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Angry at scrapping of 2 child limit

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BearBuggy · 04/12/2024 15:42

I know there are a few families that find themselves in rotten circumstances and this isn’t aimed at them . However I live in an area where having children to continue to receive benefits was the norm and only now the cap is in place has that stopped.

The Scottish government has now announced it will be scrapped. I am so angry I’m paying towards people breeding children they can’t afford. I didn’t vote SNp this time because of this, as did many of my friends. They lost heavily in my area but still seem to not care what the tax payer is saying.

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30percent · 25/05/2025 10:41

Sleepingmole6 · 25/05/2025 09:56

Why are you replying to me about this? I haven't even mentioned sure start. All I've said is that the welfare of children needs to be central - more than well-meaning ideas. I'm sick of seeing children at our school only fed plain pasta at home, or not bought shoes. Our school provides a huge amount of parenting support to deprived families - some take it up, others dont.

You didn't respond to my comment saying im sick of seeing these high income fathers spend their entire income in casinos and then the kids are walking around in rags. It's not just poor people who can't manage their money and prioritise their kids. So making benefit claimants pay for every shop isn't going to solve the issue.

It's social services job to investigate negligent parents not assume that every poor parent is wasting their money and make them pay for everything with vouchers

You know how many non benefit claiming parents waste their income on cocaine gambling and alcohol and are actually in debt?

notbelieved · 25/05/2025 11:10

OonaStubbs · 25/05/2025 10:01

If children are living in poverty, it is their parents that are to blame. Not the government.

You really need to have a think about that. Look at average rents, childcare costs, average wage, lack of political will to get absent parents to pay maintenance….

notbelieved · 25/05/2025 11:22

Sleepingmole6 · 25/05/2025 09:32

At least it is some barrier to help children. At my school children eat plain pasta for dinner every night, the only proper food they get is at school.

I'm sick of left wing people protecting any sort of benefits at all costs - including the well being of children.

some People are very hard of understanding.

Logically, how to vouchers work? Some for food, utilities, transport, clothes, toys, books….? What happens when the washing machine breaks down nd you need cash to buy a new one? Usually, you juggle your budget but as much of your budget is vouchers you’re going to have to juggle them. So you give them to a friend and get them to give you the cash. Only, you will be friend gives you £30 for a £50 voucher. What happens when a loved one is in hospital and you have additional busto find but your transport that just won’t cover that cost. What then? How are you going to manage that or are we suggesting that people benefits shouldn’t have the “luxury”of being able to spend time with loved ones in hospital will be able to replace the washing machine when it breaks down?

People on benefits do not need to be infantilised. Too many people saying being on benefits equals a bit stupid unable to manage a budget or anything else. simple fact of the matter is and some majority of people are able to manage the money that they have whether that be from wages benefits or a mix of the two. And it’s cheap for those pack taxpayers if cash is paid. And let’s face it all posters care about on here is the feelings are the poor taxpayers you apparently get nothing for their money.

if you work in a school, you surely have an understanding of the complexity of all this?

OonaStubbs · 25/05/2025 11:50

notbelieved · 25/05/2025 11:10

You really need to have a think about that. Look at average rents, childcare costs, average wage, lack of political will to get absent parents to pay maintenance….

But nobody forced the parents to have children in the first place. And they knew about the costs before making that choice.

BIossomtoes · 25/05/2025 11:55

OonaStubbs · 25/05/2025 11:50

But nobody forced the parents to have children in the first place. And they knew about the costs before making that choice.

Circumstances change. It’s perfectly possible to be in a strong financial position when you decide to have children, then redundancy, illness or death come along and it all goes tits up. That’s why we have a safety net.

mydogisthebest · 25/05/2025 12:13

BIossomtoes · 25/05/2025 11:55

Circumstances change. It’s perfectly possible to be in a strong financial position when you decide to have children, then redundancy, illness or death come along and it all goes tits up. That’s why we have a safety net.

So stick to having 1 or maybe 2 children and then more likely to be able to cope if the unforeseen happens. Also, if possible, have insurance or at least some savings in place.

