Door handles are the round twist ones here, which she struggles with. Unfortunately DH and I hate them and are contemplating changing them to pull down handles, which she'll inevitably then be able to open!
Mindy's wardobe isn't too bad on the non-pink front, though it's taken a while to train the grandparents not to buy her pink clothes. 
She does however have quite a lot of dresses, because she seems to be taking after DH with impossibly long legs and a skinny waist 
so finding trousers long enough that'll stay up is next to impossible.
We also get a lot of "What a lovely little boy!" comments... 
I think it is the hair thing, Mindy's hair was slow to grow so is currently boyishly short. I keep trying to get her to wear alice bands, but she pulls them off and wears them as a necklace instead!
Sent her to nursery today though in jeans, t-shirt and trainers. 
After a few days of grumpy tantrums, she was in a great mood this morning, so hopefully we're over whatever was causing the problem!
To be honest, she's at a lovely age right now. :) She can express her wishes, she's gaining independance so needs less help and she spontaneously shows her love.
There's nothing quite like arriving at nursery after a hard day at work to have her call "Mama!" and bolt across the room with a big smile, to throw herself against my legs and cling tightly. Then demand to be held and refuse to be put down.