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argh i have a crush i thought i'd left these at the school gates

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nappyaddict · 19/07/2007 17:36

ok basically i have liked this person for about 3 months. he works in a bar i regularly go to. he seems really nice and he has no gf oh and he lives near me too. he even does crazy dancing and uses phrases that i use. it's like we are a match made in heaven haha. i once got talking to his brother in the pizza place but didn't find out til ages after he was his brother. typical!

my way of getting to talk to him was that i was going to message him on myspace saying oh aren't you the one that works in so and so. but on his profile page he says i work in so and so and now i'm out of ideas!!

there's no way i could just go up to him. i always try and get served by him, cos then i wouldn't mind chatting to him whilst he served me cos there'd be a reason but i couldn't just go and say hi. i have been served by him a few times. he remembers me cos when he does he always takes the piss about how much blackcurrant i have in my cider and black. (i know not v sophisticaed but its the cheapest thing in there!)

i wouldn't know what to say. i mean its a bit infantile to say oh i really fancy you isn't it. he does know 2 people i used to go to school with who i could possibly get to drop a hint but isn't that even worse. its like in the playground when you'd have to go and say my friend fancies you. and then there's the fact he's bloody gorgeous and probably wouldn't look twice at me.

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Dior · 26/07/2007 22:03

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nappyaddict · 26/07/2007 22:20

i know. i think i'll save him for my daydreams only!

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Dior · 26/07/2007 22:21

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PrincessGoodLife · 28/07/2007 07:11

popped back to see how you were getting on, nappyaddict. Despite the disappointment you've at least 'vetted' him and you know what you were dealing with. Plenty more fish and all that blah blah blah. And maybe one day he'll grow up too .

nappyaddict · 07/08/2007 19:56

if anyone wants an update i've got one for you!!

well decided to leave well alone with that boy cos i'd built up to be something he wasn't. in future i think i'll pluck up the courage so its not as much of a let down when they turn out to be twats.

anyhoo i have a new crush. he's from work which makes it a bit awkward as does the fact another girl there likes him.

but on wednesday we all went for a drink after work and everyone got up to go to the bar so i moved onto the comfy seats. he came back and sat next to me. it was very cramped and he kept touching my hand. wasn't sure if it was accidental or not.

then on saturday we all went out again. he was stood next to me and my friend opposite me and we were all chatting when he kept brushing my hand and somehow we ended up holding hands. i made sure i stood close so my friend couldn't see as i hadn't even told her i fancied him yet.

later on in the night we kept nearly kissing but it just didn't happen. then he said "nappyaddict, you're too drunk, let's talk about this tomorrow" but i wasn't having any of that!!

we all went back to his friends house and we kissed some more. he did try to go a little further but i moved away cos i want to take things slow. especially as i work with him and i thought he might just have been after a 1 night thing which would have been embarassing at work with everyone knowing.

next morning he was still being nice and cuddly and stuff but he did seem a bit off so now i'm not sure if he does actucally like me or it was just cos he was drunk.

had work together yesterday and we were both more quiet than usual. did notice he kept doing the hand thing again but purely could have been accident.

have spoke on msn and he asked me if i had a good time on sat and i was hoping he would steer it towards asking about what happened but he didn't and i didn't either.

so basically i don't know where i stand. i want to know but i can't just ask him can i!

sorry its so long

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