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A Christian prayer thread for Autumn/Winter

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Tuo · 30/10/2014 01:17

Welcome to our new prayer thread for autumn/winter. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes; also thanking God for her recent 'all-clear' at her annual cancer check-up;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for BES to find the RL support that she needs;

... BlessedAssurance, for life with her two LOs, and for her family who are far away;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for God to provide if her XH is successful in training for a new role, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she continues to miss Bob; thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; and praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her work situation; and for the relationship between her brother and sister to improve;

... howtoapproachthis for physical and emotional healing; and for a good bond between her and her DD;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find good ways of supporting her DS, and for him to find renewed happiness in the coming weeks;

... MadHairDay, for her health; for peace of mind about the choice of secondary school for her DS; and for her DD to find friendship and acceptance;

... MrsPixieMoo, thanking God for her baby DD; and praying for a new home where the family can be really happy;

... Pipbin, for her IVF treatment - for her to find support and a positive way forward, whatever the outcome;

... PositiveAttitude, for her new studies and her work as a Deacon in her church; for her mum, who has dementia; and for her DD1 to find one or more special friends;

... PurplePidjin, for a more peaceful life;

... QuestionofFaith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and for a poster we won't name but whose situation is known to God, praying that she is safe and supported.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: ALittleFaith, Badvoc, BlueTinkerbell, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, MaryBS, niminypiminy, PandaG, RoomForALittleOne, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, tunnocksteacake, weegiemum, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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cloutiedumpling · 08/11/2014 11:46

It is interesting to read the comments about being a feminist and a Christian. DH and I don't fit neatly into traditional roles. He is better at cooking than I am and I don't think he has done any decorating in years as I do it all. I don't think I've ever fitted into the traditional submissive wife role and if anything, we submit to each other. This is what works for us but it wouldn't work for every couple. I think everyone just has to try and find what suits them best.

Feelinglostandalone · 08/11/2014 11:48

Hi All,

I have some amazing news I wanted to share with you. My grandmother was diagnosed with an illness last year that meant she only had about 2 years to live. There is no cure and treatment only helps the quality of your remaining time. I've been praying so hard about it, for healing, for a miracle, for something, anything to help her. I've just received news they misdiagnosed her. She's showing huge signs of improvement and the thing causing her illness is not something that will shorten her life. In fact it seems likely she'll be back to full health soon. It's absolutely amazing and what I can only call a miracle!

So Lord I praise you this day and thank you so much for this wonderful miracle you've blessed our family with. Though we are currently lost for words with this amazing news, may you know how truly grateful we are.

We thank you also Lord for Tuo's save return to the UK.

Let everything that has breath praise the Lord. God of life and love, whose Son was victorious over sin and death, make us alive with his life that the whole world may resound with your praise; through Jesus Christ our Lord.

Dutchoma · 08/11/2014 12:40

Praise God indeed, Flaa. It's very good to see that God gets the glory. Thanks also for TUO's safe arrival back in the UK after all her driving in the USA.

Now, I have a very unusual prayer request: I helped a friend this morning with a Traidcraft stall at our local Christian retirement home. On sale was a sort of puzzle box in the shape of a cat. You took a bit out and other bits then slid and moved to reveal a couple of secret compartments. Somebody bought it. Neither of us knew him. As friend packed it in its box a bit fell out. We didn't notice until we were packing up. Can we pray that this gentleman can be found before Christmas when he will give the box to his wife? Thank you.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 08/11/2014 13:14

How lovely feeling! Wonderful news.

I think submitting to one another is a perfect description. I'd love a h who cooked lots! Smile You're a team. No one person is above the other, surely that is feminism?

PositiveAttitude · 08/11/2014 17:50

Wonderful, Flaa. What a fantastic answer to your family's prayers.

I, too avoid the feminist threads, although when I do read one by accident I get rather wound up by the strong opinions when people are not prepared to see that not everyone has to do things the way they think! DH and I are a partnership, I do do all the cooking, washing, and ironing and most of the cleaning, too, but it works for us. If I need him to help I know he would. He doesn't ever expect things, never rarely moans, but as his wife I like to put a meal on the table for him when he comes home from work. If I ventured too much on those boards I would be told I am a doormat and need to stand up and get him to do more. I am happy, he is happy. What's the problem with that?

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 08/11/2014 19:53

Sound track to my evening

Dutchoma · 08/11/2014 21:10

For TUO with thanks that she is safely back and for all of you:

From the Northumbria Community service for Compline on Saturday:-

May God shield me;
may God fill me;
may God keep me;
may God watch me;
may God bring me this night
to the nearness of His love.

Feelinglostandalone · 08/11/2014 21:18

Thanks all.

dontstep thanks for sharing the song. I love Matt Redman and will have that song stuck in my head for a while now :)

Great prayer Dutchoma

As the day comes to a close, may we spend some time with God to reflect on the day that has passed. We thank you Lord for the blessings in our lives.
In peace we will lie down to sleep, for you alone Lord make us dwell in safety.
Abide with us Lord Jesus, for the night is at hand and the day has now past.
As the night watch looks for the morning, so do we look for you, O Christ.
Come with the dawning of the day and make yourself known in the breaking of the bread.

The Lord bless us and watch over us;
The Lord make his face shine upon us and be gracious to us;
The Lord look kindly on us and give us peace.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 08/11/2014 22:33

Lovely prayers. Thanks all, and goodnight x

cloutiedumpling · 09/11/2014 16:40

I agree PA. A marriage should be a partnership with each partner playing to their strengths, whatever they are.

