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Pedants' corner

‘He want aloud’

148 replies

ProfessorofDarkArts · 08/07/2026 23:31

On a FB thread about schools and rules during the heat. Honestly I give up 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Daradillington · 10/07/2026 13:13

PleasantPedant · 10/07/2026 12:50

That would cause endless confusion (as it often does on MN threads, incidentally).
Only because the MNers who get confused refuse to recognise that the 'ar' phonic is the sound you get in the first a in Lana.

I come from somewhere where laugh is pronounced laff, but I'm not confused when I see something like 'yer 'avin' a larf'.

Even if you say 'Lana (LAR-na, non-rhotic R)' or 'Larna with the r not sounded' they seem to be completely baffled.

If you mention IPA, that's far too complicated for them.

It’s confusing if you haven’t thought about how ar sounds in different accents. Many won’t have heard the terms rhotic or non-rhotic before, even though they’ll have heard people using the accents of course. And many people won’t have heard of IPA either.

Only because the MNers who get confused refuse to recognise that the 'ar' phonic is the sound you get in the first a in Lana

Again, there is more than one way the ar sound is taught 😅

It is taught differently in Ireland as I’ve mentioned already, as well as in America. (I googled American phonics and ar is very different to an English ar, and it’s somewhat different to an Irish ar too.)

I’m not sure how ar is taught in places like Scotland, but if an English ar sound is taught to children who speak with a rhotic accent, that could explain why they find things more difficult. You mentioned upthread that they do iirc.

CaptainMyCaptain · 10/07/2026 13:21

PleasantPedant · 10/07/2026 09:00

I was trying to think of a word that has the 'ar' sound in it that isn't a name and that can't be said differently in a regional accent but I can't think of it.

Path, bath, staff, giraffe etc are understandable regardless of whether you use an a sound (The a sound | phonics | a words - BBC Bitesize) or an ar sound.

If you used a rhotic R when using the 'ar' phonic, how would you explain to a young child why scarf and giraffe rhyme?

The ‘He want aloud’ in the thread title to me suggests that the author has poor English. If he or she said those words, they might sound ok -
'He wa(s)n't allowed'.

Scarf and giraffe don't rhyme for the children I taught although they do rhyme for me. The 'ar' phoneme is taught separately from 'a' whichever way you pronounce it.

RaraRachael · 10/07/2026 13:26

I've never encountered children in Scotland having difficulties with phonics

PleasantPedant · 10/07/2026 13:29

@Daradillington It’s confusing if you haven’t thought about how ar sounds in different accents. Many won’t have heard the terms rhotic or non-rhotic before, even though they’ll have heard people using the accents of course. And many people won’t have heard of IPA either.
How hard is it to look up the meaning or ask what it means? Is it so difficult to type 'rhotic meaning' into a search engine?

Instead we get the 'Why are you saying Larna when there's no R in Lana?'.

@CaptainMyCaptain , they don't rhyme for me. Scarf is the 'RP' version and giraffe rhymes with laff. I can appreciate that the 'RP' version is gir-arf (the letter r isn't said).

sashh · 10/07/2026 13:29

Daradillington · 09/07/2026 08:51

I think we should remember that we are lucky if we are able to write fluently and accurately.
Lots of people either didn’t have the same educational advantages, or struggle with conditions such as dyslexia, or both.

Yes, I know this is Pedants’ Corner.
It wasn’t set up to complain about members of the public imho.
Organisations like the BBC I hold to a much higher standard.

Edited

I am dyslexic, I find it really insulting when people, who usually have no experience of dyslexia, use it as an excuse for ignorance. Yes I make mistakes, yes I often read things incorrectly but there is a difference between mistakes and not knowing standard English.

I posted a while back that I read a thread title and thought someone was trying to choose between a dog and a slow cooker.

Dyslexia can be funny.

PleasantPedant · 10/07/2026 13:30

RaraRachael · 10/07/2026 13:26

I've never encountered children in Scotland having difficulties with phonics

Neither have I.

CaptainMyCaptain · 10/07/2026 13:30

I think the most difficult thing in phonics was for my children was distinguishing between th and f.

MixedFeelingsNoFeelings · 10/07/2026 13:30

CaptainMyCaptain · 09/07/2026 21:33

As a retired Reception teacher who had to teach phonics I'm inclined to agree. The children in my class used to write 'couldn't ' as 'cunt'. (Northern accent)

My first thought was that the 'want aloud' writer was northern.

