I would be up for a meet whenever. I may even be able to manage it child free
Its amazing that geting divorced has given me so much 'me' time. really is quite sad.
Anyway I am doing very well thank you. I am still with mum, sadly the cottage fell throug, although I was gutted, there is chance of a more livable 3 bed bungalow in the village (in fact on the same lane as my mum, but all the way round the bend in the bottom) if that makes sense)
very close to the pub, so thats good enough for me.
so fingers crossed please if you all would.
my mum closes her shop in a few weeks, so needs mine and dcs rooms for all the stock as she is still coninuing doing the horse shows and country fairs.
Not that she is kicking me out so to speak, but we are all desperate for a bit of space.
I have being having quite the social life lately, soon as dcs are tucked up in a bed, my mum kicks me out to the local pub (only pub in village) for a change of scenery.
When dh has dcs, i have been out a bit.
I have in fact been out on a date or two,three, four..... (too soon maybe) but wonderful all the same.
Oh and with the same person by the way not many.He also lives in the village,so I get a nice walk home.
I am managing to go horse riding almost daily. I f Im not riding i am dealing with six of them on a daily basis anyway.
Which is fantastic for my well being I think.
I have now got my niece to babysit here at my mums, as my mum doesn't 'do' babysitting if they wake up.
So I am off out tomorrow with some friends which is Army themed fancy dress, I am sure photos will be on fb by sunday then i'm off to a party in the village.
Dcs are doing great, adjusting well to nights with daddy.Obviously I have no idea what runs through their little head, but they seem ok.
They always smile and say 'bye mummy' and see yousoon' when I drop off, and then they say the same to him when they come back. They have been a little unsettled for a couple of days when they comeback, which is to be expected, but the last few visits they have been fine. I am so proud of them, and the way they have adjusted so far.
M is a bright, happy little soul, and chatters constantly. He has them at least two nights a week, and takes them EVERYWHERE! such a shame he didn't make the effort when we were together, which he has since said. He does take his dad with him, but at least they still get that relationship with their grandad.
Sorry all me me me. do you regret asking now buckets
I would love to see you in your cocktail dress, I bet you ooked stunning.