So many couples have 3, 4 or more children and then start bleating when illness, job loss, divorce or whatever happens

OonaStubbs · 25/05/2025 12:22

So many couples have 3 or 4 children when they can't even afford to have 1 without relying on benefits. I'm sorry but that is just wrong and it needs to be stopped.

ToBeOrNotToBee · 25/05/2025 12:27

mydogisthebest · 25/05/2025 12:13

So stick to having 1 or maybe 2 children and then more likely to be able to cope if the unforeseen happens. Also, if possible, have insurance or at least some savings in place.

So many couples have 3, 4 or more children and then start bleating when illness, job loss, divorce or whatever happens

I was one of 5.
Dad had 3 businesses whilst mum devoted herself to being mum.
We weren't well off but never went without.
That all changed when mum died aged 31. Overnight dad could no longer work let alone run his 3 businesses and they all collapsed.
Without benefits we would have starved. Nice to know you would have approved of that.

BIossomtoes · 25/05/2025 12:27

OonaStubbs · 25/05/2025 12:22

So many couples have 3 or 4 children when they can't even afford to have 1 without relying on benefits. I'm sorry but that is just wrong and it needs to be stopped.

We need people to have children. As a society we’re not having enough.

mydogisthebest · 25/05/2025 12:31

BIossomtoes · 25/05/2025 12:27

We need people to have children. As a society we’re not having enough.

Yes we really need more people in this overcrowded country. Hospitals can't cope, schools can't cope, GP surgeries can't cope, roads overcrowded etc etc.

Yes I know we have an ageing population but the solution can never ever be to keep adding more and more humans. That is ridiculous

mydogisthebest · 25/05/2025 12:32

ToBeOrNotToBee · 25/05/2025 12:27

I was one of 5.
Dad had 3 businesses whilst mum devoted herself to being mum.
We weren't well off but never went without.
That all changed when mum died aged 31. Overnight dad could no longer work let alone run his 3 businesses and they all collapsed.
Without benefits we would have starved. Nice to know you would have approved of that.

I don't disagree with benefits but I do disagree with 3, 4, 5 or more children. Just why would you have that many unless you are a complete selfish moron?

BIossomtoes · 25/05/2025 12:33

mydogisthebest · 25/05/2025 12:31

Yes we really need more people in this overcrowded country. Hospitals can't cope, schools can't cope, GP surgeries can't cope, roads overcrowded etc etc.

Yes I know we have an ageing population but the solution can never ever be to keep adding more and more humans. That is ridiculous

The birth rate is falling. 🤷‍♀️

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cnvj3j27nmro

OonaStubbs · 25/05/2025 12:36

We need fewer people, not more. What we need is a population where everyone is productive and we have fewer people reliant on state support.

Frequency · 25/05/2025 12:42

OonaStubbs · 25/05/2025 12:36

We need fewer people, not more. What we need is a population where everyone is productive and we have fewer people reliant on state support.

What jobs do you propose the pensioners do?

Pensions are the biggest welfare expense by far.

BIossomtoes · 25/05/2025 12:42

OonaStubbs · 25/05/2025 12:36

We need fewer people, not more. What we need is a population where everyone is productive and we have fewer people reliant on state support.

If we don’t start increasing the birth rate there won’t be any taxpayers at all.

ToBeOrNotToBee · 25/05/2025 12:43

mydogisthebest · 25/05/2025 12:32

I don't disagree with benefits but I do disagree with 3, 4, 5 or more children. Just why would you have that many unless you are a complete selfish moron?

No idea. Can't ask them as they're both dead.
I do know my older sister was an accident and my younger brother the result of a contraception failure.
Because you know, no method of contraception is 100% safe.
But you go on living in your ideal world.

Frequency · 25/05/2025 12:44

I do think, though, that we keep people alive for far too long, with little to no quality of life. You'd be prosecuted for keeping an animal in the state some humans are forced to live in, and yet, not only do we allow their suffering to continue, we extend it by medicating and operating on them, to keep them alive as long as possible, as opposed to managing their pain and allowing them a peaceful and dignified death.

OonaStubbs · 25/05/2025 12:45

Frequency · 25/05/2025 12:42

What jobs do you propose the pensioners do?

