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Tea Room the Nineteenth

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amberlight · 02/11/2010 10:44

All in need of a restful break and a chat are more than welcome to the nineteenth Tea Room.

We find ourselves in the South of France, where the warm sunshine is just the thing for those who are missing the summer. The tea room has its aga and its distressed chintz sofa...and its potted plants. The usual fictional tea room inhabitants are here, as ever: Mellors, the gardener/handyperson with the handy ways with massage; the collection of tea room animals including the horses, camel, bison, guineapigs and sundry others; the Bishops and other faith leaders who joined us a while back and potter in for the occasional cuppa. It may not make sense, but that's not important. What matters is the lovely people here and the chance to just relax.

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thumbwitch · 23/11/2010 23:40

nothing too ghastly small - tried tap dancing clergy first, got nothing, so took the 'tap' out - et voila!

Mary - I think it is a tough choice. If you want to mend the friendship and you backing down is the only way, then perhaps that is what you need to do. But if you will then resent having to back down, the friendship will not be quite the same again anyway, so might not be worth it in the end. What is more important to you - mending the friendship at all costs, or staying true to yourself, even if the friendship breaks because of it?

asmallbunchofflowers · 23/11/2010 23:43

Thumb - That's exactly what I was trying to get at, but far far better put.

oxeye · 24/11/2010 00:04

Oh mary poor you. I would sleep on it. What may seem an unbrdgeable gap may not feel so in a couple of days
yeah uniboy improving
hi aando good to hear from you
scout I think you've guessed my other place I'd correctly Grin

asmallbunchofflowers · 24/11/2010 00:11

I'm going to bed now but to Oxeye who I haven't seen today.

Scout19075 · 24/11/2010 04:24

oxeye, Hopefully we have connected.

Date night very good. I miss being closer to the parentals I don't worry about BabyScout when he's with them. I worry when he's with the in-laws they are much older than my parents.

I know I'm American but I think I've lived in England too long the actors/actresses in Harry Potter no longer have accents! Alan Rickman and Helena Bonham Carter are the best baddies ever. I think I have a bit of a girl crush on Bonham Carter. I say this after every film I see her in she's amazing. And I know the boys that play the Weasley twins aren't naturally ginger, and I'm twice their age (probably not quite but not far off), but they have grown up to be nice looking boys.

We had a nice lazy day with BabyScout, who never even made it out of his new fleecey pjs today. Blush It was a much needed slow day.

MaryBS · 24/11/2010 08:20

Thanks. I hope I will always be true to myself. However, I've extended an olive branch in an email, without suggesting fault on either side. See what happens.

asmallbunchofflowers · 24/11/2010 09:13

That sounds like a very good move, Mary - conciliatory without grovelling. Hope it succeeds.

Breakfast, anyone?

amberlight · 24/11/2010 09:39
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thumbwitch · 24/11/2010 10:42

Scout - you can't have HBC - she's mine! I lurve her. And Sandra Bullock - they're my main gurl crushes. Grin

Mary - hope you get a good response :)

Am a touch concerned about miniThumb - he is still complaining of having a "sore tummy" periodically and his temp is up a bit today. I fear another trip to the GP might be in order :(
On a better note - I went to the optician today and ordered new specs - 2 for the price of one - so will be getting prescription sunnies for the first time in my life! Even better, our health insurance paid up $150 which cut my bill, hurrah!

asmallbunchofflowers · 24/11/2010 10:49

Either way, that still leaves Alan Rickman for meeeeee!

Thumb - Prescription sunnies are the bee's knees. I can't manage without them. Or the two-for-one deals!

amberlight · 24/11/2010 14:07

Blimey, two hour meeting with autism assistance dog charity chief - brilliant fun!

Must be time for mid afternoon cuppa and a nice slice of cake.

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MaryBS · 24/11/2010 14:11

I hope they gave you lots of breaks in that meeting!

Conciliation seems to be working... friend was REALLY pleased to hear from me... still need to talk, but the main thing is that we CAN talk! :)

amberlight · 24/11/2010 14:39

Yay Mary!!!!!

No breaks in that meeting, but we did consume a lot of sandwiches. Does that count?

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MaryBS · 24/11/2010 16:16

Well if you're happy, I'm happy!

Both children had a bad day at school. DS had a tantrum in the dinner queue because they hadn't got the dessert he wanted.

DD has been picked on "by everyone all day", and we've just had major histrionics over it all.

Argh. Give me a break, please?

Jacksmama · 24/11/2010 16:42

Hello all,
just wanted to pop in quickly and check on everyone.

Mary, I'm happy that your friend was glad to hear from you. I'm personally a bit crap at mending fences after a falling-out... I think from too many years of knuckling under for the sake of peace, I've probably gone too far the other direction now. Very happy for you.

Oxeye, you'll probably get a laugh out of this - I've been checking the other TR several times a day to see if our membership has gone up by one!