Down south, I was always amused by some local graffiti saying something or other was 'ballshit'.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 10/07/2026 13:34

maudelovesharold · 09/07/2026 08:39

I’m convinced this all stems from people not reading and among other things, not becoming familiar with homophones in context. ‘He want aloud’ sounds exactly like the way many would say ‘he wasn’t allowed’. I suppose.

It really stems from people communicating in the written form when years ago they didn't do so very often so these errors wouldn't be so obvious.

I've always been a bookworm but have still learned a lot about grammar online in the last 25 years.

Daradillington · 10/07/2026 13:35

How hard is it to look up the meaning or ask what it means? Is it so difficult to type 'rhotic meaning' into a search engine?
Instead we get the 'Why are you saying Larna when there's no R in Lana?'.

@PleasantPedant
Well, I very much agree with you about looking things up before posting. It’s not an issue confined to ‘ar’ on MN though.

Also, though I appreciate you do add extra detail, most people on MN don’t add ‘as said in a non-rhotic accent’ when spelling words phonetically with an ar.

Daradillington · 10/07/2026 13:40

RaraRachael · 10/07/2026 13:26

I've never encountered children in Scotland having difficulties with phonics

I’m not sure what parts of the UK @PleasantPedant meant when she said:
‘In some parts of the UK with rhotic accents, the children don't learn phonics as easily as those in areas where the accent is nearer to RP’.
It may not have been Scotland.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 10/07/2026 13:41

MixedFeelingsNoFeelings · 10/07/2026 13:30

My first thought was that the 'want aloud' writer was northern.

Down south, I was always amused by some local graffiti saying something or other was 'ballshit'.

I remember kids writing "I were" instead of "I was" because that was the dialect.

Surely you wouldn't expect reception kids to get it right though? It would be great if they can write anything much at age 4/5.

PrettyLittleRose · 10/07/2026 13:51

Currently feeling aggravated by a post on Facebook that I saw a couple of days ago, that says 'Are buddleeah bushes are groing so big now. Butterflys love them. I don't no what theyd do without them.'

Grown woman in her late 50s. Has 3 daughters between 31 and 41 who have the same kind of bad spelling and grammar. I get that some people can't help it, but it's so annoying! FFS, how can anyone get to their 30s, 40s, 50s, and not know it's our bushes, (not ARE bushes,) that the word 'growing' has a W in it, the plural of butterfly is butterflies, and it's KNOW not no when you say you don't know something! FFS! Hmm

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wellwhatdoyou · 10/07/2026 13:54

Tbh although a lot of posts here seem to despair about the poor standards of teaching these days I am always far more inclined to think it’s people over the age of 30 who make these blunders

Want aloud would be 100% how half my school would write wasn’t allowed. I’m 45.

SleepingStandingUp · 10/07/2026 13:55

RaraRachael · 09/07/2026 17:10

Neither of my parents were great readers. My dad would verh occasionally read a non fiction book but I never ever saw my mother read a book.
However they both used spelling and grammar correctly and could write an excellent letter.

I don't subscribe to the "language evolves" stuff. To me that's just an excuse for sloppiness.

And yet you've written that in modern English. Not even a whiff of Shakespeare let alone anything more archaic.

PrettyLittleRose · 10/07/2026 13:55

wellwhatdoyou · 10/07/2026 13:54

Tbh although a lot of posts here seem to despair about the poor standards of teaching these days I am always far more inclined to think it’s people over the age of 30 who make these blunders

Want aloud would be 100% how half my school would write wasn’t allowed. I’m 45.

Yes, it doesn't seem to be younger people/teens/children making these errors. As you say it's pretty much people who are 30+.

PleasantPedant · 10/07/2026 13:59

Daradillington · 10/07/2026 13:40

I’m not sure what parts of the UK @PleasantPedant meant when she said:
‘In some parts of the UK with rhotic accents, the children don't learn phonics as easily as those in areas where the accent is nearer to RP’.
It may not have been Scotland.

It was Scotland and Wales.
Not the links I was thinking about but might provide some insight
'Clear guidance' call on teaching reading in class in Wales - BBC News
Thousands Of Children In Wales Struggle To Read - Kidseducationfranchise.com

Pearlstillsinging · 10/07/2026 14:05

TeaWithASplashOfMilkPlease · 09/07/2026 10:05

I’m convinced this decline in written English stems from lack of reading, and the dominance of TikTok, YouTube and the like. If the vast majority of what one learns is from what is heard rather than read, then correct spelling and grammar just won’t be visible, won’t embed, and many of the things we discuss here regularly will occur widely. Should have/should of; been for being; carnt for can’t; want for wasn’t; and the endless others.

