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Homeless adult son

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Neodymium · 23/01/2026 21:01

My 29 year old stepson is likely to be homeless this week. It’s such a difficult situation - he has mental health issues but they are clusterb personality disorders so he doesn’t see himself as the problem. He is delusional. He refuses all medication except weed which he is a regular user. A lot of his delusional ideas are validated, unfortunately, by his mother eg medications ect are evil and bad.

he was in hospital recently and discharged. He refused treatment and eventually told them whatever so he could get out. The police had him admitted after his housemates called.

I have teenagers, I absolutely can not have him living here. Not a chance. Id leave dh before that happened. Dh agrees he can not live here.

his mother refuses to have him as well. She has another adult child who doesn’t like him. However she is very delusional about him being homeless and thinks he can easily just find somewhere. His current share house arrangement he’s been given notice to leave as the other tenants are frightened of him, there is police reports and the police are willing to come and remove him if he refuses to go. He is unlikely to try find another share house as he thinks he has rights where he is and is refusing to go ( he doesn’t have any rights, he just thinks he does). Likely come eviction day the police will be called to remove him, he will end up back in hospital and then discharged onto the street.

not really looking for advice on him. He’s unfortunately past the age of ‘youth’ homeless services so there isn’t much else particularly when he doesn’t want any treatment and doesn’t think he needs it. Dh however is struggling with the situation and seeing his son on the street will probably destroy him. So I just don’t know what to do to help dh.

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SleafordSods · 10/02/2026 19:49

It does sound as though a long stint in Hospital is the only way of achieving some sort of normality for him. He sounds really, really unwell.

As horrible as it must have been sorting through his thibgs and speaking to his “housemates” at least you realise the full extent of his behaviour and won’t be tempted to have him live with you.

Neodymium · 14/02/2026 10:48

SleafordSods · 10/02/2026 19:49

It does sound as though a long stint in Hospital is the only way of achieving some sort of normality for him. He sounds really, really unwell.

As horrible as it must have been sorting through his thibgs and speaking to his “housemates” at least you realise the full extent of his behaviour and won’t be tempted to have him live with you.

yep It’s just a matter to get him there now.

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