You didn't act answer her question?
You just said defending yourself but would you defending Jewish people from the well documented threat of genocide made towards them by religious fanatics?
Zionism is a thing because most Jewish people understand from their own history that others are not going to come save them. That Jews do need a homeland in to retreat to if necessary. Just how necessary that has been in the last 100 years I don't think even someone with limited historical knowledge would dare to argue about.
Also
Not all Jews are religious, most are not
However most are zionists
Therefore your arguments about religion are heavily floored and an unnecessary excuse to justify not letting people have freedom to live in tbe same way others are allowed.
Zionists are not actually asking for better treatment than any other race or ethnicity, they are asking for the freedom to have a home and safe place to be themselves without prejudice.