It’s very old fashioned of me, but to a degree I also blame reading being taught through phonics. Spelling out the sounds you hear (or think you hear) phonically is the other side of teaching to read by sounding out. Unfortunately, if you aren’t hearing RP, there’s every chance that the sounds you write won’t be anywhere close to the correct spelling.

I think a lot of the problem arises from predictive text; the past participle seems to be fast disappearing.
On a MN thread today, I have read 'they were bias', no they were biased, there are plenty of other examples but that one particularly grates on me for some reason.
'Apposed' instead of 'opposed' also jars, along with 'air on the side of caution', rather than 'err', part of the problem is that people don't actually think of the meaning of what they are saying, hence 'tow the line' for 'toe the (starting) line'.

PleasantPedant · 10/07/2026 14:18

'I am bias' is a pet hate of mine. I'm amazed at how shocking the standard of the English on SM is. Rediculous!

What do they think rediculous means? It's not even a correction of a mistyped word in the way that defiantly is.

Yetanotherone12 · 10/07/2026 14:32

wellwhatdoyou · 10/07/2026 13:54

Tbh although a lot of posts here seem to despair about the poor standards of teaching these days I am always far more inclined to think it’s people over the age of 30 who make these blunders

Want aloud would be 100% how half my school would write wasn’t allowed. I’m 45.

Interestingly I remember this from my schools days. I’m 50’s, my younger sister is about 45 now.

i was taught grammar. Spelling tests. Dates. Rules.

my sister the teaching methods were changed and the focus was on creativity and encouragement. So if a kid wrote an imaginative essay they’d get top marks and a well done! I’d read it and think wtf- no correction of spelling or grammar in the slightest. Apparently it put children off learning if you were negative about their efforts.

so that would explain that to an extent. And also the resistance to correction…

I work with a lot of dyslexic people and it gets easy to spot the written patterns. It’s hard to describe but it’s rarely spag that gives it away, there’s a certain logic to the way the write that demonstrates how their brain interprets.

PleasantPedant · 10/07/2026 14:39

I know a few dyslexic people too. I've not taught them but agree about the patterns. It's not 'poor spelling'.
The people I mean are very intelligent but their writing looks like gobbledegook at first and the writing looks like a child's.

I don't know much about dyslexia other than it is obvious that these people have it.

Daradillington · 10/07/2026 14:52

PrettyLittleRose · 10/07/2026 13:55

Yes, it doesn't seem to be younger people/teens/children making these errors. As you say it's pretty much people who are 30+.

I’m not sure. I think my children’s grammar and spelling is poorer than mine unfortunately. They are in their teens now. I think the difference is that I was an avid reader as a child, while they spend more time on computer games and SM now too.

One of them is dyslexic and autistic and found phonics extremely confusing as a young child. He is a Gestalt language processor, but I only heard about that type of language acquisition process more recently, not while he was trying and failing at school.

PleasantPedant · 10/07/2026 14:52

Daradillington · 10/07/2026 13:35

How hard is it to look up the meaning or ask what it means? Is it so difficult to type 'rhotic meaning' into a search engine?
Instead we get the 'Why are you saying Larna when there's no R in Lana?'.

@PleasantPedant
Well, I very much agree with you about looking things up before posting. It’s not an issue confined to ‘ar’ on MN though.

Also, though I appreciate you do add extra detail, most people on MN don’t add ‘as said in a non-rhotic accent’ when spelling words phonetically with an ar.

They just start an argument about RP being for stuck up people and that their accent is just as valid, and IPA is too complicated, and they haven't the time. It would have probably been quicker for them to look it up than argue.

I do use RP or tone down my accent in the workplace because if I use my own accent, people sometimes struggle with the vowels. English may be their third or fourth language.

I accept the IPA versions because it's a standard version.
If I say 'parth' ([pɑːθ]) it might be because it avoids me being asked what i mean by 'path' ([paθ]).

Daradillington · 10/07/2026 15:21

For those with rhotic accents, it can be genuinely confusing to see path written as parth the first time you see it. Rhotic accents are just as valid.

I agree that people can learn to understand what people mean by using ar to spell a word phonetically. I was confused when I first saw people using it on MN, but it’s fine now. I guess there will always be people coming across it for the first time though.

PleasantPedant · 10/07/2026 15:34

For those with rhotic accents, it can be genuinely confusing to see path written as parth the first time you see it. Rhotic accents are just as valid.
Describe how to say 'parth' ([pɑːθ]) in phonics then. Bet you can't.

Why can't you just accept it. That's what I do. It's just a standard way of defining sounds.

It might not be how people in Stanraer, Sunderland, St Austell or Swansea speak, but many words might sound different in those places.

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