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Accidentally spilled tea on my baby

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BigPoipleOne · 14/07/2026 14:42

I accidentally spilled tea on my 24 week old baby yesterday evening. It was just a few drops but he was very upset and I'm worried I have done lasting harm. I took off his clothes and put some cotton wool with water on the affected area. I called the phone number 111 but it is not available where I live. I called into Boots this morning and the pharmacist didn't say much, just said "Accidents happen" and "There's not much you can do". He agreed with my suggestion of Sudocrem so I put on a bit of that. He also auggested Calpol but my baby is in fine form today and no temperature so I didnt give any Calpol. I'm trying to attach a photo of what the area looked like a few minutes after I spilled the tea, and another photo taken this morning.
I feel really awful. A midwife in the hospital where he was born told me even a slight burn to a baby's skin can have lasting damaging impact on the baby's immune system.

Accidentally spilled tea on my baby
Accidentally spilled tea on my baby
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nocoolnamesleft · 15/07/2026 18:52

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 15/07/2026 09:41

When DD was a baby, I was changing her nappy on a changing mat on top of a chest of drawers. (We had visitors, so had moved the mat out of her room into ours).

I turned round to pick up a nappy and in that time she managed to roll off the mat and hit the floor, bouncing on her head.

Me and DP we absolutely convinced we'd broken her for days afterwards, despite all evidence pointing to the opposite. She's now 18, and about to get 4 A's at A-level, so I obviously didn't give her that much brain damage!

Every single parent on the planet has a story like this. Something they did or didn't do that meant that their child came to some form of harm. It means we're human, not useless. One mistake doesn't make you a bad parent.

And don't think it ends with them being a baby either. DD has a scar on her back that she got at a waterpark when a wave knocked her off her feet and she got dragged along the bottom by it. I still feel guilty about it despite the fact she was 15 at the time!

As a small child, I witnessed my cousin, at his Christening, being pushed in his pram through the churchyard by another small cousin, the child tripping, and the baby being catapulted onto the ground, thankfully between the headstones. He's now an NHS consultant.

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