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argh i have a crush i thought i'd left these at the school gates

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nappyaddict · 19/07/2007 17:36

ok basically i have liked this person for about 3 months. he works in a bar i regularly go to. he seems really nice and he has no gf oh and he lives near me too. he even does crazy dancing and uses phrases that i use. it's like we are a match made in heaven haha. i once got talking to his brother in the pizza place but didn't find out til ages after he was his brother. typical!

my way of getting to talk to him was that i was going to message him on myspace saying oh aren't you the one that works in so and so. but on his profile page he says i work in so and so and now i'm out of ideas!!

there's no way i could just go up to him. i always try and get served by him, cos then i wouldn't mind chatting to him whilst he served me cos there'd be a reason but i couldn't just go and say hi. i have been served by him a few times. he remembers me cos when he does he always takes the piss about how much blackcurrant i have in my cider and black. (i know not v sophisticaed but its the cheapest thing in there!)

i wouldn't know what to say. i mean its a bit infantile to say oh i really fancy you isn't it. he does know 2 people i used to go to school with who i could possibly get to drop a hint but isn't that even worse. its like in the playground when you'd have to go and say my friend fancies you. and then there's the fact he's bloody gorgeous and probably wouldn't look twice at me.

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nappyaddict · 20/07/2007 04:24

i'd like to think i was funny but i think most of the time i'm funny without meaning to be. as in people are laughing at me rather than with me. i'd love to think he fancied me but he's probably just being friendly.

mum offered to babysit at the last minute. hoped he might be out tonight but he wasn't.

if you want to have a nosey look at this you lot probably won't be impressed. i have weird taste!

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princessmel · 20/07/2007 17:33

He looks like he has fun! Who are all the girls he's pictured with???

DameSnotAlot · 20/07/2007 17:43

Just send him a messagey type thing saying mine's a cider and black.....extra black please!

Make a joke of it. People don't mind being contacted on things like facebook or myspace. Makes it look like they've got loadsa friends

nappyaddict · 20/07/2007 22:49

except for the girl in the black lacy dress i recognise them all from where he works.

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nappyaddict · 20/07/2007 22:49

oh actually thinking about it i think i saw her there last week, she must just work in the holidays.

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nappyaddict · 20/07/2007 23:10

ok so he replied ...

he said,

"thanks for the message quite enjoyed it if im honest, and most people say we look alike so how long has it taken u to find out were brothers? lol how did u get talkin bout plumbers? u have inspired me to carry at que pasa "bustin a groove"thanks again"

ok so not as coherent as i'd have liked but i can't have everything! i don't think it really gives anythig away tbh. i've replied so we'll see if i get one back.

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nappyaddict · 22/07/2007 10:56

he was working last night - not on the bar though so couldn't get him a drink.

i don't know if it's wishful thinking but he did seem to keep coming over to where i was standing collecting like 1 empty glass on the table when there was a table not far away with looooooads of empty glasses on. i've never noticed him coming over before so maybe the message did something?

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princessmel · 22/07/2007 12:32

Oooh maybe it did
It was a bit vague, didn't give much away but its good he repiled. It was a nice chatty reply too

nappyaddict · 22/07/2007 12:37

thing is i've replied and he replied back but there isn't really much i can say to his last reply so i'm a bit stuck again.

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Dumbledior · 22/07/2007 12:38

Say 'fancy a drink sometime?'

princessmel · 22/07/2007 12:43

Are these messages public so everyone can see them who looks at his page , or are they just between you and him??

nappyaddict · 22/07/2007 12:47

no no just between me and him lol. as i said i know some people that know him and i don't want them to know i've been talking to him.

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princessmel · 22/07/2007 12:51

Well if its private I'd just come out with it and say, something like....' I fancy you, do you want to come out with me some time, the the cinema or whatever'

Saves all the messing around.

Or just carry on being chatty and flirty when you see him out.

nappyaddict · 22/07/2007 13:04

i wish i had your confidence!

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princessmel · 22/07/2007 13:07

You can though. Just do it. Its so much easier than you think.

When I think about the cheesy things I used to say to boys (when i was 17,18 19etc its funny. But it worked
Like I'd say 'are you on your own?' to someone I fancied in a club standing by bar etc. They'd say 'yes', then I'd say ' not any more' and snog them !!!! OMG I was a tart.

nappyaddict · 22/07/2007 13:11

i'd never do that!

think i'll wait til i see him out again before i message him. don't want to seem like a stalker.

walked passed him on the stairs last night but didn't realise. he was leaning over the banister and i was moving my hand up it. then my friend goes go on pinch his bum and i was like shit didn't even realise my hand was about to go anywhere near it and moved it away sharpish. if only she hadn't have said anything and i've had done it anyway by mistake!

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princessmel · 22/07/2007 13:19

Did he think you did it??
{smile]
Thats an idea go up to him while he's dancing.

nappyaddict · 22/07/2007 14:47

no i didn't actually do it. i almost did by mistake.

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Mindles · 22/07/2007 14:57

oooh oooh oooh. There was a guy I fancied in a bar me and my friends went to, but I couldn't get up the nerve to say anything out loud. So I put my number on a bit of paper and handed it to him as we left the bar do you know it worked he texted me before I even got home!

Be brave - it will pay off cos even if you don't get him (which I think you will but anyway) you will have more confidence.

Best of luck!!!

nappyaddict · 23/07/2007 00:25

ok so i messaged him saying:

this is not good. did that bulletin thing you posted. erm i got £75 and you only got £49. how does that work!

you got a new hair cut i see. well new as in within the last couple of weeks - hadn't been up qp in a while.

i feel disapointed. if you did any groove bustin last nite i missed it. or were you too busy hard at work?

he wrote:

Unfortuately u missed it, i also had a prop last nite (a plastic golf club). u shud of seem the moves i was kickin out? imence!! did yahav a good nite n e way? ayer i had the hair cut on thursday, thought i hav a change n treat myself wot u think? x x

hmmm so i actually don't like the hair cut but should i lie? what about saying well personally i prefer it long but either looks good on you. that's gotta spell it out surely?

and i got a kiss at the end lol. do you think i should tell my mum to buy a hat?

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Aitch · 23/07/2007 00:41

haven't read the whole thread nappyaddict but i've got to say that you have got to be crackers if you think that he wouldn't look twice at you... have you actually seen your photos? you are really, really lovely-looking.

tbh i wouldn't say it if it weren't true, i'd just skip the thread and move onto something else. seriously, get a grip. you are 19 years of age, don't spend any more of your time labouring under the misapprehension that you're not the sort of woman men look at, because you so are.

good luck with this chap, and your studies and baby. he's gorgeous too.

nappyaddict · 23/07/2007 00:45

awww thanks aitch. lots of other people have said this throughout the thread i'm not sure why now you've said it i'm starting to believe it.

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Aitch · 23/07/2007 00:49

it's because you know me well enough to know i wouldn't bother my arse to say it if i didn't Really mean it. congratulations! you are 19 and you've just found out that you're really attractive. most of us have to wait a lot longer than that...

nappyaddict · 23/07/2007 00:59

actually i'm 18 but only about a month til i'm 19.

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nappyaddict · 23/07/2007 01:02

are you on facebook? much worse photos on there. i only picked out the good uns to put on here its an illusion really.

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