roll on tomorrow, the turkey is cooked and is looking
really lovely, can't wait for it!!

snowwombat · 24/12/2010 23:12

Going to try my first phone post.Merry christmas everyone.hope you have a lovely day with your families.x

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GauchitaBell · 25/12/2010 10:31

Merry Christmas Juners!! ¡Feliz Navidad! Xmas Smile

AllSheepareWhite · 25/12/2010 14:00

Merry Christmas everyone, I hope you are having a good day. Mine has been a bit of a disaster so far (will elaborate later) however, the goose is nearly cooked (my first ever time cooking one!) and looks good so hopefully things will pick up from now on Xmas Smile.

Gauchita - I just bought some Merrell walking boots which are great as they are designed for the way women walk (apparently different to men due to pelvis), but if you have lots of snow and ice you may want to find snow boots and also crampons. Just bought N some snow boots see here in lilac and she loves them, keeps trying to put them on the wrong feet! Xmas Grin

GauchitaBell · 25/12/2010 17:39

Allsheep, oh no, what happened? Hope everything's better. Oh, and hope you enjoyed the goose Xmas Smile Thanks for the tip re. boots, how adorable are the ones for the girls!! Xmas Grin

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June2009 · 27/12/2010 17:39

Hope everyone is recovering from Xmas, we had a lovey day, plenty to drink, lots of lovely food and great company, even mil and sil ;) wish it was like that all the time!

This week is a bit funny isn't it, we haven't actually got much planned which sucks, with no groups to go to baby is getting restless! Better get some rl friends to meet up!

Who's fed up with turkey sandwiches yet? I know we are!

What are you guys doing for new years eve? Were planning on staying in just the three of us and get some champagne out when C has gone to bed. I don't remember the last time I stayed up until midnight though, that's quite a challenge!!

snowwombat · 27/12/2010 19:24

hi everyone,
Hope you have had lovely christmas celebrations
june so pleased the family behaved. We have no plans for NYE, may have dinner with some friends but not staying up till midnight. Have been enjoying a small amount of v good champagne over the last few days.
strawb glad the travels have been ok, albeit slow.

allsheep how was the goose? I love the sorel snow boots! Have looked at those for A.
gauchita any spots? You still hoping to get away at NYE?
venetian Great to hear from you. You poor thing with that run of ill health, must have seemed endless. Fantastic you got a night away Xmas Grin.
bigcar A has had his mullet cut! Xmas Grin. Booked at appt and DH took him. Looks fantastic but my baby is gone. Sad.

We had a lovely christmas with the in-laws. DH did all the cooking, apart from a pavlova for dessert that I made. A was on good form. Plenty of snow and out to the park to walk the GPs dogs and A. Z fed and slept, occassionally opening her eyes Smile.

Dh on paternity leave and it is brilliant. I took A to the park this morning and had some mum and A time, leaving Z with DH. I hope we might see my sister this week, she is up north visiting her DH's family and hopes to make it down for a day trip.

Right, time for dinner. mmm leftover baked ham and jacket spuds. yum.

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AllSheepareWhite · 28/12/2010 16:17

Hi everyone, so after a disastrous start on Christmas Eve it has got better. It all started when my mum who was upstairs heard me and DH having a silly argument about presents and proceeded come downstairs and try to get involved. When asked to not get involved politely she insulted DH, resulting in her being told to leave our house. Operation Save Christmas was somewhat successful, the goose was slightly overcooked, but still yummy and we went over to a neighbours on Christmas Day eve which was great. Spent Boxing Day at MIL with all the cousins, so N had a fab time. Unfortunately her younger cousin was rushed into hospital yesterday with a chest infection so we have all been very worried as she has a heart condition which will need surgery in the new year.

Hopefully New Year will be better, although we are childminding N's cousins so will have at least 5 extra kids to cater for. Next year I might just hide in a box and hibernate like George the tortoise from Blue Peter Xmas Grin