I hope I never end up in a situation where I have no choice but to claim full benefits or can only work part time. Many end up in that situation; they have a disabled child, they are made redundant and can only find part time work etc etc and yes it could happen to me.
But being a single mother doesnt put you in the catagory of 'have no choice' but to work full time.
I may have mentioned that I run a business that helps people back in to employment. I met a woman today who was fit, healthy and bright. She had an 8 year old who was in school full time.
When I said to her I had a full time vacancy that i could help her to prepare for an interview for she looked at me like I was barking and said - oh no, I am only ABLE to work part time because I HAVE to do the school pick up, my daughter only likes me to pick her up. Besides, my tax credits will top up the rest -
Now, my daughter would prefer me to pick her up too. There are far far less part time jobs than full time ones at the moment.
This woman is making out that she is UNABLE to work full time when actually it is a lifestyle choice because she believes she is incapable of working full time and being a mother.
She went on to say she would be exhausted and wouldnt have any quality of life etc etc if she worked part time and her daughter would suffer because of the 2 hours a night that she would have to speand with a childminder.
I wonder how much of women beleiving they cant work fulltime is to do with self belief? I mean, its hardly working down the mines for 12 hours a day. It aint that tiring!!