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Is it harmful to leave a baby to cry for short periods?

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RevoltingPeasant · 16/03/2015 16:55

DD is 7 w old and DH is back at work now. DD is a pretty placid baby but doesn't like to be put down, so I'm normally holding her or she's in a sling. Fine!

But, there are times when I just can't hold her and get stuff done. For example, showering or making a hot drink.

So far, my attitude has been, if she is somewhere safe and warm, with a clean nappy, it is not the end of the world if she cries for periods of, say, 3-7 minutes whilst I dash about boiling the kettle, or hop under a hot shower. I have taken the view that me being washed for the day matters more.

But sometimes she sounds quite desperate when she cries. Am I being cold and damaging her by leaving her for short periods? Or is this inevitable and something everyone does?

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liveloveluggage · 17/03/2015 17:31

Yes you will have time to save up for a silk mei tei, before you get to the ideal age for back carrying. Some people will say embroidered silk is not the ideal material for a baby carrier but what do they know!

Chunderella · 18/03/2015 11:55

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squizita · 18/03/2015 13:09

Livelove Mind you when I slung dd as a teeny, it was often for a stroll nap so I got my tea or coffee ... from the nice man at Costas! Grin Not now I'm on half pay though.

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Toadsrevisited · 18/03/2015 19:19

If I had waited until DS napped in a cot, I wouldn't have shat for 14 months. Just saying. Grin

Bouncy chairs are amazing.

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