Could I have some (very late, I know) full breakfast? Unusually for me, I woke up really hungry today!

Must pry myself and Jackbaby out of bed. We have lots to do today - major item on the agenda is probably going to be a drive to West Vancouver (roughly 40 km from my house) for the sole purpose of buying some magic cream for a friend in Ontario who has burns from radiation treatment. When we had a homeopath working with us, she stocked it - well, rather, she tried to keep it in stock but it just flew off the shelves. We had a breast CA patient who used it all throughout her radiation treatment and literally, the only skin mark she ended up with was a square tan line!! She never developed any burns. Unfortunately, there doesn't seem to be anywhere local to me that I can get it.

Other item on the agenda is a trial run of baking poppy seed streusel cake for this weekend's family dinner. DH can give me his opinion, and then I'm going to bring some to work tomorrow for one of my patients. He is the sweetest old man. I actually treat his (second) wife much more often than him (and boy, is she a case - think serious hypochondriac!!). He was in for a treatment yesterday and we got talking, and I told him about our family dinner Sunday and he was saying that he hadn't had anything like what we're making since his first wife died 8 years ago.
(To explain - it's sort of an annual event, around the time of the Grey Cup football championship (Canadian football league) to honour DH's grandparents who moved from Eastern Europe to Saskatchewan, one of the Canadian prairie provinces. Everyone makes one dish that Grandma B always used to make. DH's one cousin makes plum dumplings, the other cousin makes a noodle dish, MIL makes cabbage rolls, and this year it's my turn to make the poppy seed streusel cake.)
So my poor old man's mouth was just watering because his second wife (the hypochondriac) is a really crap cook. And he's from Saskatchewan too, the same area that a lot of Eastern European immigrants moved to, so he knows all those dishes. Anyway, I resolved there and then to make sure that left-overs came his way and asked him if "he'd mind helping DH and me taste-test the trial run of poppy seed cake". :)
Don't get me wrong, it's not my mission to feed all my patients, but I just love this old man, I wish I still had a grandpa and that he was like this man :)

((((HUGS)))) to everyone who needs them, JM's gotta get moving.

Oh, BTW - I went to yoga for the first time in 6 weeks yesterday and it felt great. You'd all be so proud of me - the only class time that worked was a really challenging one, and I didn't even come close to overdoing it. When things started to feel too tough and I got tired, I stopped.
My goodness, could JM have learned some sense?????

amberlight · 24/11/2010 17:12

JM, interesting re the cream. Wonder how it works?
Hurrah re the patient and his provisions! Save us a bit too?
Yoga - I'm always worried I'll end up tied into some sort of figure eight with various yoga instructions despairing of me Grin

Mary, arrgh re the goings-on with the offspring Shock

DS has got his school rugby team through to the finals of the league! Grin

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UniS · 24/11/2010 18:49

I've had 2 yoga teachers despair of me so far, but they seem to put up with me. even when I have to ask them to explain it again because i wasn;t listening ... Blush Its coz they run classes in halls with things on teh wall with text on them ( posters/ notices etc) , I am a compulsive reader. AND prone to day dream off I guess.

Donki · 24/11/2010 20:55

Evening all!
Tea anyone? Or hot, spiced elderberry cordial?
'Tis a warming brew on a bitter night.

asmallbunchofflowers · 24/11/2010 22:42

Love the idea of hot, spiced elderberry cordial. Yes please!

amberlight · 25/11/2010 07:18

Hot spiced cordial sounds perfect for breakfast too

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MaryBS · 25/11/2010 08:23

Yum, will provide comfort after I slipped over in all the oil, climbing out of the priest's hole! :)

Scout19075 · 25/11/2010 09:54

Happy Thanksgiving!

UnSerpentQuiCourt · 25/11/2010 15:35

Happy Thanksgiving to all who partake in such things. I didn't know it was. The tea room seems rather quiet at the moment ... is everyone in the Other One?

Just popped in for a moment while three children downstairs draw snowmen on the blackboard while waiting for the lard to melt to make bird cakes. There will no doubt be hysterical sobbing any minute. Wriggle seems to be finding it hard to get over her 'bug' and is constantly tired and emotional, with terrible nightmares several times a night.

JM or Thumb - any alternative helpful ideas? I am giving her flower remedies (aspen and mimulus) and homeopathic camomila... when I remember. Blush

Weather is cold but sooooo beautiful and sunny. Took my class for an icy sunny walk through the village to visit a Greek Orthodox chapel a local famous person has built in their stables. Full of icons and candles and incence - beautiful. Smile

Thanks for knitting advice - will wait for a good moment to suggest/implement it. Poor AP has caught our special school sickness bug and is not really on top form. Dangerous places, schools, and teachers are the perveyors of all kinds of malady.

UnSerpentQuiCourt · 25/11/2010 15:37

Actually vehicles, rather than purveyors. Would that we were paid to infect.

Special Anthony Brown type hug for Tea.

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