on the whole I am more annoyed by attachment-parent type smugness
the whole 'I strapped my baby to my body for 3 years so I could respond sensitively to her every need 24h per day' thing ( I get a lot of that from work colleagues)
but the 'my kids have got better restaurant voices than yours' got to me too I have to say
ds1's restaurant voice is the same as all his other voices, and could probably shatter the wineglasses