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Women and Heavy Metal

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Maatandosiris · 08/09/2023 18:33

Having come across some v misogynistic attitudes across social media on heavy metal boards I thought I would start a thread were is women fans of all things hard and heavy could hang out, feel free to say hi.

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VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 29/12/2023 22:01

Maatandosiris · 08/09/2023 19:45

God I love Nightwish, the stars have never aligned to see them live though, what are they like? the atmosphere always looks incredible. Think Steve Harris once said they’re really the only band who’s fans rival maidens.

Amazing. Floor's voice is perfect for Tuomas's writing.

BMTHGlasgow · 29/12/2023 22:12

I have pulled up my big girl pants and am going to see Bring Me the Horizon next month by myself. I'm kind of nervous though about going alone but to be honest once the band starts who cares, I just want to dance.

pardonmytits · 30/12/2023 08:44

BMTHGlasgow Ah well done - hope you have a great time!

Maatandosiris · 31/12/2023 20:50

BMTHGlasgow · 29/12/2023 22:12

I have pulled up my big girl pants and am going to see Bring Me the Horizon next month by myself. I'm kind of nervous though about going alone but to be honest once the band starts who cares, I just want to dance.

Great, I’m so pleased! Let us know what it’s like -bet it will be amazing

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whoscoatsthatjacket2012 · 01/01/2024 09:33

Happy New Year Rockers

OhGetFucked · 01/01/2024 11:57

Happy New Year! I'm off for a wander wearing my new Sleep Token hoodie 😁

ANiceBigCupOfTea · 01/01/2024 17:07

I know it's not Heavy Metal but is anyone going to the Smashing Pumpkins on their tour this year?

Frenchyq25 · 01/01/2024 20:48

ANiceBigCupOfTea · 01/01/2024 17:07

I know it's not Heavy Metal but is anyone going to the Smashing Pumpkins on their tour this year?

I really want to as Weezer is on my list of bands I want to see live.

Maatandosiris · 01/01/2024 22:34

Happy New Year "Droogies, boozers, strumpets and losers” (for those old enough to remember Krusher!!😀

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ANiceBigCupOfTea · 07/01/2024 13:56

Frenchyq25 · 01/01/2024 20:48

I really want to as Weezer is on my list of bands I want to see live.

We've booked for Dublin and I'm really excited for it.
I did want to get tickets for Tool as well but I'm in Belfast and they're not coming to Ireland at all so would have to go England and it would be about 400 quid in total with tickets, flights and accommodation.

BMTHGlasgow · 13/01/2024 20:58

I'm going to Bring Me The Horizon tomorrow in Glasgow tragically alone. I'm really excited about Bad Omens too, who are supporting.

But I'm really embarrassed to get going by myself, and keep thinking I shouldn't bother going.

I dunno.

Maatandosiris · 13/01/2024 21:12

BMTHGlasgow · 13/01/2024 20:58

I'm going to Bring Me The Horizon tomorrow in Glasgow tragically alone. I'm really excited about Bad Omens too, who are supporting.

But I'm really embarrassed to get going by myself, and keep thinking I shouldn't bother going.

I dunno.

Oh please go. Post on here how you get on and we’ll be HM sisters in spirit with you. Once the show starts you’ll be so glad you went!

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pardonmytits · 13/01/2024 21:48

You definitely should go. Big breaths and go!

lazarusb · 13/01/2024 21:51

Definitely go - I'm sure it will be an amazing gig. My daughter is very miffed she missed out on tickets for this tour. Have a great time, you won't regret it.

BMTHGlasgow · 14/01/2024 11:44

Wobbling about it today. Will definitely go but feel quite sad that it's alone. I don't know anyone else into the same music as me and it feels lame.

Although I do have a ticket for another gig in a few weeks that'll also be me alone, so I'm using this as a test run for how stupid and conspicuous I feel.

Maatandosiris · 14/01/2024 12:44

BMTHGlasgow · 14/01/2024 11:44

Wobbling about it today. Will definitely go but feel quite sad that it's alone. I don't know anyone else into the same music as me and it feels lame.

Although I do have a ticket for another gig in a few weeks that'll also be me alone, so I'm using this as a test run for how stupid and conspicuous I feel.

You won’t be conspicuous, I often go to the theatre alone I just chat to the people next to me, watch the play then leave. It’s great, get to chat to others, get to see something I want to.

it would be awful to go through life not doing something because you’re imagining what others think. Post some pictures here give us some updates how it’s going. We’ll be there in spirit with you

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BMTHGlasgow · 14/01/2024 13:34

That's so nice of you. I think I'm down because I would likely have gone to this with a friend, and she's moved away and we've lost touch really. So it just feels a bit sad!

Maatandosiris · 14/01/2024 20:09

BMTHGlasgow · 14/01/2024 13:34

That's so nice of you. I think I'm down because I would likely have gone to this with a friend, and she's moved away and we've lost touch really. So it just feels a bit sad!

Oh sorry to hear that, who knows you might find a new friend tonight. Hope you’re enjoying yourself.

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BMTHGlasgow · 15/01/2024 00:43

@Maatandosiris I went, and had a brilliant time. Just chatted to people around me, and it was quite chill to be able to just please myself really.

Thanks for your encouragement, it was kind and I appreciate it.

Maatandosiris · 15/01/2024 06:49

BMTHGlasgow · 15/01/2024 00:43

@Maatandosiris I went, and had a brilliant time. Just chatted to people around me, and it was quite chill to be able to just please myself really.

Thanks for your encouragement, it was kind and I appreciate it.

So glad you enjoyed yourself. Hope you’re looking forward to the next one in a few weeks. Who are you seeing?

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BMTHGlasgow · 15/01/2024 07:31

Del Water Gap. Not heavy metal!

WhenWereYouUnderMe · 29/01/2024 20:08

I have a question: can ANY of you read that heavy metal font?? I find it almost impossible and feel ashamed of my metal credentials 😁

Maatandosiris · 29/01/2024 20:25

WhenWereYouUnderMe · 29/01/2024 20:08

I have a question: can ANY of you read that heavy metal font?? I find it almost impossible and feel ashamed of my metal credentials 😁

Sorry what heavy metal font?

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AwkwardPaws27 · 29/01/2024 21:42

WhenWereYouUnderMe · 29/01/2024 20:08

I have a question: can ANY of you read that heavy metal font?? I find it almost impossible and feel ashamed of my metal credentials 😁

I know what you mean! Usually find the logo fonts for black metal or death metal bands v tricky to decipher. Thankfully a lot of festivals offer a plain font version of line ups now!

WhenWereYouUnderMe · 29/01/2024 21:48

Like this @Maatandosiris - impenetrable to me! My friend is in a band that uses this font and I mostly pretend to be able to work out when his next gig is...

Women and Heavy Metal