One thing you have to remember is that Republicans have been called racists, Nazis, misogynists, etc for over 50 years. And of course, this is an absurd generalization.
Much of Trump's appeal, IMO, is from Republicans who were just tired of being accused of bullshit. Finally they saw a politician who was fill to say F-U to the NYT and Washington Post.
Democratic moral panic against Republicans since the 1970s is one reason we have Trump.
And look, you can think men are absolute shit. But can we be surprised that after 10-15 years of being blamed for all the world's problems that they would vote for a man who says no, you are valued as an American.
What won the election for Trump, IMO, was the "Kamala is for they/them, Trump is for you." Black men, hispanic men, white women, people who never voted before got behind this. Why would you vote for someone who thinks you are the cause of all world problems?
For the past 10 years, democrats have been shit politicians. They have isolated the poor working class by telling them that they need to learn to code instead of work the mines. This is horrible politics and Trump exploited democratic political idiocy.