Good morning all!
A blustery day here. I woke with that full-body period pain which feels like being put through a mangle. My morning yoga worked its magic though, and afterwards I watched a short documentary on yoga while drinking my tea, followed by a spa shower (for that reason alone I am so grateful for this place: what a totally brilliant yet simple idea!)I feel calm, at peace and accepting. I'm hoping that this feeling will last when I head to the supermarket later.
Lots of interesting thoughts and ideas here today.
I think I'm stuck on what you describe as the heavy backpack of the word witch, speakout, all the negative connotations which have become associated with it and have been used, as you say, as a branch to beat women who dare.
Have you seen the video of the poem/blog post Be a lady, they said, which is doing the rounds on social media? The video is quite controversial but the poem shows well the conflicting and controlling demands and expectations which are imposed upon women, or which we have imposed upon ourselves. The harmful stereotypes which, again, are used to beat women, just for being really!
It's that same old recurring idea that we are not good enough, imperfect. Used again and again to keep us down, in our place. Our out of control consumer society plays on this.
We must dare! Go back to our core. Untame ourselves. Be who we are, unashamedly.
I wasn't a spirited child really. Very dreamy, intuitive and sensitive. It wasn't encouraged at home. Quite the opposite in fact. So I built a shell, or turned away from that part of me. Actually smothered is a better word.
As I grow older and wiser ( at last! ) I've been feeling this sort of cogitive dissonance between who I am at my core, and the life I lead. Or rather the crazy world we live in. These threads are helping me to better understand this and showing me how to carve out the space to breathe, flourish and explore my possibilities.
It has been fascinating to read about your early experiences and journey, speakout and BlankTimes. Thank you for sharing.
InTheTempest and littleninja thank you for the warm welcome. I'm so glad to have found you and grateful to be accepted.
I think it's really telling how many of us seemed to find these threads in our darkest hour, as it were. And how we draw strength and confidence from the collective nurturing energy. I love the image of dusting myself down, straightening my crown and facing the sometimes cruel world with a secret army of witches right behind me!