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Clash between - racist adults and my very impulsive 2yo

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FeelingAnxious31 · 06/08/2024 13:18

Honestly what is going on.

I've name changed for this as I feel a bit silly having my usual username.

I live in a northern town and have been going out as usual. I work as a psychiatrist (on maternity leave) so I'm very used to conflict resolution and don't feel "scared" " easily.

My 2yo son, (today of all days) is going on a pushing rampage! I felt so bad for the kids, as any parent does but I can't predict/prevent everything. I also have a 1yo. It's not usual behaviour for him and I think he is going through a mental leap of experiencing anger.

I am very visibly Muslim and on both occasions the dad's honestly looked like they were going to punch someone. They both had their fists locked tight and one actually flinched towards my son. If I wasn't so normal, kind and apologetic about it, it definitely would have escalated.

I've received so many glaring looks and some racist comments. It's making me feel a bit low. I do empathise with those who are feeling frustrated with austerity and to those from low income families. I'm especially feeling sad because so many of those who are rioting are from similar backgrounds to my patients. Patients who can be kind to me when they see me as their Psychiatrist but racist to me in the streets.

I'm not sure how to feel. I'm mostly disappointed and now slightly anxious. How is everyone else feeling?

OP posts:
DancingintheSpoonlight · 07/08/2024 13:58

This is such a normal toddler behaviour and sounds like you’re doing everything most people would do!

I got to a certain stage with mine when it did go on a while that I removed him completely and took a break from groups, which is so hard! Plus they learn from your reasonable reaction in the setting. Also difficult with more than one child to entertain!

Im so so sorry you experienced these reactions.

Its sickening some peoples prejudice extends to children, let alone what they think in the first place.

Hagr1d · 07/08/2024 14:13

mightymam · 07/08/2024 12:36

This has just been shared on our local Facebook group. Stay safe OP and encourage your mosque to up their security:

Have you reported this to the police? It may even help as evidence in court if /when they are convicted.

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