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Pedants' corner

‘He want aloud’

148 replies

ProfessorofDarkArts · 08/07/2026 23:31

On a FB thread about schools and rules during the heat. Honestly I give up 🤦🏻‍♀️

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TallulahBetty · 09/07/2026 15:05

LondonKara · 09/07/2026 10:29

What a rude response to a thoughtful post.

You must be very new to MN if you think that is rude.

maudelovesharold · 09/07/2026 15:17

I guessed what "He want aloud" meant with no trouble.

Language isn’t about ‘guessing’ and ‘deciphering’. It’s about being able to express yourself precisely, so others don’t have to guess what you mean. There’s such a rich vocabulary at our disposal for us to say exactly what we intend, but that can only be achieved if we all follow the same rules.

upinaballoon · 09/07/2026 15:53

istherereallytimeforallthat · 09/07/2026 10:06

Sounds like regional Essex dialect with a dash of Naw Flundon to me.

More than Essex. I would not be surprised to see 'he want' for 'he wasn't' 100 miles further north.

upinaballoon · 09/07/2026 16:19

It isn't just the luck of having to learn Latin and French for five years in a state school. It's also the attitude with which you were brought up.

RaraRachael · 09/07/2026 17:10

Neither of my parents were great readers. My dad would verh occasionally read a non fiction book but I never ever saw my mother read a book.
However they both used spelling and grammar correctly and could write an excellent letter.

I don't subscribe to the "language evolves" stuff. To me that's just an excuse for sloppiness.

Daradillington · 09/07/2026 18:00

TeaWithASplashOfMilkPlease · 09/07/2026 10:05

I’m convinced this decline in written English stems from lack of reading, and the dominance of TikTok, YouTube and the like. If the vast majority of what one learns is from what is heard rather than read, then correct spelling and grammar just won’t be visible, won’t embed, and many of the things we discuss here regularly will occur widely. Should have/should of; been for being; carnt for can’t; want for wasn’t; and the endless others.

It’s very old fashioned of me, but to a degree I also blame reading being taught through phonics. Spelling out the sounds you hear (or think you hear) phonically is the other side of teaching to read by sounding out. Unfortunately, if you aren’t hearing RP, there’s every chance that the sounds you write won’t be anywhere close to the correct spelling.

I don’t think RP is the best accent to demonstrate the alignment of sounds with spelling. Rhotic accents are simpler because r is pronounced at every position and the vowel sound doesn’t sometimes shift instead as it does in non-rhotic accents. I think General American is considered easier for beginners for this reason.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 09/07/2026 18:25

We are losing reading at a frightening rate. The screenshots attached are not really about pedantry but if even students at Harvard regard reading a whole novel as too hard even to attempt we're soon going to see a lot more phonetic spelling.

‘He want aloud’
‘He want aloud’
FramboiseRoyale · 09/07/2026 18:26

Daradillington · 09/07/2026 08:51

I think we should remember that we are lucky if we are able to write fluently and accurately.
Lots of people either didn’t have the same educational advantages, or struggle with conditions such as dyslexia, or both.

Yes, I know this is Pedants’ Corner.
It wasn’t set up to complain about members of the public imho.
Organisations like the BBC I hold to a much higher standard.

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As the parent of a child with significant learning difficulties. I agree 100 percent. At the risk of being one of those "MN was so much better in days of yore" posters, Pedants' corner used to be people talking about different usages and also often asking for advice about how to word sentences, etc., not posters making fun of others' lack of literacy or for posting to show that they have superior linguistic skills. For a great thread in the spirit of the former approach see the thread in Pedants' corner on the Oxford comma.

Mischance · 09/07/2026 18:59

I sing with someone whose language and written skills are very poor and sometimes his messages to me are poorly spelled. I would not dream of commenting on this in any way.

RaraRachael · 09/07/2026 19:26

t’s very old fashioned of me, but to a degree I also blame reading being taught through phonics.

Reading was always taught through phonics in Scotland and we noted a marked difference in the ability of most children who came to us from other areas, compared to ours.

I taught infants in England and Scotland and always found it tricky teaching spelling when children didn't pronounce words as they were written.

RoseOliviaAu · 09/07/2026 19:32

ComeIntoTheGardenMaud · 09/07/2026 10:02

Yes, I hold the BBC to a higher standard, because I assume everyone posting on the site has trained as a journalist. Nevertheless, we now seem to have reached the point where stepping and setting foot have merged to become the very irritating stepping foot and I suspect there’s no way (or step) back.

