Mathx;
No, I don't agree with that at all (your post of; 15.06.09 yesterday.)
The whole point of religion is having something in your life that gives it meaning, direction, and yes, why not some 'serenity'. I'm a catholic because I agree with 99% of what it's about. if I was constantly struggling with it's teachings it would be counterproductive for me and especially for my children. how could I bring my children up as catholic when i don't agree with it's fudamental principles. seems silly to me.
And do catholics struggle with the Q; "why do bad things happen to good people".... Of course we don't. we know why.
Natuaral disasters for example.
when 100's of innocent people are killed by floods, what happens?
our natural reaction is to help, to do all we can to make the suffering less. we are renewing our faith in ourselves, confirming that we are indeed good, kind and compassionate people, the people god wants us to be.
if nothing bad ever happened, how would we know this about ourselves. god is testing us.