My children are like strangers

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I have three older DC. DS1 is nearly 21 he is overseas at uni. DS2 is nearly 18 in the final year at school. DD is 14.

They don't speak or interact unless they have to. I feel so sad. There is just no sibling love in our house. I don't know where it went wrong.

Anybody in the same boat? Did they grow closer as they got older? Or were you in a similar situation growing up.

It feels like I have failed the family test.

Mine never hated each other as teenagers...but they all went different paths and didn’t socialise together...,Or even speak much....they seemed to irritate each other.....fast forward they are now 30 28 and 23....I think they enjoy each other’s company....that said they wouldn’t choose to go for nights out with each other...but lots of laughing and reminicisng at Sunday lunches....I pay for a family holiday with them and GC every year which they seem to enjoy and they visit their GM together without me And the eldest 2 will go Christmas shopping together , that type of thing.