Crazy ex husbands GF

[justamum1234]

I'm not sure really where to post this, but here's my dilemma anyway.
Divorced for at least 6 years and remarried. Ex husband also in long term relationship with GF. GF has always had problem with me. I think because me and ex have 2 DDs together. 10 & 12. Ex has always been the weak kind. Not assertive.
Anyway they are due to take dds to Kos in summer hols, but gf has said they need to cut their hair. My dds have told me they don't want their hair cut. They are trying to grow it. So I text ex husband to say not to cut their hair and I get the text below back from the gf. I think she has a screw loose. What does one do with this ?

"That's fine. In which case I will need to cancel the holiday. Ask them if they are sure about this. As when this was discussed before the deposit was paid they were fine with shoulder length hair to swim everyday. Let me know by tomorrow morning at the latest. Only the deposit will be lost."

Can't believe how ridiculous they are being!

Gaghhhh definately a control thing. Where do some people get off.

Feel for DD not having their Dad stand up for them

She's batshit, bullying blackmailing and abusive. You need to tell your exp that it's not healthy for your dds (or him) to be in that environment.
My dd is 13 and has been better at hair than me since she was a toddler.
Her hair is almost to her bum atm and both our cats are fine. Actually one of my cats has longer hair than me so much more likely to choke on her own hair

Shes a complete weirdo!