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How can I stop my nine-year-old secretly taking sweets at home?

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oliversmummy26 · 21/05/2026 13:28

My son (will be 9 in August) has been helping himself to sweets and chocolates from around the home for a long time.

Initially it was Christmas chocolates (quality street/Celebrations etc.) he will have a nibble and then hide the wrapper somewhere in the house - behind the sofa, TV, under his bed etc. He clearly knows this is not acceptable behavior or he wouldn't hide the evidence, but just will not stop.

He's now moved on to snacks from the lunchbox basket (kitkats, brunch bars etc.) and today my husband has found evidence of him eating chocolate chips and sprinkles from my baking cupboard!

There have been consequences every time we find a wrapper hoard (early nights, cancelled playdates, no screentime etc.) but nothing seems to work. We have tried explaining to him that the chances are, when he asks for something he can likely have it, but he's up earlier than anyone else in the house and seems unable to control himself! I have also even said to him to just put the wrappers in the bin, we're less likely to find them!

We don't have much sweet stuff in the house, at this time of year when there are no christmas or easter chocolates around, it's just the usual lunchbox bits. I don't want to not have them in the house as that would punish everyone else and there is no where I can hide these things where he can't reach!

Just wondered if anyone else's children have a similar habit and if you've managed to stop them? I'm thinking the punishment this time will be no sweet snacks at school for a week, but no idea if that will work!

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glaciercherry · Yesterday 17:21

Locked box for lunch treats for a start.

But he’s clearly going to be dealing out something tasty to snack on so maybe creating some sort of acceptable alternative that is still a treat, but not as unhealthy as chocolate and sweets and having it freely available in the fridge.

Runnersandtoms · Today 08:56

My 15 year old is like this, if we buy anything that is,special we have to hide it or put a note on saying do not eat. He has no self control but then I don't have much either, I can easily eat a 200g bar of chocolate in one go.

All the people saying don't buy treats, OP said he was also taking chocolate chips sprinkles from the baking cupboard. My son ate a whole packet of glace cherries, I found the empty packet at the back of the cupboard. My daughter used to eat nutella with a spoon if there was no chocolate.

EvieBB · Today 16:00

Runnersandtoms · Today 08:56

My 15 year old is like this, if we buy anything that is,special we have to hide it or put a note on saying do not eat. He has no self control but then I don't have much either, I can easily eat a 200g bar of chocolate in one go.

All the people saying don't buy treats, OP said he was also taking chocolate chips sprinkles from the baking cupboard. My son ate a whole packet of glace cherries, I found the empty packet at the back of the cupboard. My daughter used to eat nutella with a spoon if there was no chocolate.

Yep this all sounds very relatable to me at that age (and as a "grown up") 🤪

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