College are definatly fobbing me off

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I have applied three times now, twice online, which I have email reciepts for and second time via post and they have lost all of the forms and have no record of me applying.........yeah right, what a coincidence.

They said go up and enrol anyway, but I know full well that they won't let you enrol unless you have had an interview.

God I can't ring her emma, wouldn't know what to say.

Perhps if I can't even do this there I am not cut out for the course afterall.

On the phone peole can pass the buck/hang up/pretend to not be involved.

if you don't go then i shall come and take you..and i hate driving in places like birmingham

Take ds with you The staff at uni love to see the little ones coming in! And there's always sweets etc for the kids

Go!!!!! now!!!!

and if i take you then i shalll make you go out on the pull with me which would be much much more embarrassing

Of course you can ring her pet, write down what you want to say.

Get a pen & paper, go over what conversation you might have with her... then write your questions & possible remarks down.

I never make important phonecalls without writing phrases & remarks down

I might go in tommorow, as I have to collect ds at lunchtime and promised him a Mac D's to celebrate his first morning

I can't promise though, am anxious about getting on a bloody bus at the mo, nevermind facing someone telling me to bog off and go work in a shop LOL.

LOL Zippi, thats sounds highly entertaining

Nutty & zippi.. you are both lovely looking women! I just looked at your profiles

What is it you're nervous of nutty?

don't lol i mean it

Aww thanks FFF

I am nevry about most things at the mo tbh. There is much time in the day where I don't feel nervy. Seeing doctor next week to discuss my options about that.

Nutty- You have to do this- because do you know what will happen if you dont?

Next year you will be wishing that you did go along/ring and contemplating applying again, and by then you could have been 1 yr along in your course and closer to getting your preferred job.

Im free tomorrow, I have ds2 with me but I can meet you and go along with you ( pin people to walls etc)

They won't tell you to bog off and work in a shop !

Like tiredemma says, it is not personal. They don't know you from Adam. They will, however, judge you from past experience and you may well have to answer some rather baldly put questions in order to 'convince' them that you should be enrolled onto this course.

I can make myself free too if I work hard enough today..bodyguards to frog march you in

Ah I was like that after I had dd. Do you know what mae me change?

Go on, guess

and thanks FFF

Erm , was it going to college FFF ??

No offence guys, but I need to be less nervous not more LOL

Aww look at all the offers of company nutty... how great is that!!

I'm afraid NI is a bit too far away for me to help out

alternativly- I can phone SA and pretend to be you, ( I am emma and a brummie so thats half the battle won!)

ROFL Emma, now that is tempting

Yes!! It was!!

Whilst pregnant with dd I did 2 courses, GCSE English & then ECDL.

After dd I took a year off... and fell to bits! Then I enrolled in GCSE Maths. After I did that I applied to the access course. So that was 2 years long. I've just did another 2 years at uni, about to start my 3rd & I'm nowhere near as nervous as I was back then!

In fact I have been class rep, student rep, student ambassador & had work experience with the BBC all in the past year!! Oooohhh get me & my buvketloads of confidence

That would be bucketloads

And I fell pregnant with ds near the end of the first year of access & sat the exam in hospital!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's dedication.. or madness

I shall be checking what you are doing later...seriously if you want company I'll come..can't remember where you are but it can't be that terrifying to find ..can it?

Blimey FFF that is great, good for you.

Sounds so far away from where I am now.