Pensions are the biggest welfare expense by far.

Yes but there would be more money for pensions if there weren't so many working-age people on benefits.

mydogisthebest · 25/05/2025 12:55

BIossomtoes · 25/05/2025 12:33

The birth rate is falling. 🤷‍♀️

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cnvj3j27nmro

Edited

Good. Far too many on the planet and in the UK.

mydogisthebest · 25/05/2025 12:57

BIossomtoes · 25/05/2025 12:42

If we don’t start increasing the birth rate there won’t be any taxpayers at all.

As another poster said, get the benefit scroungers working. Far too many people not working because they don't want to.

As I said, we cannot keep adding, adding, adding, adding to the population. It just is not going to work.

I just thank God that I am not going to be around for much longer to see the mess this country/the planet are going to be in

EasternStandard · 25/05/2025 13:04

mydogisthebest · 25/05/2025 12:57

As another poster said, get the benefit scroungers working. Far too many people not working because they don't want to.

As I said, we cannot keep adding, adding, adding, adding to the population. It just is not going to work.

I just thank God that I am not going to be around for much longer to see the mess this country/the planet are going to be in

Plus look at the AI replacing jobs thread. The dc born today will be entering a different workforce, likely reduced anyway.

Frequency · 25/05/2025 13:11

EasternStandard · 25/05/2025 13:04

Plus look at the AI replacing jobs thread. The dc born today will be entering a different workforce, likely reduced anyway.

I wasn't too concerned about AI until a few weeks ago when I had to start studying it for a course. It is far more advanced than I think most people realise.

A few models have already passed the Turning test. Google experimented with allowing two AI models to communicate with each other. The experiment had to be scrapped when they developed a secret language so the humans couldn't understand them. Someone forecast what would happen if you built an AI whose sole purpose was to buy and collect stamps. After a few years, the AI practically ran the world. It got so good at collecting stamps it bought land to grow trees for the paper, bought factories and delivery firms, etc, because normal production could not keep up with the rate it was buying and selling them.

I don't think AI is going to take over the world a la Terminator (although I do think it is more possible than I did a few weeks ago), but I honestly believe it will be doing 90% of traditional job roles within the next decade.

BlueyNeedsToFuckOff · 25/05/2025 13:13

BIossomtoes · 25/05/2025 11:55

Circumstances change. It’s perfectly possible to be in a strong financial position when you decide to have children, then redundancy, illness or death come along and it all goes tits up. That’s why we have a safety net.

True, but at some point we do have to look at SOME parents taking a bit more responsibility.

This article says that about a quarter of children in Brighton are eligible for free school meals. That’s a lot of families in no or minimal employment. (And there are jobs in the area) it isn’t sustainable. But I don’t know what the answer is, as it’s not the kids’ fault.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-sussex-68082138

EasternStandard · 25/05/2025 13:14

Frequency · 25/05/2025 13:11

I wasn't too concerned about AI until a few weeks ago when I had to start studying it for a course. It is far more advanced than I think most people realise.

A few models have already passed the Turning test. Google experimented with allowing two AI models to communicate with each other. The experiment had to be scrapped when they developed a secret language so the humans couldn't understand them. Someone forecast what would happen if you built an AI whose sole purpose was to buy and collect stamps. After a few years, the AI practically ran the world. It got so good at collecting stamps it bought land to grow trees for the paper, bought factories and delivery firms, etc, because normal production could not keep up with the rate it was buying and selling them.

I don't think AI is going to take over the world a la Terminator (although I do think it is more possible than I did a few weeks ago), but I honestly believe it will be doing 90% of traditional job roles within the next decade.

I’m not sure of the percentage but we need to be careful about children born today just having so few jobs to do when they get older.

It’s likely starting to impact some graduates on a small basis already. But that’s not much compared with 18 or so years’ time.

Frequency · 25/05/2025 13:18

90% was a guess, but I cannot think of any job that, when combined with advanced robotics, which is also coming along in leaps and bounds, could not be replaced by AI and machines.

I'm sure there are such jobs, but I can't think of any.