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argh i have a crush i thought i'd left these at the school gates

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nappyaddict · 19/07/2007 17:36

ok basically i have liked this person for about 3 months. he works in a bar i regularly go to. he seems really nice and he has no gf oh and he lives near me too. he even does crazy dancing and uses phrases that i use. it's like we are a match made in heaven haha. i once got talking to his brother in the pizza place but didn't find out til ages after he was his brother. typical!

my way of getting to talk to him was that i was going to message him on myspace saying oh aren't you the one that works in so and so. but on his profile page he says i work in so and so and now i'm out of ideas!!

there's no way i could just go up to him. i always try and get served by him, cos then i wouldn't mind chatting to him whilst he served me cos there'd be a reason but i couldn't just go and say hi. i have been served by him a few times. he remembers me cos when he does he always takes the piss about how much blackcurrant i have in my cider and black. (i know not v sophisticaed but its the cheapest thing in there!)

i wouldn't know what to say. i mean its a bit infantile to say oh i really fancy you isn't it. he does know 2 people i used to go to school with who i could possibly get to drop a hint but isn't that even worse. its like in the playground when you'd have to go and say my friend fancies you. and then there's the fact he's bloody gorgeous and probably wouldn't look twice at me.

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princessmel · 24/07/2007 22:01

Yes whats the latest???

jellyjelly · 25/07/2007 08:55

Come on tell us.

nappyaddict · 25/07/2007 14:42

princessgoodlife am glad you stopped lurking and posted!!

i wish it ended like your film with marriage and babies but somehow i doubt it.

he hasn't replied to my last 2 messages and i don't want to be like a stalker so i'm going to leave it for now. am glad i waited before asking him else i would have felt reeeeeeeally stupid. unless he got fed up of waiting haha.

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nappyaddict · 25/07/2007 14:48

ok this doesn't make sense. i checked my sent messages which say he's read them but he claims he hasn't got my last 2 messages and that's why he hadn't replied? do you think someone's messing about with his account or he's just saying that?

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nappyaddict · 25/07/2007 15:12

ooooh its hotting up look! you have to read the bottom bit first cos the top bits my reply.

u r a good looking chappy. can't say that i haven't noticed that. do i wanna piece of you though .... hmmm interesting idea. i'll have to have a think about that.

cos we can't have people saying we always where the same thing can we!! altho u boys don't seem to care if you do.

as if you've only just read my profile.

so do you reeeeeeeeally wanna know which picture gets the sexiest picture award?

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--- Original Message ---
From: Oii Oiiiiiii Man
Date: 25 Jul 2007, 15:07

probably, i am a good lookin chap 2 b fair, so i wudnt b suprised if i had got a stalker, lol think u wanna piece of me tho dont ya? wot u reckon?
Nah dont do holby 2 be fair there is beta stuf on the tele haha. y u a wuss? its only abit of blood!
You women hav always got way 2 many clothes havnt ya lol
Jus read ur profile n am u MILF lol

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nappyaddict · 25/07/2007 16:20

oh not so good. he just asked me if i was after a relationship or just fun so i said we dont really know each other yet so would prefer not 2 settle u down and marry u, but havin fun sounds good but not slaggy fun before u get any ideas.

he replied saying whats your idea of fun then. mine's sexual fun. hmmm thinking that i have just gone off him.

i knew him having the same name as my ex was a bad omen!!

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pirategirl · 25/07/2007 18:34

god i hate men.

fawkeoff · 25/07/2007 18:36

jst get shit faced and tell him u think hes cute

jellyjelly · 25/07/2007 19:51

It could be his way of flirting though.

Tell him what you want and see if he agrees or not, then you know. Less of the messign just tell him.

PrincessGoodLife · 25/07/2007 20:34

At least he's being honest though about what he's after. You can choose what to do about it now

FluffyMummy123 · 25/07/2007 20:36

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Dior · 25/07/2007 22:15

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pirategirl · 25/07/2007 22:19

hmm, no he doesn't, he is obv enjoying the attention, tbh you would prob get hurt, if you were thinking in terms of a partner.

He has been upfront with what he's after, just a shame cos you like him, but I guess you don't yet 'know' him , so I'd leave it for now and see what he does next.

nappyaddict · 26/07/2007 09:46

i didn't even necessarily want a partner but i also don't want to sleep with him considering we haven't ever had a proper conversation. to suggest it just seems a bit nobbish personally!!

pirategirl - i don't understand. he doesn't what?

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nappyaddict · 26/07/2007 09:47

oh doesn't sound the boyfriend type. got ya now!

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pirategirl · 26/07/2007 11:15

yes, sorry i was just carrying onthe convo. Hmm yes, dont nkow about you but a comment like that, directly suggesting he want sex, can just turn me off someone rather than encourage me. men can be so stupid.

There is someone round here who knows I fancy him, and I prob could have slept with him by now, but the very factthat its so obv from him, puts me off. I guess I know I DO want a relationship, rather than a shag.

Since i broke up with my ex, I have had 2 'encounters' but tbh, no more, cant be bothered in giving my self away.

How r you feelign about him today?

nappyaddict · 26/07/2007 13:12

still really like him and tbh had he waited to tel me just wanted a shag until after we'd at least met up a few times i might have gone for it or even if he had just said you know i'm not looking for a relationship that would have sufficed! But i don't tend to want to sleep with people i haven't met properly yet. i guess i'm just shocked by it a bit.

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Dior · 26/07/2007 13:17

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nappyaddict · 26/07/2007 14:08

i duno. how many times is it you can change a man though? i always think these girls that try and alter their boyfriends are on a bit of a lost cause!

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Dior · 26/07/2007 18:09

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pirategirl · 26/07/2007 18:44

sorry but i keep seeing this word, what IS a MILF?

jellyjelly · 26/07/2007 19:06

mum i'd like to f...k.

Get it now?

pirategirl · 26/07/2007 19:40

yeah ok i get it

Aitch · 26/07/2007 20:44

oh dear i don't think he's a great chap. the fact that he spells better 'beta' rather put the kibosh on him for me...

nappyaddict · 26/07/2007 21:52

well he is dyslexic so i forgive him for all the bad spelling mistakes.

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