@YashmisCrone I love that message, it's so true and a useful reminder always but especially now.
@speakout that image is so beautiful and powerful, thanks for sharing it.
@rivierliedje it sounds like you're doing wonderfully in very challenging circumstances. Your routine sounds very grounding, I hope it's helping you.
I'm not sure if any of you remember me as I haven't posted in ages. I've just had my baby, so I think I have a valid excuse
. It's lovely catching up on this thread though, it really calms me down just reading your words and learning about the little routines and rituals you stick to to help ground you in this chaos.
I am doing OK, but I've definitely felt a bit fraught which I'm sure is partly to do with whats going on and partly the beautiful mess of new parenthood. I had a 65 hour labour (very rough labour, magical and incredible delivery!) and then had to go back into hospital a few days later for four nights for a rip roaring infection. I'm feeling much better now, but it took it out of me and six weeks on I'm just starting to feel a bit more normal.
Things I am doing to stay calm: exercise in our little makeshift home gym (endorphins), batching cooking on the weekend so we can eat nutritious meals throughout the week with hardly any effort and getting out for a daily dog walk to be amongst nature and breathe in some fresh air. I've also ordered some lettuce seeds, so I'll be having a go at growing this week too. Other than that, I'm delighting in getting to know this brand new person and I'm soaking up all the newborn cuddles.
Something I'm struggling with is guilt. While this is a hard time for humanity, my life is pretty easy and often enjoyable right now and sometimes I feel guilty for enjoying myself and my new baby meanwhile other people are out there on the front line risking their health and lives. It's hard being a human sometimes.
Anyway, I'll stop rabbiting on. Wishing you all a peaceful week x