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Bad situation in my parents house

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mim2007 · 01/08/2017 13:08

I've recently travelled to England from Spain with my four young children to visit our family over the summer holiday's. On the first day of arriving I was already unhappy with the arrangements in my parents house. My sister, who is 25 and is now living with my parents, is currently single but is sleeping with a man for her own sexual pleasures. Now, many of you might think this is ok, except she is sleeping with him in my parents house and he is also staying the night whilst my children and I are here. I've stressed my concerns with my parents and I've asked my parent if while we are here, can they ask my sister not to bring this man into the house, but they refused. They both seem to think this is ok and she can have anybody she wants over to sleep with her even while we are here. I've also spoken to my older sister who has got four children and she also thinks this is ok. Please, can you give me some advice as to what I could do!?! I haven't got enough money to stay somewhere else neither have I got anywhere else we could go. I can't just leave as I live in Spain.

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Littlechocola · 01/08/2017 13:12

Why do you feel it's not okay?

TheLuminaries · 01/08/2017 13:12

I think you graciously accept your parent's hospitality without setting conditions over their other guests. Or pay to stay elsewhere. I can't see any other option.

BIWI · 01/08/2017 13:17

You've posted this twice - I assume because you really are a newbie!

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 01/08/2017 13:18

Your sister is an adult, and is seeing someone consensually. Your parents are fine with it. Your other sister is fine with it. As with above, I'm struggling to see what the problem is? Do you just not like him?

NoMoreDecorating · 01/08/2017 13:23

You've already got a thread exactly like this, why post another one?

SittingAround1 · 01/08/2017 13:25

What's wrong with your sister having a boyfriend over when your children are there?
Can they hear her having sex? Is that the problem?
Otherwise it's your parents' house so it's up to them.
Good for your sister she is enjoying her sex life!

mim2007 · 01/08/2017 13:57

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Sittinginthesun · 01/08/2017 13:59

Frankly, it's your parent's house, so they get to choose who stays over. If you don't like it, get a hotel.

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mim2007 · 01/08/2017 14:01

They aren't girlfriend and boyfriend. He is a random man coming over to have sex with my sister in my parents house whilst my children and I are here. Yes, this is wrong. Immorality comes to mind.

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EnidNextDoor · 01/08/2017 14:02

Ha ha ha!

OP I'm one of the world's most prudish prudes but seriously, this would not even be on my radar!

mikado1 · 01/08/2017 14:02

My very first Biscuit

I think Trollope is the author's name btw- and I think she'd have agreed with your sister.

EnidNextDoor · 01/08/2017 14:02

So he is her boyfriend then.

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mim2007 · 01/08/2017 14:03

I am new to this group. I posted this hoping that I would get a decent answer from decent people. Obviously again I am wrong.

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mim2007 · 01/08/2017 14:06

I was hoping to get a reply from some lovely decent parents but obviously this is not the case. Instead I got attacked by a troll.

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EnidNextDoor · 01/08/2017 14:06

Totally wrong yes. No decent people here, only vipers.

Hth.

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mim2007 · 01/08/2017 14:07

No, they aren't girlfriend and boyfriend.

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mim2007 · 01/08/2017 14:09

Is there anybody on here who can give me some decent advice without attacking me. For all those who think that this situations ok please don't reply to my post as I haven't got time for stupidity or trolls.

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BingoFlamingos · 01/08/2017 14:09

No one here is a troll!
I've commented on your other threat but seriously.

if he's regularly coming over to your parents house to spend time with your sister and they're having sex, that's actually a realationship

WTF DO YOU WANT HER TO DO? Become a nun? Confused

BingoFlamingos · 01/08/2017 14:10

Right then op. Hang fire chill out.
ExplaIn to me what your problem is?
If you're upset you need to talk to your DSis?
Unless they're fucking so loudly you're all an audience I don't get the problem,

DerelictWreck · 01/08/2017 14:11

First of all, stop saying sexual pleasures, you sound ridiculous.

Break it down. You've decided to dictate how your ADULT sister lives in her home with your ADULT parents.

You've canvassed multiple family members and strangers on the internet, all of whom are telling you the same thing.

See where the problem is here OP? Hint, name rhymes with dim4011

RatherBeRiding · 01/08/2017 14:12

How do you know he's a "random man"? Has she pulled him in off the street? Did she advertise for sexual services? Is he a male escort?

If it's the same bloke every time then they are obviously in some sort of mutual relationship and non of your business, as it's not your house. Your parents don't have a problem.

Actually I don't find these even remotely believable. Talk of random men, trollops and morality. Anyway.....

What can you do? Go back to Spain or put up with it, seeing as you can't afford your own accommodation and your parents and sister aren't inclined to ban this chap for the duration of your visit.

HTH

WatchingFromTheWings · 01/08/2017 14:13

I'll say what I said on the other post. You either find somewhere else to stay or you go home. It's none of your business what your sister does in her home and you have no right to dictate to your parents what they do or don't allow to go on in their house.

And I'm not a troll either...

FrogAndFriggit · 01/08/2017 14:13

It's your parents house so there rules. If you don't like get a hotel Hmm

bloodymaria · 01/08/2017 14:14

Decent advice - unclench and enjoy your holiday. Don't worry about other people's sexual pleasures, it makes you sound like a perv.

PickAChew · 01/08/2017 14:14

Why would she sleep with a man without it being for her own pleasure? Sex isn't meant to be a chore.

And if it's "a man" then presumably she isn't bringing back just anyone.

Were all of your children conceived while their older siblings were not at home?

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