yes of course you all don't behave that way but the problem is when you have such a bad example as my cousin and you actually sit there and see her feeding her child weightwatchers spaghetti bolognaise you can't help but have an inherent feeling that this is just wrong.
the problem as I see it is that whichever way you spin it and believe me my cousin has spun it many ways, it is all about the way a child looks. Its instilling values in a child that some of us think are abhorrent. To be judged for the way you look, rejected for the way you look, paid for the way you look. Of all the values you choose why would this be one to aim for?
and I really can't see what's in it for the child? My cousin has this idea its going to stand him in good stead for the future? How? He isn't socialising with other children, he isn't allowed to bounce on a bouncy castle in case he falls off and bruises himself, it isn't adding anything of educational value. No-one knows what he is going to look like when he's 18. How on earth is it helping him?