Baby dad.

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My baby dad keeps calling me every day, but he says it's for the kids but he will call when he knows that the kids are at school?
And when I let the kids answer the phone he actually asks the kids to pass the phone to me?
He calls and he will talk about anything or ask about my life?
And I've told him that my new partner doesn't like him calling all the time and he's not happy about it saying that he can call about his kids etc.
he will ring me at least twice during the day whilst he's at work and not with his partner?
He's asked me if my new partner is aware that he's moved on, he's claiming to have moved on but keeps ringing me and stuff ?
Has he actually moved on or is he just saying that?

Bit of advice, he's your dcs father not " baby dad". That term makes you sound very immature. As indeed does the whole post. Yes, he no doubt is up to shagging you ro mark his territory, no your partner shouldn't be telling you what to do. A mature mother , as numerous other posters have pointed out, would refuse to engage with a "I'm busy right now", "dc will be at home x time to talk to you" etc etc.

Sounds like you like the drama to be honest. How can we possibly know, just ask him if he wants to get back together

Baby dad, father what does it Matter it's just a term. Don't dare try to insult me as a mother because of a term and call me immature you don't even know me.
The post isn't immature I've been through a lot that nobody would understand and there is reasons behind my post and why this is going on I asked for some advice on why it was happening to be bullied on here as a parent. You don't know me nor do you know how I parent my children. It sounds like your very much a bully my love.
If you and lots of other people want to ignore the father of your children that's your deal not mine. I can choose whether to speak to him or not. My question wasn't should I speak to him or not my question was is this guy infact over me or not something that was niggling in my mind that I thought (mature mothers) could help with.
Clearly your just patronising people that haven't got anything better to do than sit on your phones all day.

Yes he's over you. Hope that's the answer you're wanting.

He probably loves the fact that you keep doing as he wants why he continues,it's nothing to do with being over you or not,he wants to control how things go, my ex was the same & we thankfully went to court & have it in writing he is not to contact me by phone call as he was using that as a form of getting at me,we only communicate by message or email & if it's not to do with our boys,it's not his business. He probably is over you but realizes he still has this power over you so he's using it

To be fair no one knows why he's ringing you anymore than you say you do. You know him best. You know what's going on in his life, why you split up etc. It sounds as if he's not over you if he needs constant contact with you.