So, who's right, my H for hitting my 9yo dd, or the 8 yo she hit?

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He left a whacking huge red mark on her arm. When she'd stopped hitting dd2, she hit H. I just don't know what to do.

My father was a miserable git. I didn't love him and I don't love him now, even though he thinks he can suddenly be 'daddy' to a daughter in her forties, when he was horrible to us all as kids.

Sorry, i don't buy that stuff about automatically loving a parent because they are your parent. It MIGHT be that this dad is actually quite nice a lot of the time and that is why the DDs love him, NOT because he is their dad.

Sorry, just got back to this thread.

No, don't intervene, but only because I'm a bit scared of him myself. I just have to say, in case I've pointed the wrong picture, he doesn't do it very often. But it still worries me enough to ask you about it.

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