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they taking her away-please help

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Nikaleeona · 07/01/2007 23:59

DD is 21 months, was rushed to a specialist hospital 120 miles away from home as it was discovered she had a bleed on the brain. she has totally recovered n is back to normal but child protection n social services are involved and are putting her into foster care 2mora as they say she is at risk living with us. They are also planning on taking out baby away when it is born as they are accusing me n DP of throwing her around n abusing her. All we know is she fell off the sofa n found her on the floor unconcious when i was at wrk n DP looking after her. They have no evisence of us doing anything and we havent done anything to hurt her, we dont even tap her hand or anything. Its ridiclous, im in such a state. She is my world n they taking her away for no reason. Any advice or anyone else been in similar condition?
Many thanks x

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wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 09/01/2007 09:53

cruisemum1, the little girl is in hospital though and will, it seems, be taken into ss care as soon as she is discharged, so she hopefully can not come to any more harm now.

fireflyfairy2 · 09/01/2007 09:58

Handy Trinkett that's very kind of your partner.

Any news yet Nikkleona?

Pesha · 09/01/2007 10:04

I agree this does all seem a little strange and doesn't quite add up but i think this thread is much too serious to just dismiss, if its genuine then nikaleeona needs help and support. And I dont think you can say that in this situation you wouldnt just go on an internet forum. She seems very scared and confused and to face the possibility that your fiance who you thought you would spend the rest of your life with and who's child you are carrying may have been harming your child must be devestating and terrifying not to mention the guilt you would feel. Denial is an amazingly powerful thing.

cruisemum1 · 09/01/2007 10:09

WBWIW - Thank God. Bleeding brain? Black eyes? How could anyone be prepared to believe that these are accidents? I hope Nikoleeona gets back in touch. She needs support

lornaloo · 09/01/2007 10:42

I agree Pesha. I hope Nikaleeona finds some support from someone she certainly needs it.
I also hope she pulls her head ut the sand and sees what her dp(cousin) has been doing to her daughter. Its tragic. I can't stop think about how scared that little baby must have been. Hope she's somewhere safe now.

MamazonAKAfatty · 09/01/2007 22:07

just coming to check if there was any news yet.

I am really concerned for this little girl but take great comfort in teh fact that SSD are already investigating.

from what has been said already i am concerned and if i am honest ( i hate to say this with so little info but )I would be advising the child be removed until further assesments could be made.
Even if it is only a temporary measure.

It has become apparant that the cousin who was supervising the child at the time of the ladder incident is indeed the partner and father of the unborn child. This raises huge concerns for me and i would not allwo that man to have access to teh child until further investigations were made.

As he is the father of the unborn child i would be making steps to get the baby placed on teh at risk register.

As i say, this is my opinion given the information supplied only. I understand that this is all gained from breif posts at different times with varied attempts to conceal certain aspects for the purpose of anonymity.

Im sorry but the child is at risk in the current circumstances.
Nikaleena i hope that if you do come back to this thread you will have sought Legal advice and will have taken the advice given so far which is to estrange yourself from your partner/cousin.
Whilst he is in the life of your child/ren then there is little chance of you being able to keep your children.

lornaloo · 10/01/2007 00:11

Nikaleeona hope you are ok. How are things going?

Nip · 10/01/2007 08:42

Nikaleeona, how are you getting on? Been thinking about you and hope its all ok.

ParanoidAndroid · 10/01/2007 14:03

bump

louii · 10/01/2007 14:44

Well??????

snowfunwhenyoureknackered · 10/01/2007 17:20

bump

Nip · 11/01/2007 08:36

bump - any news Nikaleeona?

MamaMaiasaura · 12/01/2007 11:28

still no news? quite concerning

Saturn74 · 19/01/2007 17:13

Nikaleeona, I hope you and your DD are OK.
It would be good to know how she's doing, and that she's recovered after her stay in hospital.

Nip · 23/01/2007 11:17

Does anyone know if there has been any updates on this?

americantrish · 23/01/2007 13:17

i would seek legal advice on this...

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