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Second child looks more like Mum?

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sunsandwaves · 20/07/2021 11:16

I'm not worried but my first looks the spit of his dad ( which I love) just wondering people with 2 children did second child look more like Mum or dad? I read somewhere first baby is always dad and second is Mum... Who knows

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Sunshinedaisymeadowsxx · 20/07/2021 11:17

Both mine look similar and look like I was as a baby!

spotcheck · 20/07/2021 11:18

I think it's down to genetics?

BertieBob · 20/07/2021 11:18

DS2 is looks like a mini clone of his father. We thought DS1 looked alike but he's slowly looking more and more like my family.

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lannistunut · 20/07/2021 11:20

I don't see any scientific evidence for this - my one piece of anecdata is my sibling who was baby no.2 in our family is the one who looks most like my dad.

ancientgran · 20/07/2021 11:20

My eldest is the spit of my BIL. Caused great hilarity in the family but fortunately he was abroad at the crucial time.

Cormoran · 20/07/2021 11:21

Nope, my second is very blond , very fair, very Nordic, like my husband, I am brunette, olive skin.
So not in our house

SpaceRaiders · 20/07/2021 11:26

Not the case here, Dd1 is exactly like me. Dd2 is like her dad through and through. They are so alike it’s uncanny.

Pickersgill · 20/07/2021 11:26

Ds1 looks like dh's side, dd like me but with darker hair and eyes and ds2 looks like my mum.

Despite looking like different sides of the family, fb is always confusing them when tagging photos so they clearly have strong similarities as well. I love seeing the different ways our genes combined.

Sawyersfishbiscuits · 20/07/2021 11:27

My second is mini me yep

Dollpiglet · 20/07/2021 11:28

Mine is. I used to get asked if DD was really mine because she looked so much like DH Hmm but Ds looks a lot more like my side of the family

Chemenger · 20/07/2021 11:29

First looks very much like me, second looks nothing like either me or DH (but does look like his brother and mother).

CaptainSpirit · 20/07/2021 11:33

When DD1 was born everyone said she looked the spit of DH - she's 4 now and very much looks her own little person, though she definitely has stronger genes from his side of the family (very dark brown eyes with a hint of her dad's green).

It's been said that DD2 looks much more like my side, and when she was tiny I did think she looked similar to one of my older brothers as a baby. DD2 has much lighter eyes than her older sister, her dad's green with little bit of my blue.

Neither of my daughters look like me and they don't look like each other - the only similarity I can see is that the have the exact same hair colour. I find genetics absolutely fascinating, I'm due DD3 soon and I can't wait to see what she looks like!

waterlego · 20/07/2021 11:33

Not here. Our first born (female) is a mix of both of us, maybe slightly more like me than DH. Second born (male) is the absolute image of DH, can’t really see my genes in him at all 😆 If you look at a photo of DS and a photo of DH at the same age, you’d think they were the same person.

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 20/07/2021 11:34

Wen she was born, DD2 had grey eyes and black hair like DH.

She now looks more like me (and has my brown hair and eyes... although it went white blonde then darkened again!)

WithASpider · 20/07/2021 11:37

DD1 is the absolute image of me and my DB. DD2 Looks like DM and her great-great grandmother. DS looks like me but with his father's colouring.

DH's genetics come out more strongly in facial expressions and personality!

Nuggetnugget · 20/07/2021 11:39

In our house dc1 looks like dh and dc2 looks like me. So maybe some truth in that

Ifitquacks · 20/07/2021 11:41

Opposite here... first looks like me, second just like her dad. Third a mixture.

Ifitquacks · 20/07/2021 11:42

I’m not bothered about them looking like me though, DH’s side of the family are far more attractive than I am!

UnsureOfNC · 20/07/2021 11:42

Yeah, first DD looks exactly like her dad. Second DD looks exactly like me! Grin

Wooollffff · 20/07/2021 11:43

DD1 looks like me/my dad/she has my colouring
DD2 a resemblance to my mum in terms of face and colouring, like my sister and my dads family in terms of height/body (v tall).
Neither looks much like DH. MIL did actually question DD2’s paternity! DH is dark haired and eyed and DD2 is a blue eyed blond.

Toolchest13 · 20/07/2021 11:44

It is that way for me. DS 1st looks like his dad but my DD is my double.

RandomMess · 20/07/2021 11:51

It's just random 🤷🏽‍♀️

Blippibloppi · 20/07/2021 11:52

My two look exactly like their dad. Same face, same hair, same build.

Ifitquacks · 20/07/2021 11:53

@RandomMess

It's just random 🤷🏽‍♀️
This. I don’t see how birth order could possibly determine physical characteristics. It’s not like the particular sperm and egg know what order they’re coming in!
Phillipa12 · 20/07/2021 11:53

I have 4dc and they all look like me, my identical twin has 3 dc and they all look like her. It's really fun when we all go out as the dc look like siblings. Her ds and my ds2 regularly get mistaken for twins as they only have a 6 month age gap.

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