Hardyleodicean · 10/11/2014 03:04

Dutchoma

May I PM you ?

Hardy

Hardyleodicean · 10/11/2014 03:28

Can I just say a prayer for all of you , (and I am making it up , it is not a recognised prayer )

Dear God ,
There are so many people who help my faith in so many ways .
I pray that you will help them in whichever way they need your help.

may God bring me this night
to the nearness of His love.
Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
The peace of all peace be mine this night

Dear God , please help those who have helped me when I needed them

blackeyedsusie · 10/11/2014 07:11

morning. back on the treadmill again. the boy is still asleep he couldn't sleep as he was worried about school.

Dutchoma · 10/11/2014 07:45

Certainly, Hardy.

KayKat · 10/11/2014 07:58

Thank you Tuo for the new thread and I am really enjoying all the prayers being posted up.

Things are better at the moment for me and DS the changes we made are helping and things between me and ex are still friendly at a distance which is good. I do feel anxious that its all going to go wrong again.

I would class myself as a feminist and I enjoy reading the feminist threads mostly as food for thought. I used to be very influenced by evangelist teachings on how a wife should be submissive and I was a doormat who ended up being abused and cheated on. Now I feel that certain interpretations of the bible taught in some churches have a lot of answer for.

howtoapproachthis · 10/11/2014 08:02

don'tstep i loved the song, it helped me yesterday morning.
hardy your prayer is lovely, really beautiful.

dh has dd today, dad is bringing me to a hosp appt later this afternoon i am hoping for some good news. (i should be caring for him but it is the other way around still...not normal! i am forever indebted to mum and dad)

i feel awful. i had a lovely time in church yesterday. dh took dd. then i came home and i was wrecked and watched loads of episodes of black is the new orange, after loads of people said how good it was. why does EVERYTHING have to be filled with filth, swearing, crudeness.... i won't be watching it again. i feel like i ruined what could have been a good day yesterday. im an all or nothing person, i need to get the balance sometimes.

madhairday · 10/11/2014 14:28

I was going to watch that as well howto, after seeing it recommended here, might avold it now. Don't let it spoil the day though - so easy to do stuff like that. It's ok.

I also identify as Christian and feminist and have no problem with the two words together - not mutually exclusive, though I know many on mn believe so. I avoid the fwr chat as it's a little scary! Interesting though. I also think traditional views of Scripture when it comes to woman's place etc have a lot to answer for and there's aa lot of misunderstanding out there. Makes me sad really. We also go for the submit to one another thing, as Paul instructed us to.

Praying for you all.

blackeyedsusie · 10/11/2014 14:57

please pray for a breakthrough with school for ds, I have a meeting tomorrow with the head.

Also pray for a breakthrough with ex. we need to come to a decision. this may of course not be needed if school can pull something out of the bag.

howtoapproachthis · 10/11/2014 15:34

mhd yes avoid it, honestly it is just filth. if you haven't seen it i really recommend prison break, it was my fave series, totally addictive and nothing too bad in it.

i got a really good report from consultant today. the Lord has really melted my heart. He is so good to me despite myself. i had a health condition that the Lord has completely healed (not the fatigue) and i just cannot believe it, i don't have to go back to that hosp. :) :) :) i am over the moon.

Dutchoma · 10/11/2014 15:50

So good to see this Howto. Don't be surprised at God's goodness. He loves you more than you will ever know.

madhairday · 10/11/2014 16:08

That's fantastic howto :) So good to hear about healing.

And thanks, I will now avoid OITNB, there is no need to put our minds through that kind of stuff. I also love Prison Break. Have you seen Breaking Bad? Some harsh stuff in there but amazing characterisation and study on human nature, I've found it fascinating.

howtoapproachthis · 10/11/2014 16:15

im so pleased honestly its a miracle :)

i am always looking for something decent to watch mhd, as long as its not toooo bad i can handle it lol. i will have a look at breaking bad. my friend recently gave me her netflix password so i feel so chuffed to be able to get on and watch things i wouldn't normally be able to. its just finding out what to watch is the problem!

PositiveAttitude · 10/11/2014 18:25

Lovely to read your positive update Howto

I am also pleased that things are going well for you now Kay

I know we are told to be a submissive wife.....but the husband is also told to treat us well and lovingly. If one side does not do their bit the "yoke" is uneven. If one side has to bend too much it wont work. I am very blessed to be able to be a submissive wife to a husband who is loving and wants the best for me, so it works for us. I totally get that it doesn't work for others.
Sorry, that is not supposed to sound smug in any way. I am just saying that I understand why a female who has not had that support can see it as being always one sided.

Tuo how is DD now?

Dutchoma · 10/11/2014 18:38

It's not only that a husband has to treat his wife lovingly and with kindness, he is supposed to 'love her as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her'. That is some loving and who would not want to submit to that kind of love?

KayKat · 10/11/2014 19:46

I'll be honest I really struggle with the idea of a submissive wife these days. It seems so risky to rely on the husband to be loving and kind all the time surely sometimes he would be selfish? Mot meaning to offend anyone I just cant get my head around it any more and genuinely interested because being submissive is something that was a big mistake for me. In my case my H didn't even use these teachings as an excuse, the problem was my own beliefs, I was willing to put up with far too much.