Time's fluid, please only think of doing something when you're interested or have the time to pursue it, trying to stick to a rigid timetable of replying doesn't work well.
Consider standing at the hub of a wheel and the rim being Time, the past, present and future are all the same distance from you.
The difference for all of us, and we have a wide variety of practices among the people who post here, is that we don't follow a prescribed system of rules and do's and don'ts, it's just our individual way of life.
Most of us are solitary practitioners and we just do what we do as part of our everyday lives.
I hope maybe one day I can be taken under the wing of an experienced practitioner, or dare I say it, join and commit to a discreet coven and learn extensively from them
I'd advise you to find your own way of working first, find out what you're comfortable with, discover what you like to do on your own. There are some lovely genuine groups around and there are some dreadful ones too. Always be aware, you have good insight already, use it and don't be awed by someone else's ego and never ever do anything you are uncomfortable with 
We're on our 11th thread, there's a lot of knowledge in previous threads and discussions about different paths and different ways of doing the same thing, do read through them, you may just find exactly what you were looking for, exactly when you need it.