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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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BlackeyedSusan · 12/02/2015 11:59

well, I have washed up, done a load of washing, gathered together the recycling and swept the easy half of the hall. I am now running out of oomph. on the plus side, I am preventing it getting worse and there is more of the day left.

BlackeyedSusan · 12/02/2015 14:56

had a nap. next job is school run and parents evening. dd's favourite teacher.

BlackeyedSusan · 13/02/2015 07:25

parents' evening. v late home, late to bed. ds up in the night and themn up early and I could not sleep after he got up at 6.

school, assembly, shopping, bed.

Dutchoma · 13/02/2015 07:34

Did the parents' evening go alright? Hope you get some rest today. And in the weekend. Is the galumphing one expected?

BlackeyedSusan · 13/02/2015 07:47

parents evening was weird.

me too.

ditto

yes. (that made me laugh)

howtoapproachthis · 13/02/2015 07:56

hi everyone. sorry i haven't been here for you all -i have been overwhelmed with daily life! i would really appreciate if you could keep me in prayer, everything gets on top of me lately. i feel im increasingly isolated from friends and the church, i don't know anyone from church really - i did think i was making friends but that seems to have just fallen through. health getting worse. i don't have energy for friends or anything extra in my life at the minute , but still some text messages or email would mean a lot to me. every couple of weeks i have this friend who texts 'how are you' and its starting to annoy me even though i know thats irrational. i don't know what to say to her every week, and ive just started saying back 'ok, how are you?;' and that sounds cheeky but i haven't the energy to know how to reply. i wish i could just tell her to stop asking how i am but just say something else to me! dd is being really really challenging, almost impossible at times. everything seems a massive struggle. thanks

Bluetinkerbell · 13/02/2015 11:33

Haven't been on here for ages! But have been keeping you all in my prayers! :)
I'm 30 weeks pregnant now with DD4 and counting down, all going well so far.

I was urged to come and pop in as Graham Kendrick is visiting our church and.leading worship soon Wink

BlackeyedSusan · 13/02/2015 13:31

blue, please pm me and explain that in words of one syllable for the sleep deprived.

cloutiedumpling · 13/02/2015 16:12

Feeling much more relaxed about stuff. Isn't great that we can all be different characters and still worship the same God?

niminypiminy · 14/02/2015 09:02

Really glad to hear you are feeling better about things. You are right, God is so much bigger than our visions of him! I know he rejoices in you as you are and in your worship.

Blue, have you invited Nickelbabe to visit when GK comes Grin?

Bluetinkerbell · 14/02/2015 10:13

I should, shouldn't I

Bluetinkerbell · 14/02/2015 10:15

She's not too far from us so would be possible for her to come Wink

niminypiminy · 14/02/2015 11:11

I'm sure she'd enjoy it! Hope he does shine Jesus Shine Grin

Dutchoma · 14/02/2015 12:41

Oi, you two, you are Wicked. Nickel beware!

BlackeyedSusan · 14/02/2015 13:11

"Noooooooooot shine jesus shhhhhhhhhhhhiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnneeeeeeee"

niminypiminy · 14/02/2015 14:16
niminypiminy · 14/02/2015 14:17

(That won't show on my phone)

{adopts innocent face} {whistles}

BlackeyedSusan · 14/02/2015 20:04

remember that splinter under a fingernail? (a few of you probably heard it going in) just got most of the rest of it out. Seems the body is capable of walling off nasties.

Anjelica27 · 14/02/2015 20:40

I try, really do–pray so hard and feel so lost. Ds is calm,which is a blessing, but so sad. thinking this isn't working. Don't know where to go next. Sorry xx

niminypiminy · 14/02/2015 21:58

Anjelica it is so hard to see someone you love so sad, and to feel that you can't do anything to help them and that your prayers are no use.

Is there any way you can get some TLC for yourself? It is really tiring and draining trying to support and help and live with someone in such distress. You need to look after yourself - or even better have someone look after you - even if it is just a cup of tea away from it all.

And are you sleeping?

I pray that tonight you will be able to rest in God's love for you, so that tomorrow you will be better able to start again.

Tuo · 14/02/2015 23:36

[hums] "Shine, Jesus, shine..."

(I have a funny "SJS" story. Years ago DD2 had just learnt it at school and would sing it in the car, especially if it started to rain "So that Jesus will make it shine again, mummy". Except I realised that she was singing, instead of "blaze, Spirit, blaze", "burn, Jesus, burn", which gave it a very different kind of tenor - more death metal than GK!)

Anyway...

Blue it's good to see you. Thanking God for a healthy pregnancy and praying for an equally healthy next 10 weeks.

Anjelica - I'm so sorry that you are in this situation. It must be so very hard, and I have no advice, except to say that it seems that your DS must first accept that he needs help before anyone can really help to make a difference for him. In the meantime, it must be so hard to watch him being so sad, but it may be that being there for him and telling him that you love him and want to help is all you can do. Praying for you and for him.

howto - Good to see you, too, though I'm sorry that things are so hard. It sounds as if your friend wants to reach out to you but doesn't really know how and is doing it a bit clumsily. I can see why you're irritated, but I wonder what would happen if you were able to reply along the lines of 'Actually things are not great at the moment, but it'd be great to have a chat about something else, just to take my mind off it for a while'? I am praying for your health and for energy and strength, and for true friendship.

cloutie - thanking God that things seem to be resolving themselves a bit.

And praying today for all who are alone or lonely or who feel unloved. May God's light shine (no Graham Kendrick reference intended) on them all tonight.

Heard this Gospel this afternoon and wanted to share it for all on this thread:

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” (John 13, 34-35)

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Anjelica27 · 15/02/2015 12:12

Thank you niminy and tuo for your support, it means so much to me. Hmmm, sleep I remember that - support in RL would be good but no - which is fine, I can do this. Actually had a moment of clarity last night which will be good for me and my health (which isn't great at the moment). I suddenly realised that I've been struggling all this time to make ds better and I can't do that. Don't know why it's taken so long to get that. So new plan, pray for strength to stay strong, patient and support ds, he knows how much I love him and pray that when he's ready he knows that all he has to do is ask and help from the GP and CAMHS is there.

Hope you all have a good day and remembering you in the prayers today. Thank you xx

Dutchoma · 15/02/2015 13:00

Might it be helpful to remember the 3 cs of AA and no doubt other organistaions? You didn't Cause his distress, you cannot Control it and you cannot Cure it.

You must look after yourself to be able to continue to be there for your son, you are absolutely right.

Anjelica27 · 15/02/2015 13:22

Thank you Dutchoma, you're absolutely right and I shall remember that. I'm going to write it down and carry it around with me for when I have a bit of a wobble. Take care x

FaithLoveandGrace · 15/02/2015 14:35

Hi all, sorry to just jump in when I haven't been around much. Can I ask for prayers for counselling later please? I feel like I just want to run away, to tell her that everything's fine and to just avoid the issues. But actually I'm far from fine. I feel like I've massively, rapidly, spiralled and have no idea how to get out of this. DP and I are arguing again because I'm in such a bad place, I ended up self harming again and I just feel downright crap. Sometimes I find asking my chaplain to pray helps but at same time I feel like I'm bothering him and I don't really want to do that on a Sunday.

Sorry for such a selfish post.

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