I've got a drunk and puking 15 yet old, what do I do?

[treesandweeds]

First time this has happened, she's nicked rum and drunk it without us knowing. She's vomited all over her bed.
I can't get out of her how much she's had, she's acting sleepy but that could be cos she tired. She's been sick about 3 times.
What do I do?

As long as she’s breathing normally stick her in the recovery position and check on her periodically. Water and paracetamol for the morning. Hope she’s ok! Just make sure she doesn’t inhale any vomit

See if you can get her to sip some water. Lie her on her side, Put a bucket by the bed and stay with her to make sure she can vomit into the bucket if she needs to. Then prepare for the hangover!

Yup same as PP. Keep an eye and make sure she's okay through the night. If it's coming back up that's a good thing as it's out of her system quicker.

Lots of paracetamol ready for the morning

Get a sick bowl, keep checking on her and make sure she's in recovery position. Big glass of water next to her for morning

You should stay up with her op, make sure she doesn't choke. I had this with ds18 a few months ago, it was a long night😤

Ok thank you. I was quite worried. First time.

When she drinks water she's sick again so I didn't want her to drink too much...

Clean her up as best you can, give water if she'll take it, stick her on her side and probably stay up most the night worrying about her. Then in the morning when you're exhausted and she's hungover give her the riot act and make her wash anything puked on and not give a fuck about her hangover (while passing her the paracetamol/banana/full fat coke)

Was she drinking by herself?

The thing is, she annoyingly won't have a hangover, because at that age they're made of rubber & sproing back.

Make her clear up after herself in the morning, though, & if her social life normally depends on cash handouts & lifts - I would not be in the giving vein for a couple of weeks.

Safety tonight

Bollocking tomorrow

Get her to carry on drinking water, little sips at a time, being sick is good it's getting the alcohol out of her system.

No but the alcohol will have replaced any water in her system so you need to keep providing her with water so she stays hydrated

Yes, I agree. I'm more annoyed at my dh for encouraging her to have a drink , just the one, but then she obviously necked a load when he wasn't looking

Tbh in the morning I'd also be talking about the more practical dangers to a female of drinking past their limit (yes it sucks that I put female, when living in Germany a lad passed out drunk in the snow at 15 and died due to exposure, but females do unfortunately have the issue that some men are opportunistic cunts and that generally happens more than drunken sleep in the snow) She's home and taken care of this time, next time she could be in a precarious predicament, where anything from the elements, to the environment could cause her harm.

She's never been out at a party or anywhere else where that could happen, but I have mentioned it before and will again for the future

Is your husband her father? Why on earth would he encourage her to drink?

Because he's an idiot. Don't even get me started...

Perfect. If you’re going to sit it out, Netflix to give you something nice to look at, and sit down wind. Say things like, ‘There there, get it all up, you’ll feel better in the morning’. Stroke her hair and be kind. Then first thing tomorrow, put on Enter Sandman as loud as you can, pass the Vanish and tell her to choose which armchair she’ll be glued to for the next 150 Saturday nights….

Yes water to help dilute and if she's being sick that's good. Better that she got drunk at home than when out. It'll hopefully teach her not to drink so much. We've all been there. Think you're in for a long night.

I like @Mythreefavouritethings idea! Give her hell when she's hungover, she'll not want to touch a drink for the considerable future.

She's asleep now so I'm leaving her to sleep the rest of the night. I'm not sure what kind of punishment to give as she's usually a very good girl. Have never done anything like this before.
She asked for permission to go to london with her friends next week, and I had said yes, so maybe I'll change that to a no.

Punishment? Film her pissed and play it back to her.

I think saying no to London would be a very harsh punishment.

Sounds like she’s done this in her own home? Rather than been out drinking and partying and lying to you.

She’ll already been feeling awful tomorrow as it is. I would say have a good talk with her and then draw a line under it.

And make her wash her own sheets / clean up her own mess.

She'll be embarrassed when she sees all the remains of her sick down the sides of her bed...