Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Please or to access all these features

Parenting

For free parenting resources please check out the Early Years Alliance's Family Corner.

I really really need help with my daughter

85 replies

foreverinadaze · 20/09/2021 16:17

My dd has just gone one. I've posted before about my mental health issues and being off sick from work but right now my daughters behaviour is worrying and frustrating me and I was wondering if anyone knows if it's normal

Shes just gone one as stated. She has an afternoon nap which we now do in the pram, some days she has a morning nap but not often.

She's a total grump when she's awake. Screaming and shouting and proper screaming. Like going bright red from screaming. This all stems from having things out of her reach like wires etc. She has plenty of toys. She just crys all the time. Proper sobbing and going bright red. Weve recently installed safety gates, walking is very close to happening and when we shut them she cries. Even if we are in the same room as her.

Her eating has changed. She used to be an amazing eater but now she barely eats. Most goes on the floor. I tried some of the suggestions in a previous post of giving her little amounts but she doesn't eat and then cries because she's hungry. We offer her the food back and she just throws it

She still pinches and bites and claws and generally really bloody hurts me. Again tried some suggestions, tried distraction which worked fine for a couple of days until it didn't.
I know she probably doesn't understand what she's doing but it's hard

Shes only just gone 1 and I cant handle her now never mind when she goes 2.

I'm off work wirh mental health issues and I'm barely coping

Any suggestions would be great

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
foreverinadaze · 22/09/2021 09:56

OK so I have to share this cos of sll the help I've got. Someone suggested taking the cot mattress downstairs which didn't work cos wow it's heavy. But i have an old travel cot. She had her breakfast and only a small cup of milk. Small meltdown because we had less milk but didn't give in.
Got to half 9 and shes been up now 4 hours. Set travel cot in living room. And played white noise which we've always used to help her sleep. Put her in travel cot and she had a little cry but then rolled over and fell asleep! Happily snoring away in my living room. Going to take her to the park after dinner and by some pure luck we have got a place on a baby can dance class for 3 months. And there's a local playgroup opening at the church near us which we have also managed to get a place!
I'm so happy. Haven't stopped smiling.
Going to persevere with her
Bought a cable box thing to put all wires away
And I feel a bit guilty cos shes been a total nightmare recently hence the post but this morning q back tooth popped thru so feel a bit guilty that she was probably cranky cos it hurt.
But yeah thanks everyone

OP posts:
foreverinadaze · 22/09/2021 09:57

Cant believe I forgot to put in the original message but she took her first steps this morning and I have stated before I didnt feel much love for her and wondered if we even had a bond but I've never felt so proud of her. I think im bonding properly with her now.
Thank you all

OP posts:
TaraR2020 · 22/09/2021 10:20

That's really wonderful to read, op, I'm so happy for you Smile Smile

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

foreverinadaze · 22/09/2021 10:32

Shes still asleep 😁 long may this routine continue

OP posts:
Scrunchies · 22/09/2021 10:58

Well done @foreverinadaze. Really pleased for you

Nowisthemonthofmaying · 22/09/2021 12:59

Oh I'm so glad things are a bit better - those back teeth really do cause issues and it's always worst when you can't actually see them coming up yet!

I hope the baby classes are good and that you meet some nice people, it's great to have a network of other local mums

Twodogsandababy · 22/09/2021 14:53

I’m so so pleased for you OP! May the long naps continue! First steps too, so exciting! Make sure you make some time for you as well as jobs during nap time Smile

Vicky1989x · 22/09/2021 16:56

Glad to hear you had such a good morning OP, I hope the day continued to be just as good. Smile

DominicRaabsTravelAgent · 22/09/2021 21:46

That's such a great update @foreverinadaze Thanks

Daisyandroses · 23/09/2021 16:52

Amazing update OP!

I’m going to try a travel for type setup in the living room for my twins. Much easier/ more relaxed than going upstairs.

Glad you’ve got some lovely activities booked too.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page