Why do you imagine all journalists have a standardised education? Most journalists don’t have a journalism degree. Many don’t have an NCTJ. Especially those who worked their way up from regionals. It’s oft thought that an English degree is preferable and that raw talent makes the better journo.

PleasantPedant · 09/07/2026 19:36

Daradillington · 09/07/2026 08:51

I think we should remember that we are lucky if we are able to write fluently and accurately.
Lots of people either didn’t have the same educational advantages, or struggle with conditions such as dyslexia, or both.

Yes, I know this is Pedants’ Corner.
It wasn’t set up to complain about members of the public imho.
Organisations like the BBC I hold to a much higher standard.

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@Daradillington , the errors are far too widespread to be explained as 'didn’t have the same educational advantages, or struggle with conditions such as dyslexia'.

RaininSummer · 09/07/2026 19:59

TV programmes are riddled with presenters who speak badly and this then becomes ingrained with their young viewers. I'm sure I make some errors but the awful grammar is so obvious.

sorrynotathome · 09/07/2026 20:23

We may get to a point where the only people who can speak and write correctly in English are those who have learned it as a second language. I’m actually not joking. How arrogant we are and how little we care when we spout nonsense like “language evolves” as an excuse for illiteracy.

istherereallytimeforallthat · 09/07/2026 20:25

upinaballoon · 09/07/2026 15:53

More than Essex. I would not be surprised to see 'he want' for 'he wasn't' 100 miles further north.

Except I grew up around there and have that accent running through me like a stick of rock. I don't let it out to play very often though. 😁

Daradillington · 09/07/2026 20:34

PleasantPedant · 09/07/2026 19:36

@Daradillington , the errors are far too widespread to be explained as 'didn’t have the same educational advantages, or struggle with conditions such as dyslexia'.

Ridiculing people’s use of language on threads like this one isn’t helpful, whatever the cause of the mistakes.

If people are worried about declining spelling or grammar standards then it’s possible to have a thoughtful conversation about that, but publicly scoffing at a mistake someone has made on FB isn’t necessary.

PleasantPedant · 09/07/2026 20:37

You're in Pedants' corner not Chat or AIBU?.

Daradillington · 09/07/2026 20:42

Yes, I know @PleasantPedant.

I personally don’t think mocking someone who made a mistake on Facebook is the purpose of Pedants’ corner.

It’s mean, it’s not useful, and there are far more interesting discussions about language to be had.

PleasantPedant · 09/07/2026 21:01

You seem to have misinterpreted the tone of the posts and the nature of the threads in Pedants' corner, @Daradillington

HoldMyWine · 09/07/2026 21:07

Yes @Daradillingtonmaybe this thread isn’t the place for you.

PleasantPedant · 09/07/2026 21:14

Daradillington · 09/07/2026 18:00

I don’t think RP is the best accent to demonstrate the alignment of sounds with spelling. Rhotic accents are simpler because r is pronounced at every position and the vowel sound doesn’t sometimes shift instead as it does in non-rhotic accents. I think General American is considered easier for beginners for this reason.

A lot of British accents aren't rhotic so using a rhotic R would not be usable for teaching phonics. Many British people can't sound the rhotic R; children often struggle with R anyway.
In some parts of the UK with rhotic accents, the children don't learn phonics as easily as those in areas where the accent is nearer to RP.

Daradillington · 09/07/2026 21:21

PleasantPedant · 09/07/2026 21:01

You seem to have misinterpreted the tone of the posts and the nature of the threads in Pedants' corner, @Daradillington

I don’t think I’ve misinterpreted anything @PleasantPedant.

I love language and I regularly enjoy posts in Pedants’ corner, but I just don’t like ones like this one for reasons I’ve already explained.

I don’t have to hold my tongue if I disagree with something @HoldMyWine. It’s okay to speak up and say what I think.

gymbummy · 09/07/2026 21:27

My grandparents were poor, working class. My amazing grandad was a voracious reader, he always said education was the route out of poverty.

Now, I constantly see people write as they speak. 'As' instead of 'has' and 'his' instead of 'he's' don't even get me started on the interchangeable their, they're and there!

RaraRachael · 09/07/2026 21:27

I'd say it's much easier fof children with rhotic accents to learn phonics.

Farm with rhotic accent = f-a-r-m
Farm with non rhotic accent sounds like fahm.

ProfessorofDarkArts · 09/07/2026 21:28

I wasn’t mocking and the person is unlikely to see this thread anyway but I do find it sad that the basics of language, spelling and grammar are disappearing and I genuinely don’t think it’s all down to lack of education or opportunity.

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